<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-459873339663141424</id><updated>2012-02-14T11:36:06.301-08:00</updated><category term='Toronto'/><category term='technology'/><category term='Internet'/><category term='relations'/><category term='Castle (TV series)'/><category term='hatred'/><category term='divorce'/><category term='politics'/><category term='humour'/><category term='music'/><category term='Art'/><category term='Management'/><category term='philosophy'/><category term='Google'/><category term='theatre review'/><category term='Electricity'/><category term='NaNoWriMo'/><category term='U.S. Politics'/><category term='pornography'/><category term='travel'/><category term='anonymity'/><category term='survey'/><category term='Extremism'/><category term='society'/><category term='food'/><category term='Sex'/><category term='sports'/><category term='book review'/><category term='Canadian Politics'/><category term='religion'/><category term='on my own'/><category term='Canada'/><category term='My Life'/><category term='Toronto Mayoral Race'/><category term='G20 Summit'/><category term='movie review'/><category term='Abortion'/><category term='writing'/><category term='fiction'/><category term='health'/><category term='Blog'/><category term='science'/><title type='text'>William Quincy Belle</title><subtitle type='html'>just on a whim</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default?start-index=101&amp;max-results=100'/><author><name>William Quincy Belle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14337095766556949027</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7AgI-NaU0yc/Tmizm7ksylI/AAAAAAAABHI/kyOqXigj7hY/s220/Seattle.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>587</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-459873339663141424.post-4474609735932380587</id><published>2012-02-14T06:05:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2012-02-14T07:35:45.170-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Abortion'/><title type='text'>Abortion: If we make it illegal, the problem will go away</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/--t-t_ZHh9EU/TzpTa4YQVyI/AAAAAAAABYY/SM40mcyq2BU/s1600/Abortion-is-a-personal-decision.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/--t-t_ZHh9EU/TzpTa4YQVyI/AAAAAAAABYY/SM40mcyq2BU/s1600/Abortion-is-a-personal-decision.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;i&gt;Reprinted from June 25, 2010&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My wife and I watched a news item on television last night which stated that every year 25,000 women die from unsafe abortions in Africa and 1.7 million are injured. Due to the restrictive laws governing abortions in almost all African countries, virtually all of the 5.6 million abortions performed annually in Africa are unsafe. Apparently only about 100,000 of them are performed by trained professionals in a safe environment. The news item went on the cover various religious groups in these African countries who are lobbying to keep abortions illegal and one minister who was interviewed proudly said that he has having a big impact in maintaining laws which make abortions illegal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This news item is all that much more important considering it was shown on the backdrop of the G20 summit occurring in Toronto. Apparently the G8 which met just before the G20 has made a commitment of $5 billion for maternal-and-child health. However, Canada's leader, Stephen Harper is clearly not supporting any funding or support for abortions within this aid. Stephen Harper as a representative of the conservative movement within Canada follows not just a political path but a personal vision that by outlawing abortion, he can make the entire issue of abortion go away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the United States, Barack Obama recently succeeded in enacting a much needed reform in the health care system of his nation. Unfortunately, to do so, he was obliged to make certain sacrifices, certain trade-offs one of which saw him banning the use of federal funds to pay for abortions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From the above items, I can surmise that there is a strong pro-life movement which has a far reaching effect on politicians and their politic decisions. However, despite their best efforts, the efforts of these pro-lifers, has the problem of abortion been improved never mind been solved?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The statistics vary from source to source but the one conclusion is that every year there are a lot of abortions happening; approximately 42 million abortions worldwide. According to the Guttmacher Institute, "an American non-profit organization which works to advance sexual and reproductive health", unintended pregnancies account for almost half of all pregnancies and 4 out of 10 unintended pregnancies end in abortion. (I just found some statistics which suggest there are approximately 130 million births worldwide annually and 57 million deaths. Do the stats presented by various sources match up?)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In March 2009, the Pope visited Africa and during his trip he reaffirmed the church's ban on the use of condoms. Never mind talking about pregnancy, the numbers related to AIDS were staggering. At that moment, 22 million people were infected with HIV in Africa; there were 11.4 orphans because of AIDS; 1.5 million had died of AIDS in Africa in 2007 and 25 million had died in the past 20 years. But I digress.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let me recap by returning to the pro-life argument. Abortion is murder. We're all against murder, right? We should all be against abortion.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I look at the above numbers and I have to ask by paraphrasing Dr. Phil of American television, "So, how's that working out for ya?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am confronted by a gap, no a chasm between the supposed ideal of having no abortions in the world and what's actually going on. The Canadian leader Stephan Harper does not want to support abortions. There were over 70,000 abortions in Canada in the past year. Barack Obama was forced by various groups to stop federal funding on abortions. In the United States there were over 1.7 million abortions in the past year. Every year there are over 42 million abortions worldwide. How to explain this dichotomy?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In an ideal world, no one would have sex outside of marriage; we would all abstain. Is that happening? I would say the answer is an emphatic no and this leads me to ask the question. If abstinence isn't working; if banning condoms isn't working; if making abortion illegal isn't working; are we collectively dealing with the problem in a manner which would be deemed in any way effective?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Albert Einstein supposedly said, "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The numbers above would indicate that current policies have failed to stop abortion. At what point do we collectively assess the situation and arrive new policies, new methods with dealing with this issue?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If I set aside for the moment the idea that abortion is murder, I have to recognize that abortion is an invasive procedure. Anything invasive like surgery is something we would all like to avoid. This isn't good for the body; in fact, depending on the level of health care, it may be dangerous if not fatal. Nevertheless, women are electing to do this. Despite the danger, despite the risk of fatality, women are electing to do this. Why? We make abortion illegal; women do it illegally. We try to take away condoms; women continue to get pregnant. We ask for abstinence; people still have sex.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wait! I just said that "people" still have sex. Oh yes, women get pregnant from having sex with men. Hey, here's a radical idea; why don't we give all men a vasectomy? I can just hear you saying, "Now don't be ridiculous." Has anybody noticed that the people making abortion illegal are for the most part men, male politicians? Has anybody noticed that the Pope who bans condoms is a man? Has anybody noticed that the pro-lifers advocating abstinence seem to be lead by men? It takes two to tango. If we can't stop abortions from happening; why not attempt to stop women from getting pregnant? This, of course, takes into account just how women get pregnant and that's from men.  Yep, that's right. All these women wanting to get abortions became pregnant because a man had sex with them. How come I never see anything about the guy in question?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am against abortion. It is a surgical procedure; it is invasive; depending on the quality of the medical care, it could be dangerous; it could be fatal; it should be stopped completely.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But, getting from where we collectively were to the point where abortion no longer existed, where abortion was no longer even necessary never mind wanted, involved more than just laws making abortion illegal. Society needed to support and promote sex education. Ignorance was very much a big part of the cause of the entire problem. Society had to support and to promote the use of condoms. Society had to admit that no matter what we do, we cannot stop people from having sex. Sex is natural; it is primordial; it is part of our make-up of human beings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But most importantly, to get to this point which admittedly is an idealistic, Utopian like point in the development of our society, we have to admit that abortion will have to be an option. As I stated at the beginning of this essay, every year 25,000 women die from botched abortions in Africa. Do we cavalierly stand by observing this situation while saying it is the fault of the person, no, the woman who decided to have the abortion? If I think of those who claim to be against the supposed murdering of a fetus, it is interesting to note how they seem quite unconcerned about these 25,000 women dying.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am against abortion. I would like to see the day where there were no abortions at all. But, as long as men keep having sex with women, I don't see that happening.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am for the woman making her own choice. It is her body; I believe she should be allowed to control it. But, I would want to support her in every way possible by avoiding the critical, life-altering decision of having an abortion. I would want to promote sex education; I would want to see condoms readily available; I would like to see contraceptives for everyone. Let's just quite plainly not let the problem get so big that abortion is even on the table as a necessary solution.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, for those how read this but are against sex education, against the use of condoms, against contraceptives and all for abstinence, I can only say it ain't workin'. The numbers show it; admit it. Let's get over the "how" and work together to get rid of abortion. If a woman doesn't have an abortion because the man used a condom; I'm for it. If a woman didn't have an abortion because she used a contraceptive; I'm for it. If a woman didn't have an abortion because she and the man had sex education; I'm for it. For everyone who is against the killing of the baby, don't forget that a botched abortion which kills the woman results in 2 deaths.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An analogy: If we make firetrucks illegal, can we assume that all fires will automatically stop?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In other words, making abortions illegal does not stop abortions. It merely makes the woman in question so desperate, she would risk her own life. So the law makers in wanting to save the life of the child end up killing the mother. There has to be a better way. If all pregnancies were "wanted" pregnancies, there would be no abortions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a nutshell, I am pro-choice and anti-abortion. I am for the woman having the choice but would sincerely hope that we all arrive someday at a point where there is no need for a woman to even have to choose an abortion.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;References&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Internet is full of statistics, facts and opinions. It is hard to sort out what's what: what's the truth; what's somebody's opinion.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://womensissues.about.com/od/reproductiverights/tp/Ten-Abortion-Facts.htm" target="_blank"&gt;Abortion Facts: the United States&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;1. Unintended pregnancies account for almost half of all pregnancies.&lt;br /&gt;2. Four out of ten unintended pregnancies end in abortion.&lt;br /&gt;3. Out of the total number of pregnancies, 24% end in abortion.&lt;br /&gt;4. For women ages 15-44, two out of every hundred have an abortion. Of these, 48% have had one or more abortions previously.&lt;br /&gt;5. For women choosing abortion, 52% are under 25. Teenagers account for 19%, and women 20-24 account for 33%.&lt;br /&gt;6. Black women are almost four times as likely to have an abortion as white women. For Latino women, the number is 2.5 times.&lt;br /&gt;7. Women who have never been married account for 2/3rds of all abortions.&lt;br /&gt;8. The majority of women who choose abortions have already given birth. Mothers who have had one or more children comprise over 60% of all abortions.&lt;br /&gt;9. Women who have never used any birth control method account for 8% of abortions.&lt;br /&gt;10. For women having abortions, 43% are Protestant and 27% identify as Catholic.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.guttmacher.org/" target="_blank"&gt;The Guttmacher Institute&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;About&lt;br /&gt;Four decades after its creation, the Guttmacher Institute continues to advance sexual and reproductive health and rights through an interrelated program of research, policy analysis and public education designed to generate new ideas, encourage enlightened public debate and promote sound policy and program development. The Institute’s overarching goal is to ensure the highest standard of sexual and reproductive health for all people worldwide.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Institute produces a wide range of resources on topics pertaining to sexual and reproductive health, including Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health, International Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health and the Guttmacher Policy Review. In 2009, Guttmacher was designated an official Collaborating Center for Reproductive Health by the World Health Organization and its regional office, the Pan American Health Organization.&lt;/i&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Guttmacher_Institute" target="_blank"&gt;The Guttmacher Institute&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Guttmacher Institute is a non-profit organization which works to advance reproductive health including abortion rights. The institute operates in the United States and globally "through an interrelated program of social science research, policy analysis and public education." According to their mission statement, this program aims to "generate new ideas, encourage enlightened public debate, promote sound policy and program development and, ultimately, inform individual decision making."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Women's Guide to the University of Chicago&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wguide.uchicago.edu/6pregnancy.html"&gt;Pregnancy and Post-Pregnancy Options&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;For many reasons, including a relative lack of access to family planning services and sex education, the United States has one of the highest abortion rates among developed countries. Each year, nearly three out of one hundred women have abortions. Forty-three percent of these women have had at least one previous abortion and 49% have had a previous birth. Since abortion was legalized in 1973, it has saved the lives and health of countless women. In 1965, illegal abortion accounted for nearly 17% of deaths due to pregnancy and childbirth. By 1985, the risk of dying from a legal abortion had decreased to 0.4 deaths per 100,000 legal abortions. 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Nothing!)&lt;br /&gt;Always look on the right side of life...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(spoken)&lt;br /&gt;Nothing will come from nothing, you know what they say?&lt;br /&gt;Cheer up you old bugger, c'mon give us a grin!&lt;br /&gt;There you are, see, it's the end of the film&lt;br /&gt;Incidentally, this record is available in the foyer&lt;br /&gt;Some of us have to got live as well, you know&lt;br /&gt;Who do you think pays for all this rubbish&lt;br /&gt;They're not gonna make their money back, you know&lt;br /&gt;I told them, I said to them, Bernie, I said they'll never make their money back&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-b3iySqshtO8/TzbSEep9TqI/AAAAAAAABYQ/5q3A9uIY7cU/s1600/MonthPython-AlwaysLookOnTheBrightSideOfLife.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-b3iySqshtO8/TzbSEep9TqI/AAAAAAAABYQ/5q3A9uIY7cU/s1600/MonthPython-AlwaysLookOnTheBrightSideOfLife.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by MonteCristo37 on Jun 11, 2009&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Always_Look_on_the_Bright_Side_of_Life"&gt;Always Look on the Bright Side of Life&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Always Look on the Bright Side of Life" is a comedy song written by Eric Idle that was originally featured in the 1979 film Monty Python's Life of Brian and has gone on to become a common singalong at public events such as football matches as well as funerals.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The song touched a chord with the British trait of stoicism and the 'stiff upper lip' in the face of disaster, and became immensely popular. When the destroyer HMS Sheffield was struck by an Exocet cruise missile on May 4, 1982 in the Falklands War, her crew sang it while waiting to be rescued from their sinking ship, as did the crew of HMS Coventry.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;When Chapman died on October 4, 1989, the five remaining Python members, as well as Chapman's close relations, came together at his private funeral to sing "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life" as part of Idle's eulogy. In 2005, a survey by Music Choice showed that it was the third most popular song Britons would like played at their funerals.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eric_Idle"&gt;Eric Idle&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Eric Idle (born 29 March 1943) is an English comedian, actor, author, singer, writer, and comedic composer. He was as a member of the British surreal comedy group Monty Python, a member of the The Rutles on Saturday Night Live and the author of the Broadway play, Spamalot.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monty_Python%27s_Life_of_Brian"&gt;Monty Python's Life of Brian&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Monty Python's Life of Brian, also known as Life of Brian, is a 1979 British comedy film written, directed and largely performed by the Monty Python comedy team. It tells the story of Brian Cohen (played by Graham Chapman), a young Jewish man who is born on the same day as, and next door to, Jesus Christ, and is subsequently mistaken for the Messiah.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monty_Python"&gt;Monty Python&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Monty Python (sometimes known as The Pythons) was a British surreal comedy group who created Monty Python's Flying Circus, a British television comedy sketch show that first aired on the BBC on 5 October 1969. Forty-five episodes were made over four series. The Python phenomenon developed from the television series into something larger in scope and impact, spawning touring stage shows, films, numerous albums, several books and a stage musical as well as launching the members to individual stardom. 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text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-NhAjviQ1Ft8/Ty7f31pqG5I/AAAAAAAABYI/brQUP4dr6ZU/s1600/CeeLoGreen-ItsOK.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-NhAjviQ1Ft8/Ty7f31pqG5I/AAAAAAAABYI/brQUP4dr6ZU/s1600/CeeLoGreen-ItsOK.jpeg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by CeeLoGreen on Dec 2, 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/It%27s_OK_%28Cee_Lo_Green_song%29" target="_blank"&gt;It's OK&lt;/a&gt; (Cee Lo Green song)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"It's OK" is the second single from American soul singer Cee Lo Green's third studio album, The Lady Killer. The song is produced by Element, and written by Cee Lo, Element and Noel Fisher. The single was released on December 27, 2010 and has so far peaked at number 20 on the UK Singles Chart. In the UK the single made BBC Radio 1's A-Playlist (which is argued to be its "most influential playlist.")&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Music video&lt;br /&gt;The official video for "It's OK" was released to YouTube on December 2, 2010, and features Solange Knowles. Gil Kaufman published this summary of the video for MTV.com:&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cee Lo makes his way down a neon-lit city street in the clip as he tries to woo three very different lovely ladies. Like the viral-bomb video for his Grammy bait "Fuck You!", the new one mixes live-action footage with stylized, cartoony graphics spotlighting the singer's name, the song title and key lyric phrases, while adding a picture-frame device that highlights the three objects of his affection. Looking dapper in a pin-striped tuxedo with oversized black bowtie, Cee Lo checks his look as the clip unfolds, while the women dance in their candy-colored outfits. One looks demure in a long, flowing blue gown, another hip and fun in a short yellow shirt dress and matching tights and the third sexy in a tight red minidress. Standing next to hand-drawn images of their fingers snapping along to the song's Motown bounce, Cee Lo starts making his way down the street mooning about a girlfriend whose perfume he can still smell on his sheets, but who has abandoned him. As he reminds her that "It's OK to say that you love me/ I think of you, still thinking of you," Cee sits in a chair while his yellow-dress beauty shows him some of her sexiest dance moves. By the time he gets to his "legendary" blue-dress lady, Green is ready to put a tiara on his queen and waltz her around the room while the song's lyrics are scrawled across the screen. He breaks into his crooner mode for the lady in red, who emerges from a bathtub filled with roses in lingerie to share a drink with the singer on the couch. The ladies — who also served as his backup singers in the "Fuck You!" clip — then dance behind Cee Lo as he sings the song's chorus with an evening skyline behind him. Combined with the earlier video, Green is clearly going for a consistent theme in his Lady Killer promo pieces, reaching back for a classic look and performance-oriented feel that fits with the album's elegant, soul-throwback sound.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solange_Knowles" target="_blank"&gt;Solange Knowles&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Solange Piaget Knowles (born June 24, 1986), who performs under the mononym Solange, is an American singer-songwriter, actress, model, dancer, and DJ. Knowles was born and raised in Houston, Texas along with her older sister singer Beyoncé, a former member of R&amp;amp;B group Destiny's Child. Showing an interest in music recording at an early age, she eventually broke into the music scene at 16. She has released two studios albums: Solo Star in 2003 and Sol-Angel and the Hadley St. Dreams in 2008, which peaked at number nine in the US Billboard 200 chart.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Lady_Killer_%28album%29" target="_blank"&gt;The Lady Killer&lt;/a&gt; (album)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Lady Killer is the third studio album by American recording artist Cee Lo Green, released November 5, 2010, on Elektra Records. Production for the album was handled by Salaam Remi, Element, The Smeezingtons, Fraser T. Smith, Paul Epworth, and Jack Splash during 2009 to 2010.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The album debuted at number nine on the US Billboard 200 chart, selling 41,000 copies in its first week. It achieved respectable chart success elsewhere and produced three singles, including the international hit "Fuck You". The album has sold 337,700 copies in the United States, and it has been certified double platinum in the United Kingdom. Upon its release, The Lady Killer received generally positive reviews from music critics, who commended its production, classicist soul music approach, and Green's singing.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cee_Lo_Green" target="_blank"&gt;Cee Lo Green&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Thomas DeCarlo Callaway (born May 30, 1974), better known by his stage name Cee Lo Green, is an American singer-songwriter, rapper, record producer and actor. He originally came to prominence as a member of the southern hip hop group Goodie Mob, later launching a critically acclaimed solo career and forming Gnarls Barkley with DJ Danger Mouse.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Personal Note&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Holy cow! I have never of this guy before. He's fabulous!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2012-02-07&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/wqbelle" target="_blank"&gt;Follow me on Twitter &lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvjllt5gxI/AAAAAAAAAns/8GFdNjTyiKU/s1600/icon-Twitter.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; 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text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-EWrNUwf0bTQ/Ty7Rp3bUfyI/AAAAAAAABYA/E_alkG0Ye3s/s1600/CeeLoGreen-CryBaby.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-EWrNUwf0bTQ/Ty7Rp3bUfyI/AAAAAAAABYA/E_alkG0Ye3s/s1600/CeeLoGreen-CryBaby.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by CeeLoGreen on Aug 8, 2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cry_Baby_%28Cee_Lo_Green_song%29" target="_blank"&gt;Cry Baby&lt;/a&gt; (Cee Lo Green song)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Cry Baby" is the fifth official single from American soul singer Cee Lo Green's third studio album, The Lady Killer. The single was released via digital download and promotional CD single on October 10, 2011. The single version of the track is a slightly different remix of the track, featuring a slightly faster beat and tempo. The music video for the song was premiered on August 8, 2011 through Cee Lo Green's official YouTube channel. The single has so far peaked at #58 on the UK Singles Chart due to strong downloads from The Lady Killer.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Music video&lt;br /&gt;The music video features Jaleel White performing as Cee-Lo Green, as Green was unavilable for filming at the time. The video features White leaving his girlfriend (Tanya Chisholm), and claiming to feel like the bad guy for doing so. He is subsequently surrounded by a group of girls in the street, who begin dancing alongside him and performing the song.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jaleel_White" target="_blank"&gt;Jaleel White&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Jaleel Ahmad White (born November 27, 1976) is an American actor and screenwriter. He is best known for his role as Steve Urkel from Family Matters and voicing the character of Sonic the Hedgehog and other characters for Sonic the Hedgehog media.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Lady_Killer_%28album%29" target="_blank"&gt;The Lady Killer&lt;/a&gt; (album)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Lady Killer is the third studio album by American recording artist Cee Lo Green, released November 5, 2010, on Elektra Records. Production for the album was handled by Salaam Remi, Element, The Smeezingtons, Fraser T. Smith, Paul Epworth, and Jack Splash during 2009 to 2010.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The album debuted at number nine on the US Billboard 200 chart, selling 41,000 copies in its first week. It achieved respectable chart success elsewhere and produced three singles, including the international hit "Fuck You". The album has sold 337,700 copies in the United States, and it has been certified double platinum in the United Kingdom. Upon its release, The Lady Killer received generally positive reviews from music critics, who commended its production, classicist soul music approach, and Green's singing.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cee_Lo_Green" target="_blank"&gt;Cee Lo Green&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Thomas DeCarlo Callaway (born May 30, 1974), better known by his stage name Cee Lo Green, is an American singer-songwriter, rapper, record producer and actor. He originally came to prominence as a member of the southern hip hop group Goodie Mob, later launching a critically acclaimed solo career and forming Gnarls Barkley with DJ Danger Mouse.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Personal Note&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Holy cow! I have never of this guy before. 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(ain't that some shit?)&lt;br /&gt;And although there's pain in my chest&lt;br /&gt;I still wish you the best with a...&lt;br /&gt;Fuck you!&lt;br /&gt;Oo, oo, ooo&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yeah i'm sorry, i can't afford a ferrari,&lt;br /&gt;But that don't mean i can't get you there.&lt;br /&gt;I guess he's an xbox and i'm more atari,&lt;br /&gt;But the way you play your game ain't fair.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I picture the fool that falls in love with you&lt;br /&gt;(oh shit she's a gold digger)&lt;br /&gt;Well&lt;br /&gt;(just thought you should know nigga)&lt;br /&gt;Ooooooh&lt;br /&gt;I've got some news for you&lt;br /&gt;Yeah go run and tell your little boyfriend&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(chorus)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now i know, that i had to borrow,&lt;br /&gt;Beg and steal and lie and cheat.&lt;br /&gt;Trying to keep ya, trying to please ya.&lt;br /&gt;'Cause being in love with you ass ain't cheap.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I picture the fool that falls in love with you&lt;br /&gt;(oh shit she's a gold digger)&lt;br /&gt;Well&lt;br /&gt;(just thought you should know nigga)&lt;br /&gt;Ooooooh&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've got some news for you&lt;br /&gt;i really hate yo ass right now&lt;br /&gt;(chorus)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now baby, baby, baby, why d'you wanna wanna hurt me so bad?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(so bad, so bad, so bad)&lt;br /&gt;I tried to tell my mamma but she told me&lt;br /&gt;"this is one for your dad"&lt;br /&gt;(your dad, your dad, your dad)&lt;br /&gt;Uh! Whhhy? Uh! Whhhy? Uh!&lt;br /&gt;Whhhy lady? Oh! I love you oh!&lt;br /&gt;I still love you. Oooh!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(chorus)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BrRupYD6dUw/Ty6vzhcCPoI/AAAAAAAABX4/jjN_WjrW9Go/s1600/CeeLoGreen-FuckYou.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BrRupYD6dUw/Ty6vzhcCPoI/AAAAAAAABX4/jjN_WjrW9Go/s1600/CeeLoGreen-FuckYou.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by CeeLoGreen on Sep 1, 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fuck_You_%28Cee_Lo_Green_song%29"&gt;Fuck You&lt;/a&gt; (Cee Lo Green song)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Fuck You!", also titled "Forget You" or "FU" for edited versions, is a single by American recording artist Cee Lo Green. It was released on August 19, 2010 as the first single from his third studio album, The Lady Killer.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Music video&lt;br /&gt;The official music video was released on September 1, 2010. The video was directed by Matt Stawski and was filmed at a movie prop diner located in the Sun Valley area of Los Angeles. Taking place in a diner, the video chronicles Cee Lo's misadventures with a girl he has a crush on, known as "The Heartbreaker" throughout the video. In the beginning, a young Cee Lo goes into the diner with his parents and goes up to the Heartbreaker, who is sitting with another boy. He offers to let the Heartbreaker play with his toy garbage truck, but she ignores him and walks away with the other boy, who has a toy Ferrari F40. In his high school years, Cee Lo works at the diner as a chef. He attempts to woo the Heartbreaker with a bouquet of flowers but slips on fries deliberately dropped by another boy. The flowers fly out of his hand and land on a much younger girl's lap. During his college years, Cee Lo studies in the diner with another woman, implied to be his music tutor. He then attempts to woo the Heartbreaker by having the waitress draw a heart-shaped ketchup mark on her hot dog plate, but the Heartbreaker approaches him with a basket of fries and spills them on his shirt, leaving a large ketchup stain on it. Cee Lo then goes through an epiphany in his life and the video fast-forwards to present day, when Cee Lo is now known as "The Lady Killer" and has a fancy Cadillac Eldorado with his backup singers in the back seat. He drives past the diner to find the Heartbreaker working there, sweeping the front entrance while others are dancing behind her. Cee Lo waves at the Heartbreaker before driving away. The final shot is of him waving at the camera and the words "The Lady Killer" appearing on screen, before the shot freezes, thus ending the video.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Lady_Killer_%28album%29"&gt;The Lady Killer&lt;/a&gt; (album)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Lady Killer is the third studio album by American recording artist Cee Lo Green, released November 5, 2010, on Elektra Records. Production for the album was handled by Salaam Remi, Element, The Smeezingtons, Fraser T. Smith, Paul Epworth, and Jack Splash during 2009 to 2010.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The album debuted at number nine on the US Billboard 200 chart, selling 41,000 copies in its first week. It achieved respectable chart success elsewhere and produced three singles, including the international hit "Fuck You". The album has sold 337,700 copies in the United States, and it has been certified double platinum in the United Kingdom. Upon its release, The Lady Killer received generally positive reviews from music critics, who commended its production, classicist soul music approach, and Green's singing.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cee_Lo_Green"&gt;Cee Lo Green&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Thomas DeCarlo Callaway (born May 30, 1974), better known by his stage name Cee Lo Green, is an American singer-songwriter, rapper, record producer and actor. He originally came to prominence as a member of the southern hip hop group Goodie Mob, later launching a critically acclaimed solo career and forming Gnarls Barkley with DJ Danger Mouse.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Personal Note&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Holy cow! I have never heard of this guy before. (I lead a sheltered life? Ha!) He's fabulous!!! This video is terrific and quite hilarious. (Enough superlatives?) Many, many thanks to &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://bitterdivorcee.com/2012/02/02/truck-nuts-love-and-gardens/"&gt;Annie Parker&lt;/a&gt; for putting me onto to him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Extras!!!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by CeeLoGreen on Sep 28, 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bKxodgpyGec"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Forget You&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; by Cee Lo Green&lt;br /&gt;This is the "clean version" of the song which replaces the title profanity with this softer expression and masks the others. While it is amusing to see what the producers did to make a version which could be aired on radio, it does lack the emotional punch of the original version.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by amrobi314 on Dec 18, 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;"Fuck you" Sign language performance&lt;/b&gt; by Anna&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;My name is Anna and this is my final for a college level sign language class. I am not deaf and still learning sign language and encourage others to learn sign language as well! Thank you so much for all the love&lt;/i&gt; - Ha. Ha. Ha. Viewed over three million times!!!! 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font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;"&gt;Politics&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="display: inline-table;"&gt;&lt;a href="#pornography"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOSoN1wXIcI/AAAAAAAAAm4/_SzYUG0uISg/s1600/icon-YieldExclamation.jpg" style="border: 0px none;" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;"&gt;Pornography&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="display: inline-table;"&gt;&lt;a href="#science"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-YeE1_Akwtik/Tn9M7x7_aTI/AAAAAAAABKY/BhP71Ud0szE/s1600/icon-atom.png" style="border: 0px none;" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;"&gt;Science/Technology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="display: inline-table;"&gt;&lt;a href="#sex"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOMyVJ2KN2I/AAAAAAAAAmU/wYPP7Ll6Yfk/s1600/icon-sex.jpg" style="border: 0px none;" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;"&gt;Sex/Relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="display: inline-table;"&gt;&lt;a href="#womensrights"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOQEuC1cyFI/AAAAAAAAAmw/HVHBEB4xc2U/s1600/icon-FemaleSign.jpg" style="border: 0px none;" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;"&gt;Women's&amp;nbsp;Issues&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="2" cellspacing="0" style="margin-left: 0%; margin-right: 0%; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 100%;"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;  &lt;td style="vertical-align: top; width: 50%;"&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="" name="divorce"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-5x5e6DQIaEM/TbVn5zcbt4I/AAAAAAAAA6U/FroDvSfcUuQ/s1600/icon-Omega.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Divorce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;The end of life as we know it&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2012/01/divorce-why-im-better-off-dead.html"&gt;Divorce: Why I'm Better Off Dead&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/divorce-putting-people-in-middle.html"&gt;Divorce: Putting People in the Middle&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/divorce-rationalisation-and-joseph.html"&gt;Divorce, Rationalisation and Joseph Mengele&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/lack-of-sex-not-just-divorced-but-fined.html"&gt;Lack of sex: Not just divorced but fined!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/psycho-ex-wife-ex-bashing-taken-to-next.html"&gt;The Psycho Ex Wife: ex bashing taken to the next level&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/npd-diagnosing-that-bastard.html"&gt;NPD: Diagnosing that @#$%^* bastard&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/why-did-that-bastard-divorce-me.html"&gt;Why did that @#$%^* bastard divorce me?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/men-are-just-bunch-of-sex-addicts.html"&gt;Men are just a bunch of @#$%^* sex addicts!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/nostalgia-divorce-you-cant-go-home.html"&gt;Nostalgia, divorce: You can't go home again&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/if-situation-had-been-reversed.html"&gt;If the situation had been reversed...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/fathers-day-rehabilitation-of-fallen.html"&gt;Father's Day: the rehabilitation of a fallen man&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/war-of-divorcees.html"&gt;The War of the Divorcées&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/funny-quotes-about-marriage-and-divorce.html"&gt;Funny quotes about marriage (and divorce)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/laura-munson-save-marriage-by-doing.html"&gt;Laura Munson: Save a marriage by doing nothing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/raoul-felder-good-divorce.html"&gt;Raoul Felder: The Good Divorce&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/divorce-love-yourself-to-love-others.html"&gt;Divorce: Love yourself to love others&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/divorce-first-offer-is-usually-best.html"&gt;Divorce: The first offer is usually the best&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/marriage-doesnt-have-to-last-forever-to.html"&gt;Marriage doesn't have to last forever to be good&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/divorce-mistakes-to-avoid.html"&gt;Divorce mistakes to avoid&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/midlife-crisis.html"&gt;Midlife Crisis: Weiner-Davis vs Craig Ferguson&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/michele-weiner-davis-divorce-buster.html"&gt;Michele Weiner-Davis: The Divorce Buster&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/two-thirds-of-divorces-are-filed-by.html"&gt;Two-thirds of divorces are filed by women&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/tricia-walsh-lets-divorce-on-youtube.html"&gt;Tricia Walsh: Let's divorce on YouTube!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/blogging-your-way-through-divorce.html"&gt;Blogging your way through divorce&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/bitter-divorcee.html"&gt;The Bitter Divorcée&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/perils-of-divorced-pauline.html"&gt;Perils of Divorced Pauline&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/postcards-from-peaceful-divorce.html"&gt;Postcards From a Peaceful Divorce&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/does-divorce-make-us-happier.html"&gt;Does divorce make us happier?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="" name="sex"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOMyVJ2KN2I/AAAAAAAAAmU/wYPP7Ll6Yfk/s1600/icon-sex.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Sex/Relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;My take on a taboo subject&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/condoms-dont-work-okay-how-bout-baggie.html"&gt;Condoms don't work. Okay, how 'bout a baggie?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/jane-fonda-yogi-berra-and-grey-sex.html"&gt;Jane Fonda, Yogi Berra and Grey Sex&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/askmen-great-male-survey-2011.html"&gt;AskMen: Great Male Survey 2011&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/erectile-dysfunction-or-just-not.html"&gt;Erectile dysfunction or just not sexually aroused&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/whether-im-crazy-or-not-depends-on.html"&gt;Whether I'm crazy or not depends on the company I keep&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/men-value-snuggling-women-value-sex.html"&gt;Men value snuggling, women value sex&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/sex-fantasies-make-for-better-sex-lives.html"&gt;Sex fantasies make for better sex lives&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/happy-guys-finish-last.html"&gt;Happy Guys Finish Last&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/2011-playboy-sex-survey.html"&gt;2011 Playboy Sex Survey&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/those-who-post-lot-of-photos-on.html"&gt;Those who post lots of photos on Facebook seek attention&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/sex-men-are-always-ready-willing-and.html"&gt;Men are always ready, willing, and able&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/sex-ed-tracey-cox.html"&gt;Sex Ed: Tracey Cox&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/well-heeled-cook-food-as-sensual-part.html"&gt;The Well Heeled Cook: Food as a sensual part of sex&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/relationships-men-want-marriage-more.html"&gt;Men want marriage more than women?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/sex-ed-betty-dodson-educator-author-pro.html"&gt;Sex Ed: Betty Dodson: educator, author, pro-sex feminist&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/teenagers-and-sex-more-chaste-less.html"&gt;Teenagers and sex: More chaste, less chased&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/romance-novels-porn-for-women.html"&gt;Romance Novels: porn for women&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="sex:%20Men%20can%20be%20creeps"&gt;Men can be creeps&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/sex-men-stare-at-women-who-knew.html"&gt;Men stare at women. Who knew?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/single-people-alone-but-not-necessarily.html"&gt;Single people: alone but not necessarily lonely&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/dating-are-women-shallower-than-men.html"&gt;Dating: Are women shallower than men?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/average-life-expectancy-of-porn-star-by.html"&gt;The Average Life Expectancy Of A Porn Star by Rev. Daniel R. Jennings&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/roxy-aka-shelley-lubben-vs-porn-world.html"&gt;Roxy aka Shelley Lubben vs. the (porn) world&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/sex-and-1-reason-why-men-cheat-is.html"&gt;Sex: And the #1 reason why men cheat is...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/sex-coolidge-effect-and-why-men-are-men.html"&gt;Sex: The Coolidge Effect and why men are men&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/sex-in-digital-age.html"&gt;Sex in a Digital Age&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/me-marriage.html"&gt;The Me Marriage&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/sex-in-america.html"&gt;Sex in America&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/dating-women-react-to-romantic-songs.html"&gt;Dating: Women react to romantic songs&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/marriage-having-our-lives-witnessed.html"&gt;Marriage: Having our lives witnessed&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/my-new-years-resolution.html"&gt;Alone: My New Year's Resolution&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/relationships-spending-christmas-and.html"&gt;Relationships: Spending Christmas and the holidays alone&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/relationships-power-of-touch.html"&gt;Relationships: The Power of Touch&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/sex-on-facebook-and-twitter.html"&gt;Sex on Facebook and Twitter&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/sex-what-do-men-want.html"&gt;What do men want?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/sex-men-are-visual.html"&gt;Men are visual&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/sex-43322.html"&gt;4,3,3,2,2&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/sex-ed-dr-laura-berman.html"&gt;Sex Ed: Dr. Laura Berman&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/sex-over-50-over-hill.html"&gt;Over 50, over the hill?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/sex-men-fake-it-too.html"&gt;Men fake it too&lt;/a&gt; : &lt;i&gt;What? We can?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/sex-ed-violet-blue.html"&gt;Sex Ed: Violet Blue&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/sex-ed-scarleteen.html"&gt;Sex Ed: Scarleteen&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/sex-ed-sue-johanson.html"&gt;Sex Ed: Sue Johanson&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/sex-cindy-gallop-make-love-not-porn.html"&gt;Cindy Gallop: Make Love Not Porn&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/censorship-kill-me-but-no-sex-please.html"&gt;Censorship: Kill me but no sex please&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/carnography-vegetarians-need-not-apply.html"&gt;Carnography: Vegetarians need not apply&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/09/sex-still-dirty-after-all-these-years.html"&gt;Still Dirty After All These Years&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/09/ballroom-dancing-metaphor-for-men-and.html"&gt;Ballroom Dancing: A metaphor for men and women?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/07/sex-im-man-and-youre.html"&gt;I'm a man and you're a...&lt;/a&gt; &lt;i&gt;Well, a slut. There, I said it.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/sex-men-are-from-mars.html"&gt;Men Are From Mars&lt;/a&gt; &lt;i&gt;Yes, we certainly can be weird.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/sex-cleavage.html"&gt;Cleavage&lt;/a&gt; &lt;i&gt;Luv it, but there is a time and a place.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/sex-1-vs-99.html"&gt;1% vs. 99%&lt;/a&gt; &lt;i&gt;Amount of sex vs. importance of sex&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="" name="pornography"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOSoN1wXIcI/AAAAAAAAAm4/_SzYUG0uISg/s1600/icon-YieldExclamation.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Pornography&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;My investigative series on a controversial topic&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/pornography-investigation.html"&gt;An investigation&lt;/a&gt;: summary of the series&lt;br /&gt;* &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/pornography-statistics-laundering.html"&gt;Statistics Laundering&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/pornography-how-much-is-there-on.html"&gt;How much is there?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/pornography-searching-for-what.html"&gt;Searching for what?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/pornography-what-is-it.html"&gt;What is it?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/pornography-does-it-lead-to-crime.html"&gt;Does it lead to crime?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/pornography-defended-by-what-feminists.html"&gt;Defended by... what!?! Feminists?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/pornography-who-buys-most-conservatives.html"&gt;Who buys the most? Conservatives!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/pornography-does-it-lead-to-crime-part.html"&gt;Does it lead to crime? Part 2&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/pornography-im-confused.html"&gt;I'm confused&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/pornography-addiction.html"&gt;Is it an addiction?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/pornography-my-conclusions.html"&gt;My conclusions&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="" name="womensrights"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOQEuC1cyFI/AAAAAAAAAmw/HVHBEB4xc2U/s1600/icon-FemaleSign.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Women's Issues&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;How could I not weigh in on this one?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2012/01/open-letter-to-older-women-about-body.html"&gt;An open letter to (older) women about body image&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/slutwalk-support-our-sluts.html"&gt;Slutwalk: Support our sluts!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/justice-robert-dewar-rape-is.html"&gt;Justice Robert Dewar: rape is inconsiderate&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/men-arent-violent-and-ill-kill-you-if.html"&gt;Men aren't violent and I'll kill you if you disagree&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/great-debate-seat-up-or-seat-down.html"&gt;The Great Debate: seat up or seat down?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/honour-killings-new-term-old-idea.html"&gt;Honour Killings: new term, old idea&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/marc-lepine-in-remembrance-of-december.html"&gt;Marc Lépine: in remembrance of December 6, 1989&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/because-i-am-girl.html"&gt;Because I Am a Girl&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/face-of-anti-abortionists-neal-horsley.html"&gt;The Face of Anti-Abortionists: Neal Horsley&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/anti-abortionists-murder-by-proxy.html"&gt;Anti-Abortionists: Murder by proxy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/09/spousal-support-where-are-men.html"&gt;Spousal Support&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/cruelty-seems-to-know-no-bounds.html"&gt;Cruelty knows no bounds &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/09/abortion-my-final-word-on-unwanted.html"&gt;Abortion: My final word on unwanted pregnancy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/abortion-if-we-make-it-illegal-problem.html"&gt;Abortion: If we make it illegal, the problem will go away&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/god-hates-women.html"&gt;God Hates Women&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/in-praise-of-women.html"&gt;In Praise of Women&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="" name="mytwocents"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOQDTkJ4zdI/AAAAAAAAAms/u4-u0bvstH4/s1600/icon-2cents.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; My $0.02&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;I just had to give my opinion&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2012/01/what-do-i-know-about-rob-ford.html"&gt;What the @#$%^* do I know about Rob Ford?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2012/01/what-do-i-know-about-politics.html"&gt;What the @#$%^* do I know about politics?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2012/01/what-do-i-know.html"&gt;What the @#$%^* do I know?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/suite-bergamasque-focal-dystonia-and.html"&gt;Suite Bergamasque, Focal Dystonia and Jack Daniels&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/omg-ive-turned-into-castle-junkie.html"&gt;OMG! I've turned into a Castle junkie!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/reward-points-aint-life-grand.html"&gt;Reward Points: Ain't life grand?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/anonymity-and-freedom-to-do-anything.html"&gt;Anonymity and the freedom to do anything&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/internet-and-anonymity-good-bad-and.html"&gt;The Internet and anonymity: the good, the bad and the (unknown) ugly&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/orm-your-online-reputation-is-history.html"&gt;ORM: Your online reputation is the history of your life&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/anonymous-on-net-not.html"&gt;Anonymous on the Net: Not!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/on-line-oh-so-not-private-and-busted.html"&gt;On-line, oh so not private and busted&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/ellen-jong-body-as-performance-art.html"&gt;Ellen Jong: The body as performance art&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/nick-vujicic-what-can-i-complain-about.html"&gt;Nick Vujicic: What can I complain about?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/paraprosdokian-skin-rash-needing-some.html"&gt;Paraprosdokian? A skin rash needing some ointment?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/william-shatner-mcgill-u-and-discovery.html"&gt;William Shatner, McGill U., and Discovery (videos)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/grand-rapids-michigan-aint-dying-video.html"&gt;Grand Rapids, Michigan ain't dying! (video)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/cool-beans.html"&gt;Cool Beans&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/highs-and-lows-of-going-viral.html"&gt;The highs and lows of going viral&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/my-shrink-worries-about-my-manliness.html"&gt;My shrink worries about my manliness&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/michael-jackson-still-dead-but-working.html"&gt;Michael Jackson: still dead but working hard&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/314-reasons-to-celebrate-pi-day.html"&gt;3.14 reasons to celebrate Pi Day&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/christwire-satire-and-anal-bleach.html"&gt;Christwire, satire and anal bleach&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/youre-never-too-old-to-be-juvenile.html"&gt;You're never too old to be juvenile&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/rally-race-car-crashes-videos.html"&gt;Rally Race Car Crashes (video)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/15-signs-youll-be-rich.html"&gt;15 Signs You'll Be Rich&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/outlawing-bodily-functions.html"&gt;Outlawing bodily functions&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/internet-are-we-addicted-or-just-dumb.html"&gt;The Internet: Are we addicted? Or just dumb?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/great-debate-toilet-paper-over-roll-or.html"&gt;The Great Debate: Toilet paper over the roll or under&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/do-nothing-for-2-minutes.html"&gt;Do Nothing for 2 Minutes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/january-28-1986-1138am-oh-thats-what-o.html"&gt;January 28, 1986, 11:38am: Oh, that's what an O-ring is for!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/music-i-want-to-take-you-higher.html"&gt;Music: I want to take you higher&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/wikipedia-is-10-years-old.html"&gt;Wikipedia is 10 years old&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/luck-preparation-meets-opportunity.html"&gt;Luck: Preparation meets Opportunity&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/my-15-minutes-of-fat.html"&gt;My 15 Minutes of Fat&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/my-new-years-resolution.html"&gt;Alone: My New Year's Resolution&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/salman-hossain-our-favourite-jew-hater.html"&gt;Salman Hossain: Our favourite Jew-hater is back!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/gaza-escalation-of-violence.html"&gt;Gaza: An escalation of violence&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/toronto-subway-better-way.html"&gt;The Toronto Subway: The Better Poop... er, Way&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/flash-mob.html"&gt;Flash Mob&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/top-words-for-2010.html"&gt;Top Words for 2010&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/press-any-key-to-continue.html"&gt;Press any key to continue&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/unexplained-traffic-jam-immaculate.html"&gt;Immaculate Congestion&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/internet-tv.html"&gt;Internet TV&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/58-down-23-to-go.html"&gt;58 down, 23 to go&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/would-skinner-have-owned-blackberry.html"&gt;Would Skinner have owned a Blackberry?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/my-toilet-is-backed-up-its-pits.html"&gt;Damn toilet&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/lets-go-green-er-black.html"&gt;Green coal?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/nice-doggy-ahhh-what-heck.html"&gt;Your dog just bite me!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/parachuting-if-god-had-meant-me-to.html"&gt;Parachuting: If God had meant me to...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/i-suck-you-suck-we-all-suck-i-beg-your.html"&gt;I suck; you suck; we all suck. What!?!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/my-15-minutes.html"&gt;My 15 minutes are not up!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/zipcars-ive-seen-future-and-it-works.html"&gt;Zipcars: the way of my future&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="" name="theatre"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-pZGw4g-0OdY/Tjx1SjnG6gI/AAAAAAAABDk/aWcp9gXk_CQ/s1600/icon-PhantomOfTheOpera.png" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Theatre Reviews&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;Live and on stage&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/theatre-review-barrymore.html"&gt;Barrymore&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/theatre-review-medieval-times.html"&gt;Medieval Times Dinner and Tournament&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/theatre-review-priscilla-queen-of.html"&gt;Priscilla Queen of the Dessert&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/theatre-review-rock-of-ages.html"&gt;Rock of Ages&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="" name="health"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TP1wdq7of9I/AAAAAAAAAp8/KxSDAwSpTHE/s1600/icon-Health.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Health&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ya gotta take care of yourself!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/jack-layton-and-our-prostates.html"&gt;Jack Layton and Our Prostates&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/gettin-old-man-boobs-and-vladimir-putin.html"&gt;Gettin' old, man boobs and Vladimir Putin&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/apple-day-keeps-doctor-at-bay.html"&gt;An apple a day keeps the doctor at bay&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/dont-worry-be-happy-youll-be-healthier.html"&gt;Don't worry, be happy. You'll be healthier and live longer.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/codependency-were-in-this-together.html"&gt;Codependency: we're in this together&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/aspirin-good-for-what-doesnt-ail-you.html"&gt;Aspirin: good for what doesn't ail you&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/vitamin-d-sunshine-vitamin.html"&gt;Vitamin D: the sunshine vitamin&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/barb-tarbox-and-my-mother-bigger.html"&gt;Barb Tarbox (and my mother): bigger warnings on cigarettes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/macular-degeneration-problem-i-cant-see.html"&gt;Macular Degenration: a problem I can't see&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/where-sun-dont-shine-my-colonoscopy.html"&gt;Where the sun don't shine: my colonoscopy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/my-prostate-something-near-and-dear-to.html"&gt;My Prostate: something near and dear to me&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/f-cancer.html"&gt;F*** Cancer&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/living-alone-dangers-of-bppv.html"&gt;Living alone: the dangers of BPPV&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/focal-dystonia-focal-what.html"&gt;Focal Dystonia: focal what?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/run-for-your-lives-literally.html"&gt;Run for your lives! Literally.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/alcoholism-ill-drink-to-that.html"&gt;Alcoholism: I'll drink to that!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/09/hot-dogs-worth-their-weight-in-salt.html"&gt;Hot Dogs: Worth their weight in salt... literally!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="" name="fiction"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-9zgzKq9j3qs/TnfB8pZuZVI/AAAAAAAABIg/VSSP-YYZNbQ/s1600/icon-pencil.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Fiction&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;From the dark recesses of my imagination... Hello? Anybody in there?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/fiction-life-floors-neal.html"&gt;Life Floors Neal&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/fiction-just-another-evening.html"&gt;Just Another Evening&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/fiction-hugh-has-grand-day.html"&gt;Hugh Has a Grand Day / grande&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="color: #666666;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: x-small;"&gt;Death is a many splendored thing&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/killing-some-time.html"&gt;Killing Some Time&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/fiction-brady-makes-statement-film-at.html"&gt;Brady makes a statement; film at 11&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/fiction-ted-has-pressing-engagement.html"&gt;Ted Has A Pressing Engagement&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/fiction-dont-drive-on-cat.html"&gt;Don't drive on the cat&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/fiction-greg-checks-out-feet-first.html"&gt;Greg checks out feet first&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/fiction-taps-for-dead-cow.html"&gt;Taps for a Dead Cow&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/fiction-red-lobsters-tuesday-night.html"&gt;Red Lobster's Tuesday Night Special&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/fiction-lloyd-kills-pizza.html"&gt;Lloyd Kills A Pizza&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/fiction-michael-takes-plunge.html"&gt;Michael Takes The Plunge&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/fiction-guest-at-roach-motel.html"&gt;A Guest at the Roach Motel&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/allison-is-dead-tired.html"&gt;Allison Is Dead Tired&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/fiction-macchiato-and-toffee-meet.html"&gt;Macchiato and Toffee meet Squirrely&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/fiction-ken-falls-for-barbie.html"&gt;Ken Falls For Barbie&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/fiction-mary-groans-then-dies.html"&gt;Mary Groans Then Dies&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/fiction-freddys-misfortune-is-anothers.html"&gt;Freddy's Misfortune Is Another's Fortune&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/fiction-summary-execution-of-snake.html"&gt;The Summary Execution of a Snake&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/fiction-light-lunch-with-helium.html"&gt;A Light Lunch With Helium&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/fiction-officer-carls-life-goes-on.html"&gt;Officer Carl's Life Goes On&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/fiction-gertrude-goes-dpwn-to-her.html"&gt;Gertrude goes down to her locker&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;td style="vertical-align: top;"&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="" name="politics"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-e6_TQjqet5g/TjxzjoYq73I/AAAAAAAABDg/1THxVFM1TfM/s1600/icon-GovernmentBuilding.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Politics&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;Oh brother, here I go! Up on the soapbox!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/occupy-wall-street.html"&gt;Occupy Wall Street&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/shes-here-to-help-michele-bachmann-at.html"&gt;She's here to help: Michele Bachmann, at your cervix&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/radical-islam-supposed-threat-to.html"&gt;Radical Islam: The (supposed) threat to America&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/donald-rumsfeld-911-and-war-on-terror.html"&gt;Donald Rumsfeld, 9/11 and the war on terror&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/rick-perry-and-sex-education-abstinence.html"&gt;Rick Perry and Sex Education: Abstinence works!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/dominique-strauss-kahn-casey-anthony-oj.html"&gt;Dominique Strauss-Kahn, Casey Anthony, O.J. and Steven Truscott&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/englands-riots-anarchy-in-uk.html"&gt;England's Riots: Anarchy in the U.K.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/was-george-w-bush-worst-president-ever.html"&gt;Was George W. Bush the worst president ever?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/rick-perry-nar-and-rapture-of-morons.html"&gt;Rick Perry, the NAR and the Rapture of Morons&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/all-rich-are-not-billionaires.html"&gt;All the rich are not billionaires&lt;/a&gt;: Shame on you, Warren Buffett!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/obama-is-worthless-piece-of.html"&gt;Obama is a worthless piece of...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/michele-bachmann-and-far-far-far-far.html"&gt;Michele Bachmann and the far, far, far, far, far right&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/if-i-can-pay-rich-can-pay.html"&gt;If I can pay, the rich can pay&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/michele-bachmann-corn-dog-and-oral.html"&gt;Michele Bachmann, a Corn Dog and the Oral Office&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/michele-bachmann-next-president-of-wth.html"&gt;Michele Bachmann: the next president of the WTH!?!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/bill-maher-compares-gop-to-casey.html"&gt;Bill Maher compares GOP to Casey Anthony trial: July 9, 2011&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/burden-of-proof-casey-anthony-not.html"&gt;The burden of proof: Casey Anthony, not guilty&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/june-is-takei-pride-month-videos.html"&gt;June is Takei Pride Month&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/bradley-manning-hero-or-traitor.html"&gt;Bradley Manning: Hero or Traitor?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/pamela-madsen-jack-layton-and-erotic.html"&gt;Pamela Madsen, Jack Layton, and an erotic massage&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/to-those-who-are-about-to-kill-we.html"&gt;To those who are about to kill, we salute you&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/halton-catholic-school-board-gay.html"&gt;The Halton Catholic School Board: a "gay" anachronism&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/catholic-school-disciplines-pro-choice.html"&gt;Catholic school disciplines pro-choice student&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/jenny-peto-and-baruch-goldstein.html"&gt;Jenny Peto and Baruch Goldstein&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/arizona-politics-by-9mm-glock.html"&gt;Arizona: Politics by 9mm Glock&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/bibi-aisha-from-taliban-to-time.html"&gt;Bibi Aisha: from the Taliban to Time Magazine&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/george-w-bush-memoirs-of-decider.html"&gt;George W. Bush: Memoirs of the Decider&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/lies-deception-and-my-truth.html"&gt;Lies, Deception and The (My) Truth&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/freedom-of-speech-freedom-to-say.html"&gt;Freedom of Speech: freedom to say anything?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/sarah-palin-refudiate-this.html"&gt;Sarah Palin: Refudiate this!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/regulations.html"&gt;Regulations&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="" name="movies"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOM1bp2gxTI/AAAAAAAAAmY/2A9omqGxc_w/s1600/icon-film.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Movie Reviews&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;Gawd, who doesn't love the movies? Escapism!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/movie-review-tinker-tailor-soldier-spy.html"&gt;Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Dark, brooding, good&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/movie-review-girl-with-dragon-tattoo.html"&gt;The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Dark, mysterious, excellent&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/movie-review-mission-impossible-ghost.html"&gt;Mission: Impossible Ghost Protocol&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Wow. In IMAX: double wow.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/movie-review-sherlock-holmes-game-of.html"&gt;Sherlock Holmes: A Game of Shadows&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Good fun&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/movie-review-shame.html"&gt;Shame&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Excellent but disturbing&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/movie-review-descendants.html"&gt;The Descendants&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Excellent: 91%&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/movie-preview-mission-impossible-ghost.html"&gt;Mission Impossible: Ghost Protocol&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Preview: My next adrenaline fix&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/movie-review-raone.html"&gt;Ra.One&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Wait until it comes on TV&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/movie-review-moneyball.html"&gt;Moneyball&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Excellent: It knocks it out of the park!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/movie-review-real-steel.html"&gt;Real Steel&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Maybe if I was 14 and played with toys&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/movie-review-ides-of-march.html"&gt;The Ides of March&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Good film, superb acting&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/movie-review-killer-elite.html"&gt;Killer Elite&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Saturday night rental&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/movie-review-5050.html"&gt;50/50&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;The big C with humour&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/movie-review-drive.html"&gt;Drive&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;I say good; others say great&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/movie-review-devils-double.html"&gt;The Devil's Double&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;You just can't look away&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/movie-review-contagion.html"&gt;Contagion&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Good: 82%&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/movie-review-debt.html"&gt;The Debt&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Good: 77%&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/movie-review-guard.html"&gt;The Guard&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Excellent&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/movie-review-rise-of-planet-of-apes.html"&gt;Rise of the Planet of the Apes&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Good. 80% good!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/movie-review-trip.html"&gt;The Trip&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;2 guys talking. Yep, just talking. But hilarious!!!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/movie-review-cowboys-and-aliens.html"&gt;Cowboys and Aliens&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Not bad. Odd but not bad.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/movie-review-crazy-stupid-love.html"&gt;Crazy, Stupid, Love.&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Terrific! Loved it!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/movie-review-captain-america-first.html"&gt;Captain America: The First Avenger&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Good blockbuster action adventure&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/movie-review-friends-with-benefits.html"&gt;Friends With Benefits&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Formula but still enjoyable&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/movie-review-horrible-bosses.html"&gt;Horrible Bosses&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Good. Not great, but good&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/movie-review-beginners.html"&gt;Beginners&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;A pleasant surprise&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/movie-review-larry-crowne.html"&gt;Larry Crowne&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Nope, doesn't work&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/movie-review-transformers-dark-of-moon.html"&gt;Transformers: Dark of the Moon&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Beat you into submission&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/movie-review-tree-of-life.html"&gt;The Tree of Life&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Arty, good, but long&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/movie-review-green-lantern.html"&gt;Green Lantern&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;*slaps forehead* Bad&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/movie-review-bridesmaids.html"&gt;Bridesmaids&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Much better than you would think.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/movie-review-super-8.html"&gt;Super 8&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Good fun&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/movie-review-kung-fu-panda-2.html"&gt;Kung Fu Panda 2&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Excellent family fun&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/movie-review-midnight-in-paris.html"&gt;Midnight in Paris&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;OMG! It's fabulous and it's Paris!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/movie-review-x-men-first-class.html"&gt;X-Men: First Class&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;competent entertainment&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/movie-review-potiche.html"&gt;Potiche&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Comme ci comme ça&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/movie-review-certified-copy.html"&gt;Certified Copy&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;intriguing, intimate&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/movie-review-fast-five.html"&gt;Fast Five&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Good thrill ride&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/movie-review-thor.html"&gt;Thor&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Not bad... (ringing endorsement?)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/movie-review-hanna.html"&gt;Movie Review: Hanna&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Don't bother&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/movie-review-lincoln-lawyer.html"&gt;The Lincoln Lawyer&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;I enjoyed this&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/movie-review-source-code.html"&gt;Source Code&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Okay&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/movie-review-adjustment-bureau.html"&gt;The Adjustment Bureau&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Not bad&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/movie-review-limitless.html"&gt;Limitless&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Terrific premise&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/oscars-2001-my-recap-my-reviews.html"&gt;Oscars 2011: my recap, my reviews&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/movie-review-another-year.html"&gt;Another Year&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Great character study&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/movie-review-blue-valentine.html"&gt;Blue Valentine&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Excellent, poignant&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/movie-preview-orgasm-inc.html"&gt;Movie Preview: Orgasm Inc.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/movie-review-kings-speech.html"&gt;The King's Speech &lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Excellent&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/movie-review-barneys-version.html"&gt;Barney's Version&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Terrific&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/movie-review-true-grit.html"&gt;True Grit&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Terrific&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/movie-review-tron-legacy.html"&gt;Tron: Legacy&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;preview: excited; movie: not so excited&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/movie-review-love-and-other-drugs.html"&gt;Love and Other Drugs&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;So-so&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/movie-review-tangled.html"&gt;Tangled&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Holy cow!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/movie-review-tourist.html"&gt;The Tourist&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;What!?!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/movie-review-megamind-3d.html"&gt;Megamind&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Not bad&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/movie-preview-tron-legacy.html"&gt;Movie Preview: Tron: Legacy&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;I'm excited&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/movie-review-client-9-rise-and-fall-of.html"&gt;Client 9: The Rise and Fall of Eliot Spitzer&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt; fascinating&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/movie-review-unstoppable.html"&gt;Unstoppable&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;ok&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/movie-review-fair-game.html"&gt;Fair Game&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;good&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/movie-review-carlos.html"&gt;Carlos&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;an excellent slice of history&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/11/movie-review-handsome-harry.html"&gt;Handsome Harry&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;well done&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/movie-review-inside-job.html"&gt;Inside Job&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;See this movie!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/movie-review-jackass-3d.html"&gt;Jackass 3D&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;This is my 15 minutes?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/movie-review-lovely-still.html"&gt;Lovely Still&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;lovely&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/movie-review-red.html"&gt;Red&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;okay, formula&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/movie-review-easy.html"&gt;Easy A&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;a pleasant surprise&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/movie-review-waiting-for-superman.html"&gt;Waiting for Superman&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;thought-provoking&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/movie-review-social-network.html"&gt;The Social Network&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;excellent!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/movie-review-machete.html"&gt;Machete&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Why?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/movie-review-town.html"&gt;The Town&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;good&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/movie-review-wall-street-money-never.html"&gt;Money Never Sleeps&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Had to see it. Good&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/movie-review-resident-evil-afterlife-3d.html"&gt;Resident Evil: Afterlife&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Kill me&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/09/movie-review-american.html"&gt;The American&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Well done&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/movie-review-expendables.html"&gt;The Expendables&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;formula&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/movie-review-eat-pray-love.html"&gt;Eat Pray Love&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Eat, Pray, Loath?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/movie-review-despicable-me-in-3d.html"&gt;Despicable Me in 3D&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;good&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/movie-review-salt.html"&gt;Salt&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;not enough spice&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/07/movie-review-toy-story-3-in-3d.html"&gt;Toy Story 3 in 3D&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;Good as always&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/07/movie-review-inception-my-dream.html"&gt;Inception&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;My Dream Critique&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="" name="rants"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DfqJXYkNT5U/TjxwhnptizI/AAAAAAAABDc/TQsk6slDMcM/s1600/icon-Fist.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Rants&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;Here's me off on a tangent&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/conspiracy-one-mans-truth-another-mans.html"&gt;Conspiracy: one man's truth, another man's lunacy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/09/anonymity-power-to-speak-freely.html"&gt;Anonymity&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/we-always-come-back-to-hitler.html"&gt;We always come back to Hitler&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/09/extremism-im-right-and-youre-wrong.html"&gt;Extremism&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/09/extremist-in-all-of-us.html"&gt;Extremist&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/dearborn-michigan-watch-out-for.html"&gt;Dearborn, Michigan&lt;/a&gt; an Islamic state?&lt;br /&gt;Can Canada's &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/stockwell-day-dreaming-numbers.html"&gt;Stockwell Day&lt;/a&gt; count?&lt;br /&gt;Gee, can the U.S.'s &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/38-trillion-reasons-to-think-of-sarah.html"&gt;Sarah Palin&lt;/a&gt; count?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="" name="travel"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TP1suxRDDYI/AAAAAAAAApo/ymI4AlLKjGc/s1600/icon-Airplane.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Travel&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;Some fun/interesting places&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/voluntourism-see-world-and-do-some-good.html"&gt;Voluntourism: see the world and do some good&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/egypt.html"&gt;Egypt&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/07/sedona-hot-air-ballooning.html"&gt;Sedona: Hot Air Ballooning&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;The OMG-20 Summit: June 2010&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;I was there! Yes, right at the front lines!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/omg-20-in-defence-of-officer-bubbles.html"&gt;In defence of Officer Bubbles&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/07/toronto-new-arrests-over-g20-vandalism.html"&gt;Toronto: New Arrests over G20 Vandalism&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://picasaweb.google.com/108992040576344816933/G20SummitToronto20100626#" target="_blank"&gt;Complete photos and videos&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/g20-summit-in-toronto-aftermath.html"&gt;The Aftermath, the Afterthoughts&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/g20-summit-in-toronto-its-over.html"&gt;Sunday, June 27 : It's over&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/g20-summit-in-toronto-im-shocked-here.html"&gt;Saturday, June 26 : I'm shocked. Here?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/g20-summit-in-toronto-ill-show-you.html"&gt;Friday, June 25 : I'll show you&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="" name="science"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-YeE1_Akwtik/Tn9M7x7_aTI/AAAAAAAABKY/BhP71Ud0szE/s1600/icon-atom.png" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Science/Technology&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;A brave new world&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/deus-ex-human-revolution.html"&gt;Deus Ex: Human Revolution&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/eyeborg-six-thousand-dollar-man.html"&gt;Eyeborg: The Six Thousand Dollar Man&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/06/june-8-2011-world-ipv6-day.html"&gt;June 8, 2011: World IPv6 Day&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/sat-mar-192011-its-super-full-moon.html"&gt;Sat Mar 19/2011: It's a "super full moon"!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/earth-hour-60-minutes-to-make.html"&gt;Earth Hour: 60 minutes to make a difference&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/internet-is-full.html"&gt;The Internet Is Full&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/gorilla-walks-like-man.html"&gt;Gorilla walks like a man&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/weird-hippo-licks-croc-saves-impala.html"&gt;Weird: Hippo licks croc, saves impala (videos)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/solar-winds-sail-to-stars.html"&gt;Solar Winds: sail to the stars&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/planet-earth-7-billion-people-in-2011.html"&gt;Planet Earth: 7 billion people in 2011&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/hans-rosling-joy-of-stats.html"&gt;Hans Rosling: The Joy of Stats&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/astronomy-2-for-1-winter-solstice-and.html"&gt;Astronomy 2 for 1: Winter Solstice and Lunar Eclipse&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="" name="philosophy"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TP1tTyqcZpI/AAAAAAAAAps/USXBXqC5f_Y/s1600/icon-YingYang.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Philosophy/Religion&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;Is that lint in my belly button?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/force-george-lucas-and-arthur-lipsett.html"&gt;The Force, George Lucas and Arthur Lipsett&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/steve-jobs-1955-2011-our-time-is.html"&gt;Steve Jobs (1955-2011): Our Time is Limited&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/johnnie-walker-android-simply-by-doing.html"&gt;Immortality: simply by doing one great thing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/optimism-we-are-hardwired-to-ignore.html"&gt;Optimism: We're hardwired to ignore defeat&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/may-21-end-of-world.html"&gt;May 21: The end of the world (Afterword May 22)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/whats-wrong-with-world-women-wearing.html"&gt;What's wrong with the world? Women wearing pants!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/life-explained-sort-of.html"&gt;Life Explained (sort of)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/god-does-not-help-those-who-help.html"&gt;God does "not" help those who help themselves&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/gaia.html"&gt;Gaia&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/09/hundred-years-from-now-it-wont-matter.html"&gt;A hundred years from now it won't matter&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/passion-can-you-live-without-it.html"&gt;Passion: Can you live without it?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/poor-me.html"&gt;Poor Me&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/i-met-man-who-had-no-feet.html"&gt;I met a man with no feet&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/gods-day.html"&gt;How long is a day to God?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/conversations-with-god.html"&gt;Conversations With God&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-JtazMnmao2g/TfEzCIN4mmI/AAAAAAAAA-w/ru0jkB6TOh8/s1600/icon-TO.gif" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Toronto&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;i&gt;Yep, my home town&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/rob-ford-or-public-now-whos-dumber.html"&gt;Rob Ford or the public: Now who's dumber?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/rob-ford-cut-taxes-oops-no-money-for.html"&gt;Rob Ford: Cut taxes. 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Trek&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/gay-male-romance-for-women.html"&gt;Gay male romance for women&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/writing-amanda-hocking-indie-author.html"&gt;Amanda Hocking: indie author goes viral&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/03/writing-authonomycom.html"&gt;authonomy.com&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;maybe this doesn't help writers&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/writing-holly-lisle.html"&gt;Holly Lisle&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;before I'm 25, I want to write a book.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/writing-november-challenges.html"&gt;Writing: November Challenges&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/nablopomo-national-blog-posting-month.html"&gt;NaBloPoMo: National Blog Posting Month&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a 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rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7AgI-NaU0yc/Tmizm7ksylI/AAAAAAAABHI/kyOqXigj7hY/s220/Seattle.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-XSEeXX6SXIs/TdKf4iaw7RI/AAAAAAAAA8o/DPKs-V_eqSU/s72-c/icon-Book-open.gif' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-459873339663141424.post-1486173533693900978</id><published>2012-01-27T15:43:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-02-05T09:01:08.215-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='society'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Sex'/><title type='text'>An open letter to (older) women about body image</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-9LzRJwZ_e5I/TyMzqgiojPI/AAAAAAAABXc/ikX5p3ZVH9U/s1600/JackNicholson-ManBoobs.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-9LzRJwZ_e5I/TyMzqgiojPI/AAAAAAAABXc/ikX5p3ZVH9U/s1600/JackNicholson-ManBoobs.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Body image, mental image: I'm not perfect but I'm beautiful anyway. I recently ran across a few articles written by women about the problem (their problem?) of not being the right weight, not being slim enough, maybe not being young enough and certainly not being able to keep up with never mind compete with the air brushed fashion magazine runway models who represent some sort of ideal every female should strive for. As a citizen of the other side of the great sexual divide, I thought to take a moment to add my two cents worth with the hope, accounting for inflation, that $0.02 is not over-evaluating my contribution.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I grew up (I believe dinosaurs were still roaming the wilds), the school system started teaching students, around the age of 11, social interactions with the opposite sex through square dancing. Geesh, square dancing? Heck, I was kidding about the dinosaurs but all of a sudden it strikes me that I could be talking about pioneer days or something. (I pull out my driver's licence and exclaim, "Heck, just how old am I?")&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Starting in grade seven, the school held dances where guys and gals put on their finest and attempt to negotiate the trials and tribulations of dancing together. I love you ladies dearly but let me confess that you scare the bejesus out of me. All the boys would congregate on one side of the gymnasium and all the girls would be on the other side. The dance area, the open area in the middle of the gym was the size of a basketball court because it &lt;i&gt;was&lt;/i&gt; a basketball court. If ever there was an obstacle to your love life, it was walking across this monstrous open area in front of the entire school population to ask a girl to dance. Difficult? Painful? Excuse me while I stick a pencil in my eye.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The shyness, the apprehension, the outright fear was just about off the scale. As a grown man looking back on my life, I would now categorically state that it was a moment I classify as more unsettling than my annual DRE and believe me, that can be quite unsettling. (What does DRE stand for? See below in References. hehehe)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The very first time, yes "the" very first time I asked a girl to dance, I remember standing around talking with some friends. I sought out some young filly on the other side of the chasm trying to calculate my chances of success. Rejection was at the forefront of my mind. Just imagine finding the resolve to walk across the thousand yards (330 metres in Canada) to the other side of the gymnasium only to have the girl, the target of my resolve, say "No" in front of the entire school. Oh the humiliation. I would be the laughing stock of my friends, the school and the entire town while the local newspaper and television station would be reporting the next day with color photographs of how I walked all the way across the gymnasium alone only to walk all the way back alone too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am happy to report that I somehow found the intestinal fortitude to make "the walk". I am happy to report that on my very first attempt to ask a girl to dance, she said, "Yes." It's at this point I wipe the sweat off my brow and quietly exhale, "Whew!" It's at this point I may even catch the eye of my friends with a bit of a smile which says, no it yells, "All right!!!" and does an invisible fist pump. Yes, ladies, did you know you have the power to lift me to the heavens or squash me like a bug? I do not remember at all who that girl was but I will remain eternally grateful for her act of kindness shown towards this poor boy who was making the first tentative step on one of the scariest adventures of his life. (I'm guessing the girls would tell stories of standing there wondering when those jackasses were going to come over and ask them to dance.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course, in subsequent years, I became better versed in the goings-on of social interactions between the sexes and better understood not just my own sex, but the opposite sex with their own set of unique problems. Ah, where's Desmond Morris and The Naked Ape when you need him? I began to see that we all are more or less apprehensive with other people. We all walk into the room not knowing anyone and feel out of place. Will somebody talk to me? Will somebody break the ice? Oddly enough, many times that is all it takes. Whew. Somebody made the first move and started a conversation with me. Thank you, thank you, thank you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What one thing did I take away from these learning years as a teenager? The majority of us fall in the middle, that is, we're average. We may not be stunningly beautiful as in fashion magazine Hollywood star type of beautiful, but neither are we ugly, not truly ugly. As such most of us come to the table with far more than just the packaging. Education, experience, travels and personality are all part of the "total experience" and yes, while the packaging is sometimes the first thing which catches our eye, it's what's inside the wrapping that keeps us interested and coming back for more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Big Little Wolf's Daily Plate of Crazy&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From the About page: &lt;i&gt;D. A. Wolf is a freelance writer, journalist, marketer, trainer, single parent, art collector, polyglot, traveler, and devotee of exquisite footwear &amp;amp; French lingerie. She believes we are all brimming with glorious contradictions, and capable of living fully – with whatever life dishes out, and whatever we can make of it.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On January 13, 2012, the author published a posting entitled "&lt;a href="http://dailyplateofcrazy.com/2012/01/13/the-fat-personality/" target="_blank"&gt;The FAT Personality&lt;/a&gt;" in which she discussed a supposed link between personality types and unhealthy eating. This lead to the question of just is normal and how our definition of normal seems to be very much influenced by the trends of fashion and the media. Ms. Wolf points out the contradiction between Marilyn Monroe's beauty now possibly being considered a "plus size" while the emaciated look of Twiggy is somehow more desirable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In discussing body size expectations in the past two generations, she quotes the newspaper the Daily Mail: "Twenty years ago the average fashion model weighed 8% less than the average woman. Today, she weighs 23% less." The question returns to what is normal and are woman trying to aim for a normal as defined by the fashion trends seen everywhere from magazines to television to movies when in reality, normal is something else altogether.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the article "&lt;a href="http://dailyplateofcrazy.com/2012/01/12/hot-news-flash-french-women-over-50-have-more-sex/" target="_blank"&gt;Hot (News) Flash! French Women Over 50 Have More Sex!&lt;/a&gt;", the author points out a comparison between American and French women. Vive la différence and here, the difference seems to lie not necessarily in physical beauty but in something more immaterial: confidence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Nothing makes a woman more beautiful than the belief that she is beautiful."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Sophia Loren US (Italian-born) movie actress (1934 – )&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Pamela Madsen: Being Shameless&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From the About page: &lt;i&gt;Pamela Madsen is a fearless advocate for women’s health and integrated sexuality. During her 25-year career, Pamela has leveraged her raw honesty and well-informed wit to help strip the stigma from infertility, female desire and pleasure, body image and weight.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In her August 2010 article "&lt;a href="http://www.beingshameless.com/uncategorized/when-self-loathing-comes-a-knocking/" target="_blank"&gt;When Self-Loathing Comes a Knocking….&lt;/a&gt;", the author writes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Most of us want to feel hot and sexy. We want earth-shattering orgasms – and to feel like those women look in those damn magazines sipping a Margarita with smoky eyes who are about to have the most incredible sex in the universe. Right? Maybe? Who knows – but I hate them.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Seeing those images can make me feel confronted with what I am not and leaves me with this feeling that I am not enough. More than that – it is this feeling that I will never have in my life what I truly want because I just don’t look like that.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She goes on to talk about getting control of "those nasty inner voices" and focusing on herself and feeling good about herself as opposed to comparing herself to some ideal. Loving yourself would seem to be one of the first steps in feeling good.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;A man's response&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Okay ladies, I hear ya. We are bombarded, no we're inundated, no we're overwhelmed with images and supposed rules about "the ideal" we all should strive for.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Enter Twiggy in the 60s, and Kate Moss in the 90s. Those who prefer women with some meat on their bones often have to pretend otherwise.&lt;/i&gt; (&lt;a href="http://dailyplateofcrazy.com/2011/10/19/the-fat-issue-in-self-image-and-relationships/" target="_blank"&gt;The FAT Issue&lt;/a&gt; - Oct 2011 by BigLittleWolf)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wait! Who asked me? Did I forget to vote? Twiggy? Are you kidding me? I look at Twiggy and begin to wonder if I'm secretly gay. I look at Kate Moss and this "heroin chic" popularized in the 1990s and think, "What!?! Am I supposed to ask somebody to tie me off?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Years ago, I saw this hilarious photograph of Frank Sinatra, Mia Farrow and Ava Gardner. Remember that Sinatra was married to Gardner from 1951 to 1957 and Farrow from 1966 to 1968. The three of them are sitting together at a long table having dinner in the order from left to right of Frank, Mia and Ava. Ms. Gardner falls into the category of va-va-voom and Mia in comparison was, well, a Twiggy. The photographer caught Ava giving Mia a side-long glance which would have frozen water at a hundred yards and maybe it was just my interpretation, but I couldn't help thinking that Ava's look was saying something like, "Why would any man pick that... that... boy over a real woman. Frank has gone crazy." (Sorry, I did a Google image search but couldn't find this photo but I know it exists.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wait. Back up. I said we are bombarded with images and supposed rules about "the ideal" we all should strive for. What? Did that man just write "we"? Yes, I'm a man. We were talking about you ladies and the question of the dictates of what is currently considered fashionable but I thought to throw my two cents in on what's happening on the other side of the sexual divide. Are guys affected by what's showing up in magazines?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stunningly beautiful? Breathtakingly handsome? I ofttimes joke that George Clooney is so good-looking, I'd have sex with him and I'm not even gay. But no pressure on the rest of us guys with our receding hairlines, love handles and yes, that visible piece of spinach stuck in our two front teeth to try and live up to some Hollywood glamour measure of hunkiness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Guardian - Jan 6/2012&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2012/jan/06/body-image-concerns-men-more-than-women" target="_blank"&gt;Body image concerns more men than women, research finds&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;More men worry about their body shape and appearance – beer bellies, "man boobs" or going bald – than women do about how they look, according to research. More than four in five men (80.7%) talk in ways that promote anxiety about their body image by referring to perceived flaws and imperfections, compared with 75% of women. Similarly, 38% of men would sacrifice at least a year of their life in exchange for a perfect body – again, a higher proportion than women.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dr Phillippa Diedrichs, lead researcher (and a woman) for a study of 394 British men for the YMCA, reportedly said, &lt;i&gt;"These findings tell us that men are concerned about body image, just like women. We knew that 'body talk' affected women and young people and now we know that it affects men too."&lt;/i&gt; Rosi Prescott, Central YMCA's chief executive, said, &lt;i&gt;"Historically, conversation about your body has been perceived as something women do, but it is clear from this research that men are also guilty of commenting on one another's bodies, and in many cases this is having a damaging effect."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After reading over several articles by Ms. Wolf and Ms. Madsen on a women's body image issues, I felt I had something to say. So, with the indulgence of these two authors and their readerships, I thought to add "my" male perspective to the discussion. (originally posted as a comment to one of Ms. Wolf's columns)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;*************&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;George Clooney has been named by People Magazine as the sexiest man alive not once, but twice. I have never been named the sexiest man alive. Ryan Gosling certainly showed off his buff ripped self to good effect in the comedy movie Crazy, Stupid, Love (In the &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/movie-review-crazy-stupid-love.html" target="_blank"&gt;movie trailer&lt;/a&gt;, Mr. Gosling takes off his shirt and Emma Thompson exclaims, "Seriously? It's like you're photoshopped!"). While I exercise regularly and jog, I won't pretend to be "ripped". Hugh Jackman, named the sexiest man alive in 2008, is at the height of success as a world recognised film star at the age of 43. I am currently 59 years old and will be 60 this year (2012). I am not recognised outside of my family.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Am I the best looking guy in the room? Not by a long shot. Am I brimming over with self-confidence? Like everyone, I have my moments of doubt and yes, even I have body image issues. (see my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/gettin-old-man-boobs-and-vladimir-putin.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Gettin' old, man boobs and Vladimir Putin&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;) However, I realised a long time ago that I'm not Quasimodo. Okay, I'm not Brad Pitt, but I'm not Quasimodo.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our society with its merchandising and publicity presents us all with an idealized version of ourselves, an ideal that doesn't necessarily exist in reality. (I saw the picture of a famous model the other day without her make-up. Whoa!) I would like to think that the majority of us come to the table with experience and a certain degree of maturity and understand the difference between an ideal and the normal, between fantasy and reality. Not everybody, but the majority.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Therefore, we come back to the question, to coin an expression, of not what you've got, but how you use it. Just how much confidence do you have? I am reminded of this life lesson which has proven to be a big help to me over the years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/06/rejection.html" target="_blank"&gt;Rejection&lt;/a&gt; 2010-06-14&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"I've been rejected."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Somebody doesn't like you. Oh, boo hoo hoo. Get over it!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Okay, that sounds a little harsh but if you will bear with me, let me now tell you something which comes from my life and is probably very applicable to your life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I went to high school, I entered what is for many kids their first real experience in a social networking environment. Everybody has to figure out how to interact with each other. Yes, I know we had public school stuff, but high school was a much bigger proving ground because we were all getting our hormone spurs: saddle up the pony; it's time to ride the range!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like all teenage boys, I, too, suffered the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, some successes, some failures. Nevertheless, there was always the pain and suffering of being rejected on any grounds, not just sexual.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then it hit me. I forget exactly what happened, but one day, I looked at rejection from the other way around. It occurred to me that at high school, in the street and in life in general, I did not like everyone whom I met. In fact, some of those people I absolutely detested. All of a sudden it occurred to me: if statistically, I didn't like everyone in the world, was it true that statistically, everyone in the world would like me? No way!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I began to see the entire world in a new light. I meet somebody, they don't like me. Okay, your loss, I move on to the next person. Instead of being particularly hurt by the rejection of a single person, I accept it as merely a statistical reality then move on. Like me, if you really want to lay on the rationalization really thick, I sometimes add that the rejecter has neither the intelligence nor the fine taste to appreciate the bouquet and full body of a Chardonnay '86 à la yours truly. Like a fine wine, I am only appreciated by the most sophisticated of palettes. "Oh gawd, does that man know how to shovel it or what?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Old joke: Every night a man goes to a bar and asks 50 women to sleep with him. He gets slapped in the face 49 times, but he never sleeps alone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Daily Plate of Crazy - Jan 27/2012&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://dailyplateofcrazy.com/2012/01/27/female-body-image-care-to-share/" target="_blank"&gt;Female Body Image: Care to Share?&lt;/a&gt; by BigLittleWolf&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Female body image. Not a simple subject, is it. We carry our personal histories, our inherited traits, and we’re bombarded by conflicting messages from the time we’re little girls. So how do we make sense of it? Do we, ever?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Daily Plate of Crazy - Jan 13/2012&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://dailyplateofcrazy.com/2012/01/13/the-fat-personality/" target="_blank"&gt;The FAT Personality&lt;/a&gt; by BigLittleWolf&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;A recent article appearing on the Wall Street Journal Blog reports on statistics tying patterns of unhealthy eating to personality types.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Daily Plate of Crazy - Jan 12/2012&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://dailyplateofcrazy.com/2012/01/12/hot-news-flash-french-women-over-50-have-more-sex/" target="_blank"&gt;Hot (News) Flash! French Women Over 50 Have More Sex!&lt;/a&gt; by BigLittleWolf&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Huffington Post offers a report by Debra Ollivier, exploring the phenomenon that French women over 50 have more sex than their American counterparts.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by ThePamelaMadsen on Jan 15, 2012&lt;br /&gt;YouTube: &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nEi8rMGUsbA" target="_blank"&gt;Why Let Body Image Limit Your Life?&lt;/a&gt; by Pamela Madsen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Pamela Madsen, Integrative Life Coach Specializing In Issues of Women: Sexuality, Fertility, Self Image and Rejuvenation, Author of Shameless: How I Ditched The Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure and Somehow Got Home in Time To Cook Dinner (Rodale) and Founder of the American Fertility Association talking about not letting weight and self image limit your life!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Being Shameless - Aug 31/2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.beingshameless.com/uncategorized/when-self-loathing-comes-a-knocking" target="_blank"&gt;When Self-Loathing Comes a Knocking….&lt;/a&gt; by Pamela Madsen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Most of us want to feel hot and sexy. We want earth-shattering orgasms – and to feel like those women look in those damn magazines sipping a Margarita with smoky eyes who are about to have the most incredible sex in the universe. Right? Maybe? Who knows – but I hate them.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kate_Moss" target="_blank"&gt;Kate Moss&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Kate Moss (born 16 January 1974) is an English model who is known for her waifish figure and popularising the heroin chic look in the 1990s.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heroin_chic" target="_blank"&gt;Heroin chic&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Heroin chic was a look popularized in mid-1990s fashion and characterized by pale skin, dark circles underneath the eyes and angular bone structure. The look, characterised by emaciated features and androgyny, was a reaction against to "healthy" and vibrant look of models such as Christie Brinkley, Cindy Crawford, Claudia Schiffer, and Heidi Klum. A 1996 article in The Los Angeles Times charged that the fashion industry had "a nihilistic vision of beauty" that was reflective of drug addiction and U.S. News and World Report called the movement a "cynical trend".&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rectal_examination#Procedure" target="_blank"&gt;Digital Rectal Examination (DRE)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The digital rectal examination (DRE) is a relatively simple procedure. ... the physician slips a gloved and lubricated finger into the rectum through the anus and palpates the insides [to look for nodules of prostate cancer] for approximately sixty seconds.&lt;/i&gt; [You didn't think I was going to make a guy joke about a DRE then not explain what it is, did you?]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/gettin-old-man-boobs-and-vladimir-putin.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Gettin' old, man boobs and Vladimir Putin&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt; 2011-08-20&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;We men like to strut our stuff once in a while. Even though we get older and start fading, we still have our moments when we like to relive our former glories, the time when other men would tremble before us and women would swoon. Yes, deep down we know that our glory years are behind us but occasionally we like to suck in our guts and stick out our chests while ignoring the mildly sarcastic "Yes dear, you've still got it". I'm not as good as I once was but I'm as good once as I ever was.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Guardian - Jan 6/2012&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2012/jan/06/body-image-concerns-men-more-than-women" target="_blank"&gt;Body image concerns more men than women, research finds&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;More men worry about their body shape and appearance – beer bellies, "man boobs" or going bald – than women do about how they look, according to research. More than four in five men (80.7%) talk in ways that promote anxiety about their body image by referring to perceived flaws and imperfections, compared with 75% of women. Similarly, 38% of men would sacrifice at least a year of their life in exchange for a perfect body – again, a higher proportion than women.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I had to chuckle when Ms. Wolf commented, "49 slaps? 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I pick up the paper and read about some tragic story. However, even though the event took place many miles away and maybe even some time in the past, the gravity of situation affects me. It psychologically throws me slightly off kilter. I have a certain sense of uneasiness, a certain apprehension. I feel disturbed. I walk down the street and even though the day may be sunny and everything should feel all right with the world, something is off. I don't what exactly, but something, some little thing somewhere in the back of my mind is not quite right.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I live hundreds of miles from New York City. I don't know anybody in New York City and I know of nobody connected in any way to the city. However, when the news of 9/11 broke and I saw over and over again the footage of this tragedy unfold in some cases in real-time, I felt deeply disturbed. I remember looking out my office window on the 7th floor and wondering what would I do, say or think if all of a sudden I saw the glimmer of sunlight reflecting off the fuselage of an in-coming airplane.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In 2005, I travelled to London, England for a 14 day vacation just two weeks after the infamous London bombings known as 7/7 in which 52 people were killed including 4 bombers and over 700 were injured. While my stay was a good one, there was this background apprehension about what I would do if I was personally involved in such a tragic event.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In 2010 I travelled to Egypt and to prepare for my trip, I studied the country and its history to better understand what I was going to see. I re-read the story of the 1997 Luxor Massacre when terrorists killed 62 people then mutilated their bodies. While my stay in Egypt was excellent, which included Luxor, there were moments when I wondered just what I had gotten myself into and whether or not I was safe.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have been on several cruises over the years and of course, sometimes as a joke make a reference to the 1972 movie The Poseidon Adventure in which a tsunami overturns a luxury liner and the protagonists must climb deeper into the bottom of the ship to go up and eventually get out. Like the rest of the world, I watched in disbelief on January 14, 2012 as the images were beamed around the world of the Italian cruise ship Costa Concordia toppled over on a reef and partially submerged. The subsequent telling of the stories of various passengers makes me think about my next boat cruise and how I'm going to feel about it. Cruises are fun but will there be that tiny voice in my head speculating on how to get to safety if the boat were to suddenly keel over?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In Molly Monet's blog posting &lt;a href="http://www.postcardsfromapeacefuldivorce.com/1921/crisis-management/" target="_blank"&gt;Crisis Management&lt;/a&gt;, the author writes about the troubling news of her daughter's second grade teacher being arrested and charged with the possession and creation of child pornography. &lt;i&gt;"This event was disturbing on so many levels, but the one that I want to mention is that it made me question my ability to trust people, especially men."&lt;/i&gt; She goes on to say that her faith in humanity is rocked and wonders what secrets each of us is keeping.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The above incidents like 9/11 are global news items all of us are aware of. However there are many lesser events, more personal events, events in my own community or neighbourhood which disturb my mental equilibrium. A crazed man with a gun took several people hostage in the middle of town and was eventually shot and killed by police. A long-term employee was fired for sexual harassment. A dedicated musical teacher was charged with having sex with several underage girls in the school choir. A long-term female employee came to work at 9am and that same afternoon at 1pm, a curt email was distributed to staff announcing her departure with no explanation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These are all "disturbances in the force". I am personally unaffected by the event but I am disturbed by it anyway. A bombing takes place somewhere: could a bombing occur right here and could I be killed? An employee is suddenly fired: could I be fired too? A crazed man takes hostages: could a crazed person in public somewhere hurt me? A teacher is charged with a crime: is my family safe?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Statistically speaking, I'm safe. Statistically speaking, all of us are safe. Well, relatively safe. After all, when I pick up the newspaper and read about somebody dying or being hurt, obviously that someone could very well be me. Is it comforting to know that my chances of dying are one in a million? Does that make me feel better? Does that make me feel safer?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Final Word&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Molly Monet's blog made me think about this "disturbance in the force", the general sense of uneasiness I get when something bad happens but not necessarily to myself. Arguably the teacher of your own daughter is hitting closer to home than 9/11 or 7/7, but I myself have felt something that close to home. (Good managers will make some attempt to assuage the fears of other employees if circumstances dictate the necessity of terminating a worker.) It is curious how events disconnected from me personally may have the power to affect me psychologically. Is this part of the fight or flight instinct or is it more complicated than that?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Force_%28Star_Wars%29#Disturbances_in_the_Force" target="_blank"&gt;Force (Star Wars) : Disturbances in the Force&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Those who possess the discipline and subtlety of mind to sense The Force often refer to disturbances in the Force. Since the Force is "an energy field created by all living things", a disturbance can be felt when there is death or suffering on a massive scale. A disturbance (or "tremor") may also be felt in the presence of a powerful Jedi or Sith.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/force-george-lucas-and-arthur-lipsett.html"&gt;The Force, George Lucas and Arthur Lipsett&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Wikipedia defines "the Force" as "a binding, metaphysical and ubiquitous power in the fictional universe of the Star Wars galaxy" ... but where exactly did George Lucas get this idea?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/7_July_2005_London_bombings" target="_blank"&gt;7 July 2005 London bombings&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The 7 July 2005 London bombings (often referred to as 7/7) were a series of co-ordinated suicide attacks in London, United Kingdom, which targeted civilians using the public transport system during the morning rush hour.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Luxor_massacre" target="_blank"&gt;Luxor massacre&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Luxor Massacre refers to the killing of 62 people, mostly tourists, that took place on 17 November 1997, at Deir el-Bahri, an archaeological site and major tourist attraction located across the River Nile from Luxor in Egypt.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Poseidon_Adventure_%281972_film%29" target="_blank"&gt;The Poseidon Adventure (1972 film)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Poseidon Adventure is a 1972 American action-adventure disaster film, directed by Ronald Neame, produced by Irwin Allen, and based on the novel of the same name by Paul Gallico. The film won a Special Achievement Academy Award for Visual Effects and an Academy Award for Best Song (for "The Morning After"). Shelley Winters won the Golden Globe Award for Best Supporting Actress and was nominated for an Academy Award as Best Supporting Actress for her role.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Costa_Concordia_disaster" target="_blank"&gt;Costa Concordia disaster&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Italian cruise ship Costa Concordia partially sank on 13 January 2012 after hitting a reef off the Italian coast and running aground at Isola del Giglio, Tuscany, requiring the evacuation of 4,197 people on board. At least 13 people died, including 10 passengers and one crewman; 64 others were injured (three seriously) and 21 are missing. Two passengers and a crewmember trapped below deck were rescued. The captain, Francesco Schettino, was arrested on preliminary charges of multiple manslaughter, failure to assist passengers in need and abandonment of ship. First officer Ciro Ambrosio was also arrested.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Postcards from a Peaceful Divorce - Jan 22/2012&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.postcardsfromapeacefuldivorce.com/1921/crisis-management/" target="_blank"&gt;Crisis Management&lt;/a&gt; by Molly Monet&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;This past week, something very troubling and sad happened in our lives, something that many of you may have seen on the news. My daughter’s second grade teacher was arrested and charged with the possession and creation of child pornography. This event was disturbing on so many levels, but the one that I want to mention is that it made me question my ability to trust people, especially men.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fight-or-flight_response" target="_blank"&gt;Fight-or-flight response&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The fight-or-flight response was first described by Walter Bradford Cannon. ... His theory states that animals react to threats with a general discharge of the sympathetic nervous system, priming the animal for fighting or fleeing. This response was later recognized as the first stage of a general adaptation syndrome that regulates stress responses among vertebrates and other organisms.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;Negative effects of the stress response in humans&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The stress response halts or slows down various processes such as sexual responses and digestive systems to focus on the stressor situation and typically causes negative effects like constipation, anorexia, erectile dysfunction, difficulty urinating, and difficulty maintaining sexual arousal. These are functions that are controlled by the parasympathetic nervous system and therefore suppressed by sympathetic arousal.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Prolonged stress responses may result in chronic suppression of the immune system, leaving the body open to infections. However, there is a short boost of the immune system shortly after the fight or flight response has been activated. This may have filled an ancient need to fight the infections in a wound that one may have received during interaction with a predator.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Stress responses are sometimes a result of mental disorders such as post-traumatic stress disorder, in which the individual shows a stress response when remembering a past trauma, and panic disorder, in which the stress response is activated by the catastrophic misinterpretations of bodily sensations.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2012-01-24&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; 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text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-EcTtUIgRfyA/TxglzQyK48I/AAAAAAAABWc/JLJUGSdFKMo/s1600/ChakaKhan-IFeelForYou.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-EcTtUIgRfyA/TxglzQyK48I/AAAAAAAABWc/JLJUGSdFKMo/s1600/ChakaKhan-IFeelForYou.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by hitmanhuey on Aug 31, 2009&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Through_the_Fire_%28song%29"&gt;Through the Fire&lt;/a&gt; (song)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Through the Fire" is a song from Chaka Khan's 1984 album, I Feel for You. The David Foster-produced track was the third single from the album, which set a record (which has since been broken) for spending the most consecutive weeks (19 in total) on the Billboard Hot 100. It reached #60 in the US and #15 on the R&amp;amp;B charts, and was one of the few Khan hits to cross to the Adult Contemporary chart. (Writers: David Foster, Tom Keane, Cynthia Weil)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Feel_for_You_%28album%29"&gt;I Feel for You&lt;/a&gt; (album)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;I Feel for You is the Platinum certified fifth solo album by American R&amp;amp;B/funk singer Chaka Khan, released on the Warner Bros. Records label in 1984.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chaka_Khan"&gt;Chaka Khan&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Chaka Khan (born Yvette Marie Stevens; March 23, 1953), frequently known as the Queen of Funk, is a 10-time Grammy Award winning American singer-songwriter who gained fame in the 1970s as the frontwoman and focal point of the funk band Rufus. While still a member of the group in 1978, Khan embarked on a successful solo career. Her signature hits, both with Rufus and as a solo performer, include "Tell Me Something Good", "Sweet Thing", "Ain't Nobody", "I'm Every Woman", "I Feel for You" and "Through the Fire".&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, would you gladly risk it all?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2011-01-19&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/wqbelle" target="_blank"&gt;Follow me on Twitter &lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvjllt5gxI/AAAAAAAAAns/8GFdNjTyiKU/s1600/icon-Twitter.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/459873339663141424-2116882260051514861?l=wqebelle.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/feeds/2116882260051514861/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=459873339663141424&amp;postID=2116882260051514861&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/2116882260051514861'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/2116882260051514861'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2012/01/chaka-khan-through-fire.html' title='Chaka Khan: Through the Fire'/><author><name>William Quincy Belle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14337095766556949027</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7AgI-NaU0yc/Tmizm7ksylI/AAAAAAAABHI/kyOqXigj7hY/s220/Seattle.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-EcTtUIgRfyA/TxglzQyK48I/AAAAAAAABWc/JLJUGSdFKMo/s72-c/ChakaKhan-IFeelForYou.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-459873339663141424.post-8676834594685280209</id><published>2012-01-17T06:37:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-17T13:21:03.053-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><title type='text'>Divorce: Why I'm Better Off Dead</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-yW9yscpbJi8/TxV8hgYyc6I/AAAAAAAABWU/HVwoBNjORKM/s1600/casket.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-yW9yscpbJi8/TxV8hgYyc6I/AAAAAAAABWU/HVwoBNjORKM/s1600/casket.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;The trouble with trying to be funny is that no matter what you do, somebody somewhere is going to be offended. I'm going to wear a shirt from which I can wash out the tomato stains and put on a hard hat, well, for obvious reasons. Some of those beer cans tossed at the podium could very well be full.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last June (2010), BigLittleWolf asked the question "&lt;a href="http://dailyplateofcrazy.com/2011/06/29/which-is-worse-death-or-divorce/" target="_blank"&gt;Which is Worse – Death or Divorce?&lt;/a&gt;" on her blog and generated some interesting responses. She republished her article on Huffington Post as "&lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/d-a-wolf/death-or-divorce-which-is_b_1101346.html" target="_blank"&gt;Death Or Divorce: Which Is Worse?&lt;/a&gt;" on January 16, 2012 and once again, the article has produced some interesting personal stories. (Whoa! 127 comments as of this writing.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While some commentators took exception to Ms. Wolf's comparison (Heck, some even took umbrage!), most understood the question in terms of divorce being the death of the marriage. If one is going to lose a spouse, is losing the spouse to death different or even easier to deal with than losing one's spouse to divorce? (Ah divorce: the gift that just keeps on giving!) To some readers who had lost their spouse to, let's say, cancer, this seemed sacrilege if not callous but the author did emphasize that her intention was never to slight anyone's loss of a spouse but to put forward the idea of comparing the grieving process in these two circumstances.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This may seem like an unproductive philosophical question with can lead to no definitive answer; something akin to mental masturbation. (Sorry, I just had to fit in some sort of sexual reference.) However, this scenario has come to my mind on more than one occasion. At the risk of sounding morbid but wanting to be more tongue-in-cheek, I have pictured how many problems would be successfully remedied with complete finality by my own death. Here are a few issues I came up with from the perspective of a divorcée who had instead ended up with a dead husband.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Financial: no splitting of the estate&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Okay financially" divided by two usually equals one not so okay financially over there and another not so okay financially over here. Yes, depending on the circumstances, the law and the ability to get the best G.D. Rottweiler lawyer under the sun, the split may not be fifty-fifty but there's no denying that one hundred per cent of something is, well, one hundred percent of everything.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Emotional: not your fault&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There's nothing to work out with your therapist. Culpability lies one hundred percent with Greyhound and the bus with his name on it. &lt;i&gt;Refer to appendix B under the entry "Betrayal" which comes right after "Bastard".&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Social: transitional&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Death doesn't leave you torn between "divorced", "separated", and "it's complicated" when updating your Facebook relationship status.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Family: nobody has to take sides&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After a divorce, people usually choose either the husband or the wife. With death, nobody has to choose at all and there is a certain continuity between both sides of the marital divide. Besides, who really wanted to side with that rat bastard?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Wills and Pensions&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nothing to do; you get it all. See section "Financial Issues" above. That insurance policy does have a double indemnity clause for Greyhound buses, right?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Pour moi&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What's in it for me? Heck, I don't have to pick up the pieces and move on. I'm dead. Hey (light comes on), I don't have to pay alimony! Hmmm, when I get to thinking about it, it really does sound like a win-win all around.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Final Word&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What? Final word? I'm the one who's going to have the final word? Yes, it may be my column but I'm certain this topic is going to be discussed, dissected or tossed around long after I turn out the lights and go home. On a serious note, whether it's death or divorce, anybody is going through a painful upheaval in their lives and I only wish you the best.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While I trust you will indulge my irreverence, I would defensively respond to anyone looking at me askance by saying, "Hey! I don't deny you your coping mechanisms!" You may take exception, even umbrage (gasp), but sometimes a little humour lightens the load. I will save my sobbing uncontrollably for my therapist.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;This whole mess is regrettable. I hope that everybody involved will be able to get on with the rest of their lives without suffering any lasting trauma. Believe it or not, I would like to see everyone happy, successful and at peace with themselves and the rest of the world.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Daily Plate of Crazy - Jun 29/2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://dailyplateofcrazy.com/2011/06/29/which-is-worse-death-or-divorce/" target="_blank"&gt;Which is Worse – Death or Divorce?&lt;/a&gt; by BigLittleWolf&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;I have never been a widow. I can only imagine it is terrible, and that depending upon the circumstances – time to prepare, or sudden loss – it is more or less “manageable” to survive the slow process of rebuilding a life. I have never suffered viewing the remains of a loved one, though I have lost both parents, and was involved (to varying degrees) in the necessary steps that followed. But I have been through divorce – a bad one – with tentacles that have tightened around every area of my adult life since the time the marriage split apart. With active tentacles that continue to do damage, a decade later.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Huffington Post - Jan 16/2012&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/d-a-wolf/death-or-divorce-which-is_b_1101346.html" target="_blank"&gt;Death Or Divorce: Which Is Worse?&lt;/a&gt; by BigLittleWolf&lt;br /&gt;[based on the above blog posting - 127 comments as of this writing]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No Parents, No Problem - August 2010&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://noparentsnoproblem.posterous.com/57746977" target="_blank"&gt;Better Off Dead? Or Better Off Divorced?&lt;/a&gt; by Andrea C. Santiago&lt;br /&gt;[10 year old Andrea loses her father. 11 year old Andrea tries to understand Mom's logic.]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Just think -- It could be much worse..." she said. "Look at the bright side."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Really?" I asked, intrigued. I wondered how it could be worse, and wondered what the "bright side" of a dead parent looks like.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Your dad and I could be divorced!" Mom emphatically proclaimed, "Imagine how much worse that would be. That would really be awful!"&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Andrea ends with this telling remark]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The doorbell rang. My ride was here, time to go!&amp;nbsp; "I'm going over to Laura's house to spend the night," I said. I walked out the door and hopped in the car with Laura, and her living, breathing, divorced dad.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://open.salon.com/blog/wqbelle/2012/01/17/divorce_why_im_better_off_dead#post_comments"&gt;RomanticPoetess&lt;/a&gt;: Open Salon - Jan 17/2012&lt;br /&gt;This blogger commented on a reprint of this article. I found what she said so compelling, I decided to publish it here (my bold):&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;I have also been through both. They are completely different experiences. &lt;b&gt;One takes your breath away but you always know you were loved, the other shakes your confidence in your own lovability.&lt;/b&gt; If I did not learn how to love and be love by the first one the second one would have been more damaging. 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He told everyone he would "find" $2 billion in the city's budget of $9.2 billion. His publicity buzz expression was "Stop the gravy train".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, various media fact checkers like the Toronto Star investigated Mr. Ford's claims and promises and found that the candidate's grasp of the issues and his supporting math were very much lacking. In fact, it was repeatedly pointed out that some of what he said just didn't make any sense. Nevertheless, Mr. Ford's message that the "fat cats" of city hall were abusing the system hit a sympathetic cord with the voters who gave him a 47% win, one of the largest leads for a winning mayor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A year later, here is where the city stands under Mr. Ford's leadership. Instead of finding $2 billion in savings in the existing budget, Toronto is $750 million in the red. Instead of following a promise to maintain services while finding $2 billion, Mr. Ford because of the $750 million shortfall must cut services. However to do so, he has gone to the public in a series of consultations asking them to pick which services he should cut. He's not cutting; the public is.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What's my opinion? Running a city with a $9 billion budget is not easy. Mr. Ford had never in his entire life done anything remotely similar to the complexities of such a job and yet the public, well, 47% of them, fell in love with this idea of fat cats abusing the system and wasting tax payers money. It turns out that none of this was true. Mr. Ford sold everyone on the answer being four when it turns out the problem was never two plus two; it was completely different, nothing as he described.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Another little point&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rob Ford made a campaign promise to remove 2 taxes that he said tax payers didn't want. He lived up to his promise and cut them for a loss of revenue to the city of $350 million. Toronto is currently $750 million in the red. If Rob Ford had left the taxes, Toronto would only be $400 million in the red. What I find curious about this is that when do tax payers not complain about taxes? Sure, go ahead and cut a tax but you better have a back-up plan and since Mr. Ford didn't find his $2 billion in the existing budget, his back-up plan just did not work, it didn't exist in the first place. My head hurts. What's your solution? Stomp on my foot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/rob-ford-let-show-begin.html"&gt;Rob Ford: Let the show begin!&lt;/a&gt; 2010-10-26&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;As Toronto wakes up to the realization there's a new sheriff in town, I, for one am cogitating on just what the future holds for us collectively. You may say I'm a pessimist but I like to think I'm a realist. In the political arena, what one says and what one does can be very different however this is not for lack of trying. Getting things done is very much dependent on factors than are sometimes outside of one's control and not fully understood. That's not pessimism; that's just a fact of life.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;At face value, Mr. Ford's buzz words and slogans hit all the right buttons. "Stop the gravy train." For any of us who have viewed and continue the view City Hall as being an out of control monster of fat cats who want nothing more than to steal from the poor to give to themselves, those are comforting words. However, now in the cold light of day, just who has taken the reins of power? Can he put his money where his mouth is?&lt;br /&gt;...&lt;br /&gt;In the Star's analysis (Ford's problem with free perks) of Ford's promise to remove these "free perks" and in so doing save Toronto $20 million a year, I see numbers which add up to a different picture. The total given by the Star is less than a half a million dollars, far short of this $20 million quoted by Ford. This is a perfect example of how Ford's statements sound good but do not hold up to mathematical scrutiny. Even if the Star is completely correct in their numbers, I see nothing from Ford's camp which would substantiate his $20 million claim. This just doesn't add up.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/rob-ford-day1-promise-1.html"&gt;Rob Ford: Day#1, promise #1?&lt;/a&gt; 2010-10-27&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Toronto Sun: Ford has vowed to rip streetcars off arterial roads and replace them with buses.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;CBC: Rob Ford says, "We will improve traffic flow downtown by removing some streetcars. Streetcars on downtown arterial streets will be replaced with clean buses that provide the same capacity on the same routes." Rob Ford also told the CBC's Steve D'Souza during the campaign: "Eliminate them all, within, you know, ten years. Get rid of all the streetcars. We don't need them."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;Subways not streetcars&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is Mr. Ford aware of the fact that a subway costs more than a streetcar? Far more?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;When Mr. Ford advocates for buses, does he know that streetcars run on electricity as opposed to combustible fuel? Pollution = zero, zip, nada.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Does Mr. Ford realise that a streetcar can carry more passengers than a bus because it is just bigger?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;When Mr. Ford talks of people complaining about having to wait behind streetcars when they're driving downtown, may I ask why the complainers are not taking the streetcar? Besides, who says that a bus weaving in and out of traffic is going to cause so much less congestion? I lived in the downtown core for 4 years and I found streetcars to be practical, quiet, efficient and non-polluting.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;Penalties?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;$100 million? Mr. Ford is not seriously considering the cancellation of the existing contract and making us all pay $100 million? This is exactly what happened in Ottawa a few years back. The newly elected mayor cancels the plan and the city has to pay zillions in penalties. Sorry, just plain foolish.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/rob-ford-drops-bag-er-ball.html"&gt;Rob Ford drops the bag... er, ball.&lt;/a&gt; 2010-12-30&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Newspapers today are reporting that Rob Ford has plans to get rid of the plastic bag fee. This bylaw which came into effect on June 1, 2009, requires all retailers in Toronto to charge a nickel for every single-use plastic retail shopping bag. Toronto was apparently the first Canadian city to pass such a law with the goal of reducing the amount of plastic being sent to landfills.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The CBC has reported that a number of grocery stores such as the Metro and Sobey's chains have said their plastic bag distribution rates have fallen between 70 and 80 per cent since the bylaw went into effect.&lt;br /&gt;...&lt;br /&gt;I can say from experience that the charge, although only five cents, made me finally get my act together and start doing what I should have been doing for years: carrying my own cloth bag and reusing it instead of getting more and more and more and more plastic bags. That has been admittedly a sin on my part and I am now trying to atone for it. Hail Mary.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Unfortunately if Mr. Ford does listen to the little guy and eliminate the plastic bag tax, he may be putting 5 cents into our pockets but misses the bigger picture. Yes, a better written by-law would have ensured the 5 cents collected by retailers was not just pocketed but spent on community initiatives. The important point, the really, really important point is what the CBC reported: a number of grocery stores such as the Metro and Sobey's chains have said their plastic bag distribution rates have fallen between 70 and 80 per cent since the bylaw went into effect.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/rob-ford-can-i-count-on-this-man.html"&gt;Rob Ford: Can I count on this man?&lt;/a&gt; 2011-01-06&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Rob Ford to axe LTR in favour of subway" Can this man count? I hate to keep coming back to an issue like a dog with a bone, but Mr. Ford has consistently said things where the numbers when added up do not match what he's saying. This leads me back to the belief that while the slogans sound good - Stop the gravy train! - is there substance behind the rhetoric?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/rob-ford-cut-taxes-oops-no-money-for.html"&gt;Rob Ford: Cut taxes. Oops, no money for TTC&lt;/a&gt; 2011-01-25&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Rob Ford was voted in by a public who seemed to be very much disenchanted with a number of high profile fiascos at city hall. I did not, I do not disagree that a house cleaning was in order. However, Mr. Ford while tapping into the public's thirst for buzzwords and catchy slogans kept uttering from time to time some ominous pronouncements which mathematically deserved to be thoroughly reviewed before implementation. I, like many, hate paying taxes. However, I recognise that taxes represent income for the government and just like me, if the government doesn't have an income, it can't spend money and if it can't spend money that usually translates into me not getting something I want. Did Rob Ford properly connect the dots before moving ahead with his buzzwords and slogans? Did the public understand "robbing Peter to pay Paul"?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/rob-ford-or-public-now-whos-dumber.html"&gt;Rob Ford or the public: Now who's dumber?&lt;/a&gt; 2011-07-30&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;This past week has seen the most unusual of events of the city's political scene. A marathon session of Toronto's city council's executive committee of over 21 hours saw over 300 people representing union members, arts groups, social agencies and others present their opinions about what to cut and what not to cut in Toronto's budget. There is an estimated $774 million funding gap in next year's budget and the mayor is going to have to cut something to save some money. The question is cut what?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;As part of the mayor's pledge to find the "gravy" at city hall, Ford's administration commissioned KPMG to do a study of 155 of the city's "core services". The 400 page report lists $700 million worth of cost cutting options including the closure of libraries, the elimination of subsidized daycare spots, stopping water fluoridation, closing the affordable housing office, the sale of the Toronto Zoo, scaling back snow clearing, closing city-owned theatres, cutting back on night buses and crossing guards.&lt;br /&gt;...&lt;br /&gt;Rob Ford was voted in not quite with a landslide but enough that one would think the Toronto citizens wanted a change. Did they get one? Politics is a game of buzz words, feel good phrases and smiling warmly while shaking your hand. Unfortunately, at some point that politician has to do something. Running a city, heck running a country (don't get me started on Harper!) is not easy. Anybody who runs for office has got to have a great deal of arrogance as I imagine they haven't got the foggiest idea of what they're getting themselves into.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Rob Ford convinced the voters he was going to make a difference. Rob Ford convinced us that he knew exactly what he was doing. Okay, so where's the beef? Mr. Ford had not yet sat in the driver's seat when he was campaigning. Mr. Ford had not yet looked at the books when he made promises he now can't keep. Mr. Ford claimed he could run the city of Toronto when he had never a city before in his life. Was that dumb?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;But the public voted for him. Now just who's dumber?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Final Word&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was speaking with a business acquaintance the other week who voted for Rob Ford. He said to me, "I think Rob Ford is doing a good job because he's doing what he said he would do." At the time I thought this was a curious thing for him to say but didn't debate the issue. I did however mull over this gentleman's view of Rob Ford and my own. Yes, Rob Ford said he would cancel two taxes he said the public did not like. He did this and cut $350 million of revenue from the city of Toronto's revenue. Now the city is $750 million in the red instead of $400 million. Rob Ford said he would "find $2 billion" in Toronto's annual budget of $9.2 billion. He didn't. In fact the city is three quarters of a billion dollars in the red. Rob Ford said he would not cut services. Due to the budget shortfall he is now doing exactly that. Rob Ford said he would cut the city's plastic bag tax (he hasn't yet) and yet, the major chains are reporting an 80% drop in the number of plastic bags being handed out which represents I'm guessing a lot less plastic going into landfills.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Economics as a subject of study can be a difficult topic. However there is a certain simplicity in the idea that if I earn a hundred bucks, I should only spend a hundred bucks. However when we throw politics into the mix, that is the concept of a leader trying to satisfy the competing demands of the constituents, we end up with the phenomenon of a human being making promises he may or may not be able to keep all because he wants to be elected.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As I said previously, Rob Ford throughout his campaign made some pretty wild promises and some pretty strange claims. I remain perplexed at how the public bought into his spiel as though a man who had no experience remotely similar to the job at hand would know what he was talking about. I will repeat this until I'm blue in the face: If it was as easy as a politician portrays it to be, it would be done by now. That means that since it isn't done, doing it has got to be a heck of lot harder than the politician is leading us to believe.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I will end with this quote from the Toronto Star reporter Royson James (&lt;a href="http://www.thestar.com/article/1032240--james-toronto-wants-its-vote-back" target="_blank"&gt;Toronto Star - July 30/2011&lt;/a&gt;): &lt;i&gt;"Mayor Rob Ford’s credibility is shot, shredded, blown to bits — victim of his excessive rhetoric and unsubstantiated claims."&lt;/i&gt; But what the @#$%^* do I know?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ford for Toronto by Matt Elliot&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://fordfortoronto.mattelliott.ca/2011/09/12/2012-budget-cuts/" target="_blank"&gt;2012 Budget: Trading tax cuts for service cuts in Rob Ford’s Toronto&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;After months packed with a weak, barely-heard consultation process and a maddeningly non-specific communication strategy employed by the mayor’s executive committee — who told us that nothing, specifically, was on the table for cuts, except everything —, today we finally received, by way of the city manager, a list of concrete recommendations for service cuts in the 2012 budget.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Toronto Star - July 30/2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thestar.com/article/1032240--james-toronto-wants-its-vote-back" target="_blank"&gt;Royson James: Toronto wants it vote back&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;No. No. No. And still no. That’s all Mayor Rob Ford and his executive committee heard from the public for almost 23 hours Thursday, into Friday. 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The right. Not the privilege; no, the right. However, how well do I know the issues? How well do I know the candidates? There are many sources of information vying for my attention whether it be print media, radio, television or various people including family, friends, neighbours and colleagues at work. How do I separate the wheat from the chaff? How do I distinguish between good and bad or right and wrong? How do I sort out fact from opinion or even fiction? Who do I believe? Who do I trust? But more importantly, who should I believe? Who should I trust?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have previously stated that in life, all of us accept certain immutable truths. Two plus two equals four, for instance. Okay, some wise guy is going to point out that two plus two equals "10" in base 3, but let's stick with base 10 for the moment and go along with the idea the correct answer is four. (Geesh, there's always a smartass in the crowd.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However when we look at politics and the idea that somebody is going to tell me the correct answer, I discover I am no longer in the arena of immutable truths. First of all, just what is the question? Is it two plus two or is it two plus three? I certainly don't know but there's a politician standing over there telling me he not only understands the problem, he knows what the right answer is. Does he? Really? He does seem to know how to knot his tie and a nice tie it is. Well, that's enough for me; I'm voting for him!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I guess you can tell where I'm going with this. The politician tells me the problem is two plus two and the answer is four. My simple example will fool you just as it fools me into thinking the entire issue boils down to knowing the question and figuring out the answer. Unfortunately, part of the problem and sometimes it's a major part of the problem is figuring out just what the question really is. What does that mean? A friend of mine told me he spent one summer during high school working at an appliance store. He would assist in going out on calls to repair machines. Apparently about 50% of the time, the repair consisted of nothing more than plugging the appliance in. Yep, that's right; just plugging the appliance back into the wall socket. It might have been the plug behind the refrigerator or the lamp cord which ran behind the couch but whatever the case the person in question had inadvertently unplugged the device and not realised it. My friend told me the repairman from the store would fiddle around for 10 minutes or so in order to give the impression they had actually done something to repair the "defective" appliance in order to justify the minimum charge for an on-site repair.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TFx16l_BzqI/AAAAAAAAAXo/K0jice4qLp4/s1600/SarahPalin.jpg"&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5502402494229237410" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TFx16l_BzqI/AAAAAAAAAXo/K0jice4qLp4/s320/SarahPalin.jpg" style="cursor: pointer; float: left; height: 251px; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; width: 201px;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;b&gt;Sarah Palin&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ever since the McCain camp in a fit desperation elevated this airhead to the national stage, I have been bombarded by a litany of uninformed, ill-conceived and just plain inane pronouncements the likes of which would embarrass Forest Gump. I have not figured out what this means for American politics, the fact that Momma Grizzly is front and centre or that there seems to be a percentage of voters who think this woman is the second coming. While I'm sure feminists everywhere are waiting in great anticipation for the day the first woman in history takes office in the White House, I have decided that if I ever see Ms. Palin with her hand raised while being administered the oath of office, I am going to move to Timbuktu. While I don't always agree with Hillary Clinton, she would be hands down the more admirable choice for the first female president than this piece of political eye candy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/sarah-palin-refudiate-this.html"&gt;Sarah Palin: Refudiate this!&lt;/a&gt; 2010-08-06&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;A plan to build a mosque near the Ground Zero site in New York generated quite a bit of controversy. People have been jumping on the bandwagon saying that this is offensive to America in light of the events of 9/11. On July 19, Sarah Palin, on the social networking site Twitter, wrote asking "peaceful Muslims" to "pls refudiate" the plan. She then corrected herself by then calling on "peaceful New Yorkers" to "refute the Ground Zero mosque plan". Well, refute isn't quite right either and while repudiate might fit, reject would probably be better but by then, it was too late. The rest of the world got a hold of this and have both savagely and delightedly gone after her for this "creative" use of the English language.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/38-trillion-reasons-to-think-of-sarah.html"&gt;3.8 Trillion Reasons to Think of Sarah&lt;/a&gt; 2010-08-10&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Sarah Palin has been putting out the following message: Barack Obama and the Democrats are going to institute the largest tax increase in the history of the United States, an amount of $3.8 trillion. Is this true or not true?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The curious aspect of such statements, especially for an average guy like yours truly, is to confirm this. Exactly where can I go to find out if this is, in fact, a true statement? Do I have to go a hold of a copy of the budget and read through a zillion pages trying to decipher God only knows what numbers? Do I have to become a budget expert well versed in the ins and outs of government spending?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well I did and Ms. Palin is so full of manure, I'm surprised she doesn't explode.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/we-always-come-back-to-hitler.html"&gt;We always come back to Hitler&lt;/a&gt; 2010-08-26&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;In the middle of 2009, debate was running hot on Barack Obama's proposed health care reform. On August 7, 2009, Sarah Palin posted on her Facebook page a note in which she described how the Obama plan would enable "death panels". Supposedly, elderly people would go before a review panel that would judge whether the person received health care or not. Palin characterised this as the panel would determine who lived and who died. All of this was linked to a Nazi euthanasia program called Action T4. Fair? Reading about the actual T4 program is horrifying and making such a comparison to Obama's health care plan is not just unjustified; it's downright insulting.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Of course, none of this was in the least bit true but that didn't stop an already misinformed and scared public from quickly making the connection between Obama and Hitler. Death Panels? Next stop: death camps! PolitiFact.Com conclusively proved that all this was just a bunch of nonsense but then went on to award Sarah Palin the dubious distinction of "Lie of the Year" for 2009.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;The GOP&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Starting around the middle of 2011 up until now, America and the world has been witness to the witless trotted out as potential contenders to unseating the current Democratic president. Sometimes I chuckle away at the inanity of it all while watching The Daily Show or The Colbert Report, It is all quite amusing. Other times when I'm reading a more (supposedly) objective and serious account of what's going on as reported in the newspapers, I am stunned that we are even giving any weight to these proceedings. In fact I do see that yes, the GOP is serious and yes, there are supporters who would not only vote for these various candidates, are actively out trying to drum up support for their particular candidate to be the one sitting in the Oval Office with the launch codes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You're sh*ttin' me, right? This is a joke. Any second now, somebody is going to come out of the wings at the debate, take the microphone then announce the Republican party has punk'd America. "Thank you, ladies and gentlemen. It's been a fun evening. So now, we will bring out the real candidates."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ltfJOvnPOTQ/TiCmcVf_VeI/AAAAAAAABBY/EvcVkJ3ECak/s1600/MicheleBachmann.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ltfJOvnPOTQ/TiCmcVf_VeI/AAAAAAAABBY/EvcVkJ3ECak/s1600/MicheleBachmann.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;Michele Bachmann&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have sat in front of television set with my mouth wide open. Has the pollution count gone up over the continental U.S. and the level of oxygen has dipped from its normal 21% to, let's say, 18% and the public is now loopy and not thinking correctly? I have laughed at this woman's ridiculous pronouncements only to come to realize that there was a segment of the population, albeit thank God a small segment, which felt she was a viable candidate. I shake my head as I just don't understand how she managed to get as far as she did. Other than a few wisecracks, nobody should have been sticking a microphone in front of her... at all!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/07/michele-bachmann-next-president-of-wth.html"&gt;Michele Bachmann: the next president of the WTH!?!&lt;/a&gt; 2011-07-15&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ms. Bachmann has now signed a pledge written by a socially-conservative advocacy group in Iowa called the Family Leader, led by Bob Vander Plaats. The pledge “The Marriage Vow: A Declaration of Dependence Upon Marriage and Family” endorses the view that homosexuality is a choice rather than a biological trait.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;FYI: I loved the video on YouTube where an eight-year-old boy says to Michele Bachmann that her mother is gay and he doesn't think she needs to be fixed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/michele-bachmann-corn-dog-and-oral.html"&gt;Michele Bachmann, a Corn Dog and the Oral Office&lt;/a&gt; 2011-08-14&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Congresswoman Michele Bachmann won the Iowa Straw Poll with 28.6%. While various news analysts and Ms. Bachmann herself have supposedly called this an important win or a solid or resounding victory, an article in the Huffington Post by Richard Greener points out something so obvious, so overwhelming obvious, it is surprising at how these people could be so blind. 71.4% of the voters did not pick Michele Bachmann. At a GOP-sponsored affair where the most fervent supporters of the Iowa Republican Party come together and nearly three-quarters of those people do not vote for Bachmann, how can anyone, media or Bachmann herself, say that this in any way resembles a victory?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/michele-bachmann-and-far-far-far-far.html"&gt;Michele Bachmann and the far, far, far, far, far right&lt;/a&gt; 2011-08-17&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Reporter Michelle Goldberg in an article entitled "A Christian Plot for Domination?" describes how Michele Bachmann and Rick Perry are closely associated with a theocratic strain of Christian fundamentalism known as Dominionism. Let's touch upon a couple of points to ensure we all know the details. Theocracy is a form of government in which a state is understood as governed by immediate divine guidance provided to ruling clergy or other ruling officials. Dominionism, in the context of politics and religion, is the tendency among some politically active conservative Christians to seek influence or control over secular civil government through political action, especially in the United States.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ms. Goldberg writes: "Put simply, Dominionism means that Christians have a God-given right to rule all earthly institutions."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;For a long time, I have heard people make the statement that Christianity has been one of the most imperialistic movements throughout history. It would seem that Ms. Goldberg is pointing out a worrisome recrudescence of this imperialism however this time; it is making its way into mainstream politics. For a country which supposedly promotes the idea of the separation of church and state, there are many within its ranks who believe otherwise.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/shes-here-to-help-michele-bachmann-at.html"&gt;She's here to help: Michele Bachmann, at your cervix&lt;/a&gt; 2011-09-16&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Here's the premise for this article. Medical science backed up by statistical evidence shows that by taking the HPV vaccine, you can reduce the number of deaths from cervical cancer by thousands. Yes, thousands. Then a politician vying for public office stands up and recounts a supposed personal experience which makes her completely doubt the safety of the vaccine. The politician is not a medical doctor. Based on anecdotal information... no, based on a single anecdote, the politician who is in a position to influence millions suggests that people should not take the vaccine.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-tLDXdzcvE-Q/TlLEoqMYXJI/AAAAAAAABFk/ANM85Z2Mi_E/s1600/RickPerry.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-tLDXdzcvE-Q/TlLEoqMYXJI/AAAAAAAABFk/ANM85Z2Mi_E/s1600/RickPerry.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;Rick Perry&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What? I sit perplexed every time this man takes to the podium. Does he know how to give a speech? Does he drink beforehand? The rambling, the forgetfulness is such that I question the man's (mental) health.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/rick-perry-nar-and-rapture-of-morons.html"&gt;Rick Perry, the NAR and the Rapture of Morons&lt;/a&gt; 2011-08-22&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;As the United States gears up for its election campaign 2012, much attention is being paid to who will win the GOP spot to run against the Democrats. Who will get a chance to topple the current leader and make him a one term president?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;A lot of ink has been spilled about Sarah Palin, an intellectual featherweight who is so dumb, she... well, there are so many metaphors deserving to be written, where can one possibly begin? If McCain did anything, he gave the most undeserving presidential contender in the world 15 minutes of fame by elevating a complete idiot to being one step away from the Oval Office.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Michele Bachmann is another twit whose cerebral cortex defies categorisation. While I can make a humorous reference to tourettes in order to explain this woman's compulsive vocalisation of whatever random thought enters her brain, the truth is that Bachmann's singular obsession with leadership is not in any way accompanied by a thorough and profound grasp of the issues and a comprehensive, well thought out strategy for dealing with said issues. She is sustained by a religious fervour which has clouded her judgement and blinded her to anything outside of her own small realm of experience.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The new right wing pin-up boy is Rick Perry, a frightening amalgam of personal conviction and religious zeal which seems to be capable of arriving at leaps of faith in the face of logic where two plus two equals five because the interpretation of an obscure Biblical passage by some obscure self-proclaimed lay expert says so. Fifty percent of the time I'm right and fifty percent of the time you're wrong. If I jump out of an airplane without a parachute, Jesus will save me. Of course I'm not sure how "God helps those who help themselves" is supposed to fit into any of this.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/09/rick-perry-and-sex-education-abstinence.html"&gt;Rick Perry and Sex Education: Abstinence works!&lt;/a&gt; 2011-09-01&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Time Magazine (Aug 31/2011): Gov. Rick Perry's Weird Science: Teen Pregnancy Aside, "Abstinence Works": Texas has the highest teen birth rate and the fourth highest teen pregnancy rate in the U.S., according to the Guttmacher Institute. So when Gov. Perry turned down $4.4 million in federal funding for pregnancy prevention programs and decided to continue with state-funded abstinence-only education in October 2010, a reporter from the Texas Tribune asked him why. Specifically, why, in the face of rising teen pregnancy rates, would the governor stick with a method that didn't seem to be working?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Abstinence works," Perry replied to a roomful of laughter. The reporter pressed on, asking for data to back up the assertion that abstinence education leads to lower teen pregnancy rates. Flustered, Perry said that he knew abstinence worked from his "own personal life."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-BKNSRUKRG7w/Tw4bjnNuRII/AAAAAAAABV4/xkSprZXSatc/s1600/NewtGingrich.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-BKNSRUKRG7w/Tw4bjnNuRII/AAAAAAAABV4/xkSprZXSatc/s1600/NewtGingrich.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;Newt Gingrich&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Would you want this man as president as opposed to Barack Obama? Family man: married three times. Frugal financially: the controversy surrounding huge lines of credit at Tiffany's. As speaker of the house from 1995 to 1999, Gingrich had eighty-four ethics charges filed against him. He was sanctioned $300,000 by a 395–28 House vote and this was the first time in history a speaker was disciplined for ethical wrongdoing. (&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Newt_Gingrich#Ethics_sanctions" target="_blank"&gt;Wikipedia&lt;/a&gt;) Is it just me or is there something odd here?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/08/dearborn-michigan-watch-out-for.html"&gt;Dearborn, Michigan: Watch out for extremists!&lt;/a&gt; 2010-08-18&lt;br /&gt;In June 2010, this city played host to the 15th Annual Dearborn Arab International Festival, a family event with food, a carnival, an interactive children's stage, Arab merchandise, calligraphy and bread making. Every year some Christian groups have set up booths at the festival but there have never been any reports of any conflicts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At this particular event, a well known militant "Christian" group whose sole purpose is to convert Muslims to Christianity decided to create a ruckus with the express purpose of making a name for themselves by getting free publicity from the media. A Christian missionary from a different group at the festival called the police about this Christian militant group to report them as disturbing the peace. The Christian police chief in consultation with the Christian mayor sent in Christian police officers who arrested the members of this group. When this hit the major news outlets, the story somehow was transformed into a story of Dearborn Muslims taking over the city to instill Sharia law and push out any and all Christians. I investigated this and discovered, no I proved that none of this was true. The police arrested people who were disrupting a family event. Period. End of story. But because this happened outside of a Muslim festival, all the right-wing conspiracy nuts jumped on a soapbox to denounce the islamization of the United States.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The militant group videotaped their arrest but it was discovered they edited the video tape to portray themselves in a sympathetic light, to make it look like they were being subjugated by a Muslim influenced police. Not true.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The response from the public was a clear indication of how some circles in the United States have erroneously equated anything relating to Muslims and their faith to terrorism and Osama bin Laden. The sky is falling. Terrorists are everywhere. We are in grave danger. Has everyone forgotten that until 9/11, the largest single act of terrorism on American soil was the Oklahoma City Bombing committed by one Timothy McVeigh, an American-born Christian? Did you hear me? American-born!!! Christian!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As well as the negative reaction on the part of some of the public, fearing a "Muslim take-over" of the U.S., Newt Gingrich held himself up as a shining example of understanding and tolerance. The Detroit Free Press of August 4, 2010 reported:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;In a letter published last week on the Human Events Web site as well his own Web site, the former U.S. House speaker says that the jailing of the four Christian missionaries is an example of Islamic extremism coming to the U.S.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"This is a clear case of freedom of speech and the exercise of religious freedom being sacrificed in deference to shari'a's intolerance against the preaching of religions other than Islam," Gingrich wrote in a letter published last week.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Gingrich said the missionaries were handing out copies of Christian literature, which is "of course, forbidden by shari'a's rules on proselytizing."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A Christian police chief in consultation with a Christian mayor send out Christian police officers who at first warn the finally have to arrest Christians who are disturbing the peace. The only thing Muslim about this entire story is that it happened outside an Arab festival. Okay, what if it had been a Jewish festival? Or a Roman Catholic festival?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What Gingrich said is just plain wrong. It's not true. Those aren't the facts. It is spreading a lie and misinformation and it is fear mongering. Am I going to vote for a guy who says stuff like this? Newt Gingrich, shame on you! What you said was terrible!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Final Word&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At university I took a course in macro-economics. I've never forgotten how the professor explained the idea of how economics has in a 10 year cycle while politics has a 4 year cycle. The obvious conflict of interest is that what's expedient for political gain may in fact not be in the best interest of the longer-term economical goals. As I stand back and watch things unfold, I realize that we, the individuals making up the voters, are many times looking only at our own self-interests. Yes, I don't want to pay taxes but then where does the government get the money to build and maintain the roads I the tax payer drives on? Sometimes the government or the collective will of the people has to force me to do something like pay my taxes for the greater good even though I personally may not like it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However I also saw in that course on economics that economics is not a simple subject. It is not a science like two plus two equals four; it is much more and I mean much more imprecise. In theory if you know the value of each variable of an equation, you should be able to calculate the "right answer". However the reality is that the equation is so big with so many variables and so many variables with unknown values that you can never really come up with the "right answer". The best you can do is some sort of guess.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a consequence, when a politician stands up and tells me he or she knows the right answer; I am very much a Doubting Thomas. I find it far more believable to hear a leader tell me he doesn't know everything, that he doesn't necessarily have the right answer but that if we pull together and work hard we can head in an agreed upon direction. I don't expect to win the lottery but if I have a job and work hard, I expect to get paid at the end of the week. That's believable; the lottery is not. Of course, some people like to gamble, even with their vote in the vague idea things will work out and God will provide. Hmmm, the Lord helps those who help themselves but what the @#$%^* do I know?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2012/01/what-do-i-know.html"&gt;What the @#$%^* do I know?&lt;/a&gt; 2012-01-03&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;When I first started to stick my nose where it didn't belong, those dark hidden recesses where the sun doesn't shine (I secretly wanted to be a proctologist?), I discovered things. (Okay, now is this where I insert something like I was looking for the scoop but found the poop?) When I first looked at the idea of blogging, I quickly realized that bloggers use their blogs to state their opinion. Nothing wrong with that but as time wore on, I began to find a number of people stating opinions which didn't match with reality or at least my impression of what reality is. &lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/god-does-not-help-those-who-help.html"&gt;God does "not" help those who help themselves&lt;/a&gt; 2011-01-03&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;I read a blog dated January 2, 2011 called Another Child Dead, Another Christian Parent In Jail by Al Stefanelli about a woman in Florida who refused medical treatment for her 9 year old son and he died. Apparently she belongs to a faith-based healing church and was relying strictly on prayer to cure her son. Mr. Stefanelli, a self-professed atheist, talked about her actions or should I say inactions and how the Journal of Paediatrics examined a group of such incidents and concluded that in 4 out of 5 of the cases, medical intervention would have saved the person in question.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2012-01-11&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/wqbelle" target="_blank"&gt;Follow me on Twitter &lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvjllt5gxI/AAAAAAAAAns/8GFdNjTyiKU/s1600/icon-Twitter.jpg" style="border: 0px none; 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text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-WAEgi9yGyHI/TwvA3FKu82I/AAAAAAAABVo/IpQ_g960r3c/s1600/SteelyDan-TheRoyalScam.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-WAEgi9yGyHI/TwvA3FKu82I/AAAAAAAABVo/IpQ_g960r3c/s1600/SteelyDan-TheRoyalScam.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by Morcaiden on Oct 12, 2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;I apologise for the video. The original I found was taken down and this was the one with the best sound I could find. Its images are, well, a little bizarre.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fez_%28hat%29" target="_blank"&gt;Fez&lt;/a&gt; (hat)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The fez is a felt hat either in the shape of a red truncated cone or in the shape of a short cylinder made of kilim fabric. Both usually have tassels. The fez is largely believed to be of Greek origins and later spread to the Ottoman Empire where it was popularized.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Royal_Scam" target="_blank"&gt;The Royal Scam&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Royal Scam is the fifth album by Steely Dan, originally released by ABC Records in 1976. The album went gold and peaked at #15 on the charts. The Royal Scam features more prominent guitar work than other Steely Dan albums. Guitarists on the recording include Walter Becker, Denny Dias, Larry Carlton, Elliott Randall and Dean Parks.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steely_Dan" target="_blank"&gt;Steely Dan&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Steely Dan is an American rock band; its core members are Donald Fagen and Walter Becker. The band's popularity peaked in the late 1970s, with the release of seven albums blending elements of jazz, rock, funk, R&amp;amp;B, and pop. Rolling Stone has called them "the perfect musical antiheroes for the Seventies."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The band's music is characterized by complex jazz-influenced structures and harmonies played by Becker and Fagen along with a revolving cast of rock and pop studio musicians. Steely Dan's "cerebral, wry and eccentric" lyrics, often filled with sharp sarcasm, touch upon such themes as drugs, love affairs, and crime. The pair is well-known for their near-obsessive perfectionism in the recording studio, with one notable example being that Becker and Fagen used at least 42 different studio musicians, 11 engineers, and took over a year to record the tracks that resulted in 1980's Gaucho — an album that contains only seven songs.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Steely Dan toured from 1972 to 1974, but in 1975 became a purely studio-based act. The late 1970s saw the group release a series of moderately successful singles and albums. They disbanded in 1981, and throughout most of the next decade, Fagen and Becker remained largely inactive in the music world. During this time, the group steadily built and maintained "a cult following." In 1993, the group resumed playing live concerts; later Steely Dan released two albums of new material, the first of which earned a Grammy Award for Album of the Year. They have sold more than 30 million albums worldwide and were inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in March 2001.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;official web site: &lt;a href="http://www.steelydan.com/"&gt;Steely Dan&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[latest news, concert dates, lyrics to all songs]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;official web site: &lt;a href="http://www.steelydan.com/faq.html" target="_blank"&gt;FAQ: origin of the name&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Since both of [Fagen and Becker] were avid readers of 1950's "Beat" literature, they decided to name the band "Steely Dan" after a dildo in William Burroughs' "Naked Lunch."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Some personal notes&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh my gawd, I had not heard this song in years. No, decades. It is absolutely fabulous. I bought the Steely Dan album The Royal Scam when it first came out and just loved it. This group has done some unbelievably good music.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't know about you but when I take a fancy to a song, I listen to it over and over and over and over again. *chuckles* For each song I posted here on my blog, I've probably listened to it about, oh, a zillion times. It sets the moment, captures my imagination and transports me to some cinematic scene where I get to witness the protagonists or get to be one of protagonists. Oops, it seems I've forgotten to take my meds again. Now if you'll excuse me... *stands up, extends the cord to the ear phones and begins to dance beside his computer table... sings* &lt;i&gt;Ain't never gonna do it without the fez on...&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2011-01-09&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/wqbelle" target="_blank"&gt;Follow me on Twitter &lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvjllt5gxI/AAAAAAAAAns/8GFdNjTyiKU/s1600/icon-Twitter.jpg" style="border: 0px none; 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text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-9t0bF7jsaIM/TwoHtXFpAqI/AAAAAAAABVg/JUFCKPg-cy0/s1600/SteelyDan-Aja.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-9t0bF7jsaIM/TwoHtXFpAqI/AAAAAAAABVg/JUFCKPg-cy0/s1600/SteelyDan-Aja.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by JaBluRo835 on Jan 25, 2009&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peg_%28song%29" target="_blank"&gt;Peg&lt;/a&gt; (song)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Peg" is a song by rock group Steely Dan that was released as a single from their 1977 album Aja. In G Major, it, like many Steely Dan songs from the period, blends rock with jazz and R&amp;amp;B elements. The song became a big hit in 1978.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The song's guitar solo was attempted by seven top session guitarists before Jay Graydon's version became the "keeper". He worked on the song for about 6 hours before the band was satisfied. Rick Marotta played drums on the track.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Michael McDonald can be heard providing backup vocals in the choruses; keyboardist Paul Griffin can also be heard improvising background vocals in the final chorus and fadeout.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aja_%28album%29" target="_blank"&gt;Aja&lt;/a&gt; (album)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Aja is the sixth album by the jazz rock band Steely Dan. Originally released in 1977 on ABC Records, it became the group's best-selling album. Peaking at #3 on the U.S. charts and #5 in the United Kingdom, it was the band's first platinum album, eventually selling over 5 million copies. In July 1978, the album won the Grammy Award for Best Engineered Non-Classical Recording. In 2003, the album was ranked number 145 on Rolling Stone's "The 500 Greatest Albums of All Time" list.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steely_Dan" target="_blank"&gt;Steely Dan&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Steely Dan is an American rock band; its core members are Donald Fagen and Walter Becker. The band's popularity peaked in the late 1970s, with the release of seven albums blending elements of jazz, rock, funk, R&amp;amp;B, and pop. Rolling Stone has called them "the perfect musical antiheroes for the Seventies."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The band's music is characterized by complex jazz-influenced structures and harmonies played by Becker and Fagen along with a revolving cast of rock and pop studio musicians. Steely Dan's "cerebral, wry and eccentric" lyrics, often filled with sharp sarcasm, touch upon such themes as drugs, love affairs, and crime. The pair is well-known for their near-obsessive perfectionism in the recording studio, with one notable example being that Becker and Fagen used at least 42 different studio musicians, 11 engineers, and took over a year to record the tracks that resulted in 1980's Gaucho — an album that contains only seven songs.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Steely Dan toured from 1972 to 1974, but in 1975 became a purely studio-based act. The late 1970s saw the group release a series of moderately successful singles and albums. They disbanded in 1981, and throughout most of the next decade, Fagen and Becker remained largely inactive in the music world. During this time, the group steadily built and maintained "a cult following." In 1993, the group resumed playing live concerts; later Steely Dan released two albums of new material, the first of which earned a Grammy Award for Album of the Year. They have sold more than 30 million albums worldwide and were inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in March 2001.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;official web site: &lt;a href="http://www.steelydan.com"&gt;Steely Dan&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[latest news, concert dates, lyrics to all songs]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;official web site: &lt;a href="http://www.steelydan.com/faq.html" target="_blank"&gt;FAQ: origin of the name&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Since both of [Fagen and Becker] were avid readers of 1950's "Beat" literature, they decided to name the band "Steely Dan" after a dildo in William Burroughs' "Naked Lunch."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Some personal notes&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why do I write a blog and post these music entries? Simple, I like music. Even though the length of the cord on my earphones is limited, I do occasionally dance beside my computer desk. FYI: The earphones give a far better sound quality than the small laptop speakers and I dance much better with good sound.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why do I put in these references? As I've said elsewhere in this blog, yes, I'm stating "my opinion" but I like to think I can prove it and I have the references to back me up. (see my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2012/01/what-do-i-know.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;What the @#$%^* do I know?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;) But for these musical entries, I'm offering you, the reader, an opportunity to discover some interesting points about this great music. There are some fabulously talented people in the world and they deserve credit for their extraodinary abilities.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the way, since I am using Wikipedia in my references, I started this past year to make a monetary donation to the non profit organisation. Unfortunately I can't get a tax credit for this but no matter, I think founder Jimmy Wales is doing a good thing in the world and supporting this is more important than my tax credit. I'm not rich but I can afford to support worthwhile projects. I also give blood regularly. Yes, I'm just that type of guy. :-) Let's all &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pay_it_forward" target="_blank"&gt;pay it forward&lt;/a&gt;. 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(Okay, now is this where I insert something like I was looking for the scoop but found the poop?) When I first looked at the idea of blogging, I quickly realized that bloggers use their blogs to state their opinion. Nothing wrong with that but as time wore on, I began to find a number of people stating opinions which didn't match with reality or at least my impression of what reality is. (Okay, Mister Wiseguy, can you really prove that the world is &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; flat?) All of my entries now have a references section in which I put links to (I hope) reputable sources: newspapers, professional journals and experts (people a hell of a lot smarter than me), all of which supposedly supports the point I'm trying to make. Sometimes I discover that the point I'm trying to make is unfounded. Yes, sometimes even I am full of &lt;strike&gt;s**t&lt;/strike&gt; manure.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If there is one important aspect to all of this, it is that I have found all of us seem to be tainted by our opinion and our experiences. What does that bizarre statement mean? Dr. Marty Klein, an American sex therapist sums it up nicely with a line I keep repeating ad infinitum (Or is it ad nauseum?), &lt;i&gt;"The plural of anecdote is not data."&lt;/i&gt; All of what we know, all of what we do, is based on our knowledge, our education, and our experiences however I would put forward that more often than we would care to admit, we make mistakes because we do not realize that our knowledge is incomplete. Because our knowledge is incomplete, we may be taking the wrong course of action.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some supposed truths seem to be irrefutable. Two plus two equals four. The law of gravity is real; drop a bowling ball on your foot if you don't believe me. I can frizz my hair if I stick a finger in a light socket. Those types of things seem givens and we're not going to argue about them. Each and every one of us has experienced these givens and can reproduce them at any time. However, when we stray into other areas of debate such as religion, politics and human relations, the number of perspectives is startling and the cacophony I hear is everyone voicing their own personal opinion about what's the truth. But just what is the truth? What is it that would be the equivalent of two plus two equals four, something none of us could dispute, and something all of us could accept as "the" truth? Oh boy, I'm sure I'm opening a can of worms with this one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Seat Belts&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to Wikipedia (&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seat_belt_legislation#History"&gt;Seat Belt Legislation: History&lt;/a&gt;), seat belts became mandatory in the United States in 1984 and in Canada in 1976. I remember various people, both friend and family, grumbling about this: I've never needed one. In general, do any of us like being told what to do? But along with the grumbling I remember several people recounting some story about knowing somebody who was in an accident and was better off or saved precisely because they were not wearing a safety belt. Let's be frank. All of this is anecdotal. All of these people had no statistics at all to back up anything they were saying. They were merely saying anything which would support their idea that safety belts were unnecessary.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The truth? The factual data, the statistics overwhelmingly support the benefits of safety beats in both saving lives and reducing injury. The U.S. National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) estimates that 10,000 lives are saved every year due to safety belts and another 9,000 would be saved if they had been wearing a seat belt. (&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.fcsm.gov/03papers/Glassbrenner.pdf"&gt;Estimating the Lives Saved by Safety Belts and Air Bags&lt;/a&gt;) I think it would be fair to say that anybody voicing a dissenting opinion about the mandatory use of safety belts would be laughed off the stage. Yes, today it may seem so obvious we may wonder how we could have collectively ignored this safety device for the time we did. Nevertheless, at one time our society accepted quite unquestioningly that seat belts were not part of the landscape.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Vaccinations&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Are vaccinations good or bad? I quote from Wikipedia (&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaccine_controversies#Effectiveness"&gt;Vaccine controversies: Effectiveness&lt;/a&gt;):&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Mass vaccination helped eradicate smallpox, which once killed as many as one in seven children in Europe. Vaccination has almost eradicated polio. As a more modest example, incidence of invasive disease with Haemophilus influenzae, a major cause of bacterial meningitis and other serious disease in children, has decreased by over 99% in the US since the introduction of a vaccine in 1988. Fully vaccinating all US children born in a given year from birth to adolescence saves an estimated 33,000 lives and prevents an estimated 14 million infections.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, the American actress Jenny McCarthy has taken the stance that her son's autism was caused by vaccination. She has published a book supporting this claim; she speaks publicly about it and has made numerous appearances on talk shows to expound her theories. According to &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jenny_McCarthy#Activism_and_autism_controversy"&gt;Wikipedia&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;i&gt;McCarthy's claims that vaccines cause autism are not supported by any medical evidence and the original paper by Andrew Wakefield that formed the basis for the claims (and for whose book McCarthy wrote a foreword) has been shown to be based on manipulated data and fraudulent research.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The James Randi Educational Foundation, with the tagline "an educational resource on the paranormal, pseudoscientific, and the supernatural", awarded Ms. McCarthy their &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.randi.org/site/index.php/jref-news/500-pigasus-awards-for-2008-announced.html"&gt;2008 Pegasus Award&lt;/a&gt; for the 'Performer Who Has Fooled The Greatest Number of People with The Least Amount of Effort'.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Jenny McCarthy is well known as a model and actor, but in recent days she's getting far more publicity for her stance that vaccines cause autism. She has a son who may be autistic, and of course we are sympathetic to her plight. But that can only go so far when Ms. McCarthy appears on endless chat shows, is interviewed in magazine articles, and even writes books encouraging people not to vaccinate their children.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Numerous, well-done studies have shown conclusively that there is no causal link between vaccines and the onset of autistic spectrum disorders (ASD) - the claim that they are connected is spurious, based on anecdotes and the fact that vaccines are given to children around the same time that ASD symptoms begin to appear.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The antivaccination movement has been directly linked with outbreaks of various vaccine-preventable diseases such as measles, and there have been numerous illnesses and even deaths associated with these outbreaks. The facts are in, and have been for quite some time: vaccines are an overwhelming modern medical success story, having eradicated such scourges as smallpox, and hugely lowering rates of other diseases such as measles, mumps, rubella, polio, influenza, and diptheria. The evidence is also overwhelmingly against any link between vaccines and autism as well.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Yet all that evidence has been overturned in the public's mind with ease and alacrity by Ms. McCarthy, so she wins the Pigasus award for her contribution to the country's ill-health.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;CNN- Feb 4/2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.cnn.com/2011/HEALTH/02/03/gupta.gates.vaccines.world.health/"&gt;Bill Gates: Vaccine-autism link 'an absolute lie'&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Microsoft founder Bill Gates sat down recently with CNN Chief Medical Correspondent Sanjay Gupta in Davos, Switzerland. The billionaire philanthropist was attending the World Economic Forum to push his mission of eradicating polio by 2012. Gates, through his foundation, also pledged $10 billion to provide vaccinations to children around the world within a decade.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What is truly curious in all this is how the public have taken to Ms. McCarthy as a valid source of information about this issue. She is not a scientist; she has not done herself or relied on factual data from double blind tests with a university sanctioned methodology; she has based everything she says on her one experience with her own son. But the public, or at least some of the public, are following her every word as though she could possibly know what she talking about. Time Magazine (&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://healthland.time.com/2011/04/26/jenny-mccarthy-vaccine-expert-a-quarter-of-parents-trust-celebrities/"&gt;April 26, 2011&lt;/a&gt;) reported on this story by saying: &lt;i&gt;Jenny McCarthy is a former Playboy bunny, not an academic expert, a doctor or a vaccine researcher. Yet 24% of parents surveyed recently by the University of Michigan say they place “some trust” in information provided by celebrities such as McCarthy about the safety of vaccines.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Superstition&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Superstition"&gt;Wikipedia&lt;/a&gt; gives this definition: &lt;i&gt;Superstition is a belief in supernatural causality: that one event leads to the cause of another without any process in the physical world linking the two events. Interestingly, it goes on to say: The word is often used pejoratively to refer to practices (e.g., Voodoo) other than the one prevailing in a given society (e.g., Christianity in western culture), although the prevailing religion may contain just as many supernatural beliefs.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I was cogitating (I get into a lot of trouble when I cogitate), it occurred to me that we looked down on the superstitions of our ancestors. Sacrifices to the "gods"? Worshipping the sun? If you walk far enough into the distance, you'll fall off the earth? (Wait! That's not true!?!) Just what were those silly people thinking? Today, we know so much better. Hmmm, but do we?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You and I are sitting in Starbucks having a coffee and chewing the fat. Two plus two equals four. No doubt about it. I can get four stir sticks and demonstrate it so both of us agree that this is, in fact, true. Should we always wear a safety belt when we drive a car? Are vaccinations so dangerous we should stop taking them? Was the world created six thousand years ago or was it formed billions of years ago? But more importantly, does it matter? There's the all important question: does it matter?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you promote the idea of not wearing a seat belt, the overwhelming statistical evidence shows you to be doing harm to society in general. Yes, you may have a story, a single story, about the exception to the rule but do we then ignore the bigger picture? A rule has an exception but the exception should not make the rule.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Scientific evidence shows that vaccinations are beneficial. However, nothing is perfect. There will always be some risk but at the end of the day, we collectively, we as a society must decide on the greater good. Would you kill one person to save a thousand? It may be a philosophical question but in terms of the greater good, would you remove a vaccine from the market that benefited many because of a problem with one?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I personally don't care if you think the world was created six thousand years ago. Unfortunately, I have found over and over again this is the tip of the iceberg. This is the sign that the mind behind that belief is a literal interpreter of a Bible as &lt;i&gt;the&lt;/i&gt; word of God. The Bible is not the writings of men trying to record their history, their stories and their wisdom of the ages which may or may not be God's teachings; no it is literally the word of the Lord. These people justify their actions whether good or oh so bad by stating it is the will of the Lord. Really now? You, yes you know what God wants. The God who "works in mysterious ways". (&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/William_Cowper"&gt;William Cowper&lt;/a&gt;) Gee, considering that God is supposed to be omniscient and omnipotent, the creator of the heavens and the earth, the designer of genes, the inventor of quantums and all that relativity stuff, well, hats off to you who deem yourself to be that much of a genius to know God so intimately you understand him and his ways. "The knowledge of God is beyond man's reason." (Hazrat Inayat Khan) May I remind you that even Albert Einstein was wrong once in a while. And you're no Einstein.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Final Word&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm just a guy; nobody famous; nobody special. Like you, I'm just trying to make sense of it all. I'm trying to make a buck, pay my bills and figure out life if that is any way possible. I don't know everything... unlike you... no, not you... the guy in the back wearing the &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tin_foil_hat"&gt;tin foil hat&lt;/a&gt;... as I would like to be a little more sure of my facts before I make the decision to put on the hat. And like everybody else, I don't always have the time to do my own investigation of whether or not something is true. At some point, I have to put my trust in an expert and accept their opinion. Some guy in an alley told me that if I invest early in the Brooklyn Bridge, he can double my money in less than 6 months.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Socrates supposedly said, "The more I know, the less I know." Like the idea that if you never leave your valley, you never find out the world extends farther than your own borders, when I acquire knowledge, I better understand what I don't know. I certainly do not understand Einstein's theory of relativity but a university course in calculus and another in physics opened my eyes to what it is. Ha! I still don't understand it, but now I do know it's there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Over the years I have met some very, very smart people. So smart, they almost gave me an inferiority complex. However over my lifetime, I have discovered a truth which I still find startling. Periodically, I am told that I'm good but when I look around me to see the competition, I realize the "truth": it's not that I'm so good, it's that everybody else is so bad. Yep, I'm just your average, run-of-the-mill guy but everybody else around me is either so uneducated, inexperienced or just plain dumb, I look like a shining star. I may be the biggest fish in this particular pond or the king of that particular hill but I've been to other ponds and other hills and realized there is so much more beyond the end of my nose.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The plural of anecdote is not data &lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.sexed.org/archive/article20.html"&gt;Marty Klein, Ph.D&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What @#$%^* do I know? Like Socrates, I know that I don't know and armed with that knowledge, I intend on trying to find out the truth, &lt;i&gt;the&lt;/i&gt; truth. Not &lt;i&gt;your&lt;/i&gt; truth, not &lt;i&gt;his&lt;/i&gt; truth, not &lt;i&gt;her&lt;/i&gt; truth, but &lt;i&gt;the&lt;/i&gt; truth. Whew. I better get started. I've got a long way to go.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seat_belt_legislation"&gt;Seat belt legislation&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Seat belt legislation requires the fitting of seat belts to motor vehicles and/or the wearing of seat belts by motor vehicle occupants. The U.S. state of Wisconsin introduced legislation in 1961 requiring front seat belts to be fitted to cars. The Australian state of Victoria mandated front and rear seat belt use from 1970.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Compulsory wearing&lt;br /&gt;Canada: 1976&lt;br /&gt;United Kingdom: 1983&lt;br /&gt;United States: 1984&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaccine_controversies"&gt;Vaccine controversies&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;A vaccine controversy is a dispute over the morality, ethics, effectiveness, or safety of vaccinations. Medical and scientific evidence surrounding vaccinations generally demonstrate that the benefits of preventing suffering and death from infectious diseases outweigh rare adverse effects of immunization. However, since vaccination began in the late 18th century, opponents have claimed that vaccines do not work, that they are or may be dangerous, that individuals should rely on personal hygiene instead, or that mandatory vaccinations violate individual rights or religious principles. These arguments have succeeded in reducing vaccination rates in certain communities, leading to increased outbreaks of preventable, and sometimes fatal, childhood illnesses.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Young_Earth_creationism"&gt;Young Earth creationism&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Young Earth creationism (YEC) is the religious belief that Heavens, Earth, and all life on Earth were created by direct acts of the Abrahamic God during a relatively short period, sometime between 5,700 and 10,000 years ago. Its primary adherents are Christians and Jews who believe that God created the Earth in six 24-hour days, taking what they regard to be a literal interpretation of the Genesis creation narrative as a basis for their beliefs.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Discover Magazine - July 31/2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://blogs.discovermagazine.com/badastronomy/2011/07/31/we-are-temporarily-vaccinated-against-jenny-mccarthy/"&gt;We are (temporarily) vaccinated against Jenny McCarthy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;A couple of years back, Oprah Winfrey offered notorious antivaxxer Jenny McCarthy her own show on Oprah’s health network. Needless to say, a lot of people were unhappy about this, including me. Ms. McCarthy’s ideas about health and medicine are not only demonstrably wrong, they are what I consider to be a public health threat. She actively promotes people not taking medicine known to work, and to try things we know don’t work.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2012-01-03&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/wqbelle" target="_blank"&gt;Follow me on Twitter &lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvjllt5gxI/AAAAAAAAAns/8GFdNjTyiKU/s1600/icon-Twitter.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/459873339663141424-3178743834080632103?l=wqebelle.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/feeds/3178743834080632103/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=459873339663141424&amp;postID=3178743834080632103&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/3178743834080632103'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/3178743834080632103'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2012/01/what-do-i-know.html' title='What the @#$%^* do I know?'/><author><name>William Quincy Belle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14337095766556949027</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7AgI-NaU0yc/Tmizm7ksylI/AAAAAAAABHI/kyOqXigj7hY/s220/Seattle.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-3XerjacQo_8/TwOFsofHbeI/AAAAAAAABVY/9SOPqjhIdmI/s72-c/WhatDoIKnow.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-459873339663141424.post-413347556949551889</id><published>2012-01-01T00:39:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-09T05:59:56.951-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><title type='text'>Sheila E.: The Glamorous Life</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object width="560" height="315"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/1Whgun28BYg?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/1Whgun28BYg?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="560" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She wears a long fur coat of mink&lt;br /&gt;Even in the summer time&lt;br /&gt;Everybody knows from the coy little wink&lt;br /&gt;The girl's got a lot on her mind&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She's got big thoughts, big dreams&lt;br /&gt;And a big brown Mercedes sedan&lt;br /&gt;What I think this girl&lt;br /&gt;She really wants&lt;br /&gt;Is to be in love with a man&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She wants to lead the Glamorous Life&lt;br /&gt;She don't need a man's touch&lt;br /&gt;She wants to lead the Glamorous Life&lt;br /&gt;Without love&lt;br /&gt;It ain't much&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She saw him standing in the section marked&lt;br /&gt;If you have to ask you can't afford it lingerie&lt;br /&gt;She threw him bread and said make me scream&lt;br /&gt;In the dark what could he say&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Boys with small talk and small minds&lt;br /&gt;Really don't impress me in bed&lt;br /&gt;She said, I need a man's man, baby&lt;br /&gt;Diamonds and furs&lt;br /&gt;Love would only conquer my head&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She wants to lead the Glamorous Life&lt;br /&gt;She don't need a man's touch&lt;br /&gt;She wants to lead the Glamorous Life&lt;br /&gt;Without love&lt;br /&gt;It ain't much&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They made haste in the brown sedan&lt;br /&gt;They drove to 55 Secret street&lt;br /&gt;They made love and by the seventh wave&lt;br /&gt;She knew she had a problem&lt;br /&gt;She thought real love is real scary&lt;br /&gt;Money only pays the rent&lt;br /&gt;Love is forever&lt;br /&gt;That's all your life&lt;br /&gt;Love is heaven sent&lt;br /&gt;It's glamorous&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She wants to lead the Glamorous Life&lt;br /&gt;She don't need a man's touch&lt;br /&gt;She wants to lead the Glamorous Life&lt;br /&gt;Without love&lt;br /&gt;It ain't much&lt;br /&gt;It ain't much&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She wants to lead the Glamorous Life&lt;br /&gt;She don't need a man's touch&lt;br /&gt;She wants to lead the Glamorous Life&lt;br /&gt;Without love&lt;br /&gt;It ain't much&lt;br /&gt;It ain't much&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lead the Glamorous Life&lt;br /&gt;She don't need a man's touch&lt;br /&gt;She wants to lead the Glamorous Life&lt;br /&gt;Without love&lt;br /&gt;It ain't much&lt;br /&gt;It ain't much&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-QGcbkfLM4-E/Tv9XdzGFPGI/AAAAAAAABVM/XLpq19TzfTY/s1600/SheilaE-TheGlamorousLife.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-QGcbkfLM4-E/Tv9XdzGFPGI/AAAAAAAABVM/XLpq19TzfTY/s1600/SheilaE-TheGlamorousLife.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by ThrowBackCentral on Jul 19, 2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Glamorous_Life"&gt;The Glamorous Life&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"The Glamorous Life" is a song written by Prince in 1984 and first recorded by singer/percussionist Sheila E. The dance song has lyrics which reflect a cynicism for the decadence and materialism of the song's protagonist, referred to in the third person, who "wants to lead a glamorous life", although she is aware that "without love, it ain't much".&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Glamorous_Life_%28album%29"&gt;The Glamorous Life&lt;/a&gt; (album)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Glamorous Life is the debut album from singer/drummer/percussionist Sheila E.. Written by Prince (and originally intended for Apollonia 6), the title track hit the U.S. Top Ten and her second single, "The Belle of St. Mark" charted in the U.S, UK, Irish, Dutch, and New Zealand Top 40.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sheila_E."&gt;Sheila E.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Sheila Escovedo (born December 12, 1957), known by her stage name Sheila E., is an American drummer and percussionist, perhaps best known for her work with Prince, George Duke and Ringo Starr.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The start of 2012: Let's lead the glamorous life!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2012-01-01&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/wqbelle" target="_blank"&gt;Follow me on Twitter &lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvjllt5gxI/AAAAAAAAAns/8GFdNjTyiKU/s1600/icon-Twitter.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/459873339663141424-413347556949551889?l=wqebelle.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/feeds/413347556949551889/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=459873339663141424&amp;postID=413347556949551889&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/413347556949551889'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/413347556949551889'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2012/01/sheila-e-glamorous-life.html' title='Sheila E.: The Glamorous Life'/><author><name>William Quincy Belle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14337095766556949027</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7AgI-NaU0yc/Tmizm7ksylI/AAAAAAAABHI/kyOqXigj7hY/s220/Seattle.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-QGcbkfLM4-E/Tv9XdzGFPGI/AAAAAAAABVM/XLpq19TzfTY/s72-c/SheilaE-TheGlamorousLife.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-459873339663141424.post-3744048148379203612</id><published>2011-12-31T07:10:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-01-09T05:59:47.272-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><title type='text'>Prince: 1999</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;iframe frameborder="0" width="480" height="389" src="http://www.dailymotion.com/embed/video/x6ncb9"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was dreamin' when I wrote this&lt;br /&gt;Forgive me if it goes astray&lt;br /&gt;But when I woke up this mornin'&lt;br /&gt;Could have sworn it was judgment day&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The sky was all purple&lt;br /&gt;There were people runnin' everywhere&lt;br /&gt;Tryin' to run from the destruction&lt;br /&gt;You know I didn't even care&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They say two thousand zero, zero, party over,&lt;br /&gt;Oops, out of time!&lt;br /&gt;So tonight I'm gonna party like it's 1999!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was dreamin' when I wrote this&lt;br /&gt;So sue me if I go too fast&lt;br /&gt;But life is just a party&lt;br /&gt;And parties weren't meant to last&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;War is all around us&lt;br /&gt;My mind says prepare to fight&lt;br /&gt;So if I gotta die&lt;br /&gt;I'm gonna listen to my body tonight&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They say two thousand zero, zero, party over,&lt;br /&gt;Oops, out of time!&lt;br /&gt;So tonight I'm gonna party like it's 1999!&lt;br /&gt;1999!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you didn't come to party&lt;br /&gt;Don't bother knockin' on my door&lt;br /&gt;I got a lion in my pocket&lt;br /&gt;And baby, he's ready to roar&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yeah, everybody's got a bomb&lt;br /&gt;We could all die any day&lt;br /&gt;But before I'll let that happen&lt;br /&gt;I'll dance my life away&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They say two thousand zero, zero, party over,&lt;br /&gt;Oops, out of time!&lt;br /&gt;(We're runnin' outta time)&lt;br /&gt;So tonight we're gonna party like it's 1999!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Say, say,&lt;br /&gt;Two thousand zero, zero, party over,&lt;br /&gt;Oops, out of time!&lt;br /&gt;So tonight we're gonna party like it's 1999!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Alright, it's 1999!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You say it, 1999!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1999!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1999! Don't stop, don't stop, say it 1 more time!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1999!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-iCoxR79u_y8/Tv8jjMo2IMI/AAAAAAAABVA/xnyx49fMcmQ/s1600/Prince-1999.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-iCoxR79u_y8/Tv8jjMo2IMI/AAAAAAAABVA/xnyx49fMcmQ/s1600/Prince-1999.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by vidiyeo on Jun 3, 2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1999_%28song%29"&gt;1999&lt;/a&gt; (song)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"1999" is a song by Prince, the title track from his 1982 album of the same name. The song is one of Prince's best-known, and a defining moment in his rise to superstar status.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Prince created "1999" around the central riff of the 1966 song, "Monday, Monday" by The Mamas &amp;amp; the Papas. Prince, writing under the pseudonym "Christopher", reused the verse melody in the song "Manic Monday", recorded by The Bangles.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1999_%28album%29"&gt;1999&lt;/a&gt; (album)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;1999 is the fifth studio album by Prince, released on October 27, 1982. It was his first top ten album on the Billboard 200 chart in the United States (peaking at number 9) and became the fifth best-selling album of 1983. 1999 was Prince's breakthrough album, but his next album Purple Rain would become his most successful. The title track was a protest against nuclear proliferation and became his first top ten hit in countries outside the U.S.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prince_%28musician%29"&gt;Prince&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Prince Rogers Nelson (born June 7, 1958), often known simply as Prince, is an American singer, songwriter, musician, and actor. Prince has produced ten platinum albums and thirty Top 40 singles during his career. Prince founded his own recording studio and label; writing, self-producing and playing most, or all, of the instruments on his recordings. In addition, Prince has been a "talent promoter" for the careers of Sheila E., Carmen Electra, The Time and Vanity 6, and his songs have been recorded by these artists and others (including Chaka Khan, The Bangles, Sinéad O'Connor, and even Kim Basinger).&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Happy New Year 2012, everybody. Let's go crazy!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2011-12-31&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/wqbelle" target="_blank"&gt;Follow me on Twitter &lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvjllt5gxI/AAAAAAAAAns/8GFdNjTyiKU/s1600/icon-Twitter.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/459873339663141424-3744048148379203612?l=wqebelle.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/feeds/3744048148379203612/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=459873339663141424&amp;postID=3744048148379203612&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/3744048148379203612'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/3744048148379203612'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/prince-1999.html' title='Prince: 1999'/><author><name>William Quincy Belle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14337095766556949027</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7AgI-NaU0yc/Tmizm7ksylI/AAAAAAAABHI/kyOqXigj7hY/s220/Seattle.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-iCoxR79u_y8/Tv8jjMo2IMI/AAAAAAAABVA/xnyx49fMcmQ/s72-c/Prince-1999.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-459873339663141424.post-1377266771545990617</id><published>2011-12-26T10:11:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-26T10:14:00.300-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movie review'/><title type='text'>Movie Review: Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-lTt58n1a920/Tvi2HOZybdI/AAAAAAAABU0/6Px5QXkBZpk/s1600/TinkerTailorSoldierSpy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-lTt58n1a920/Tvi2HOZybdI/AAAAAAAABU0/6Px5QXkBZpk/s1600/TinkerTailorSoldierSpy.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;If somebody says "spy movie" the first thing which comes to mind is James Bond. Yep, car chases, million dollar gambling in Monte Carlo and gadgets that do all sorts of nifty things. But did the movie producers of the Bond films or even Ian Fleming for that matter actually capture the real world of all those anonymous people who live in the shadows? This movie is based on the 1974 book by the same name written by John le Carré and represents the antithesis of everything we the viewing public have come to expect from the cinematic hyperbole of James Bond or as of late, Mission Impossible. Like anything connected to the government, the film portrays the protagonist as a dutiful employee who is awash in fatigue, boredom and probably his own fair share of cynicism over the state of affairs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This movie is the thinking man's spy film. Someone accustomed to the nonstop thrill ride of an action film will find this film slow, plodding and downright boring. However it is in that very slowness we watch a gem of a mystery unfold as the central character methodically deduces who in the British Secret Service is actually a mole, a double agent working for the Russians. Remember that the year is 1973 well before our modern era of computers, cell phones and PDAs and it is hard to believe that anyone could conduct any business or even live their life without the electronic devices we all now take for granted. Talk about primitive!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;John le Carré wrote with a realistic approach to his stories. After all, he spent the 50s and 60s working for the British intelligence services MI5 and MI6. His first big novel, &lt;i&gt;The Spy Who Came In From The Cold&lt;/i&gt; became an international best-seller when it was published in 1963 and led to the 1965 film starring Richard Burton. It was here that the author set out a writing style which was anything but flash and glamour. While Ian Fleming, for instance, clearly set up the fight between good and evil, both good and evil being well defined, le Carré described the complexity of the moral dilemma between the West and East. The democratic West was not necessarily the good guys dressed in white and the communist East was not necessarily the bad guys dressed in black. There were many shades of gray in the mix and like today's on-going debates about the effectiveness and moral questions of water-boarding or the perpetual lock-up at Guantanamo Bay without trial, le Carré is sometimes asking if we are still good if we in turn follow the aphorism "fight fire with fire" and end up being just as evil as our enemies.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gary Oldman puts in a wonderful performance as George Smiley, brought out of retirement to find out whom amongst the higher-ups at the Circus (British Intelligence) is a long-term mole. The story moves between the current investigation and the past when Smiley was still working for Control, the previous head, played by John Hurt. Oldman and Hurt personify the old, wizen men who have been through it all and seen it all; they were actually there for Genesis chapter 1, verse 1. Unlike our more spectacular detectives (&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/movie-review-sherlock-holmes-game-of.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Sherlock Holmes: A Game of Shadows&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt; comes to mind), this story imparts the sleuthing aspect of uncovering the mole and sleuthing&amp;nbsp; involves the dull plodding through a ton and a half of documentation trying to piece together the puzzle of how the Russians could have set up a mole so high up in the organisation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are several sorrowful side stories which flit by but make you wonder what they may entail. Smiley has an estranged relationship with his wife. She has had an affair and it turns out the affair was with a work colleague of Smiley's. Smiley tells Peter Guillam, an intelligence officer aiding Smiley in the investigation, to clean up his affairs as they are all going to be scrutinized for their work in trying to uncover the mole. In a short scene, Peter at his flat tells another man he must leave. Little is said; little is shown but it's 1973 and Peter is a homosexual. It is a truly sad moment as the camera shows the other man dropping his keys on the table as a few tears stream down the Peter's cheek.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object height="315" width="560"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/Aco15ScXCwA?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;  &lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;  &lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;  &lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/Aco15ScXCwA?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="560" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Final Word&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Quite simply, I enjoyed the movie. Although to any potential viewer, I would add the caveat that this spy film is anything but the eye-candy you would normally associate with the genre. A number of action films rack up a body count that extends well past your fingers and toes and you would do well to arm yourself with a clicker-counter. Does anybody realise that a mystery by Agatha Christie usually has only one murder per story?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The film is a beautiful period piece and does a wonderful job of capturing the era. It also captures the realism of life and the dullness of a government job. This all provides an excellent backdrop for the out of the ordinary solving of a mystery. While many may find the action as exciting as watching paint dry, I found it all to be absolutely mesmerising. The subtlety of the acting was riveting. I must however add a caveat to the story. It is complex and as such, it is difficult to follow. It has been years since I read the book but I have come to recognise that a film adaptation, any film adaptation suffers from the constraints of its medium. A novel, the written word, has a great deal of freedom in presenting ideas and developing a story; this may entail descriptive passages or the thoughts of the various players. Unfortunately, a film must make trade-offs and sacrifices especially in accounting for running time which sometimes means that what's good in the book may end up on the cutting room floor. I remember finding the book The Da Vinci Code to be fabulous but the movie to be only so-so.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nevertheless, this film does manage to stand on its own. Clocking in at 85% on Rotten Tomatoes, the film has garnered a lot of praise from the critics which to me is always a sure sign the film is good and worth seeing. Nevertheless, I remind you that this is anything but a James Bond spy flick. This is dark and brooding, very much a reflection of reality with its jadedness about everyday life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rotton Tomatoes: &lt;a href="http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/tinker_tailor_soldier_spy/" target="_blank"&gt;Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy&lt;/a&gt; (2011): 85%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy is a dense puzzle of anxiety, paranoia, and espionage that director Tomas Alfredson pieces together with utmost skill.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tinker_Tailor_Soldier_Spy_%28film%29" target="_blank"&gt;Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy&lt;/a&gt; (film)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy is a 2011 British espionage film directed by Tomas Alfredson, from a screenplay written by Bridget O'Connor and Peter Straughan based on the 1974 novel Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy by John le Carré. The film stars Gary Oldman as George Smiley, and co-stars Colin Firth, Tom Hardy, John Hurt, Toby Jones, Mark Strong, Benedict Cumberbatch and Ciarán Hinds. Set in London in the early 1970s, the story follows the hunt for a Soviet double agent at the top of the British secret service.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tinker,_Tailor,_Soldier,_Spy" target="_blank"&gt;Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy&lt;/a&gt; (book)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy is a 1974 British spy novel by John le Carré, featuring George Smiley. Smiley is a middle-aged, taciturn, perspicacious intelligence expert in forced retirement. He is recalled to hunt down a Soviet mole in the "Circus", the highest echelon of the Secret Intelligence Service. In keeping with le Carré's work, the narrative begins in medias res with the repatriation of a captured British spy. The background is supplied during the book through a series of flashbacks.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tinker,_Tailor,_Soldier,_Spy#Adaptations" target="_blank"&gt;Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy: Adaptations&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Television&lt;br /&gt;In 1979, Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy was adapted to television as a seven-part series for the BBC, featuring Alec Guinness as George Smiley, of the SIS; the initial broadcast coincided with the British Government announcing that Anthony Blunt, the Keeper of the Queen's Pictures, was one of the Cambridge Five traitors. In the United States, the Public Broadcasting Service (PBS) broadcast it as part of its "Great Performances" series, introduced by the Canadian journalist Robert MacNeil, who explained the workings of SIS. &lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_le_Carr%C3%A9" target="_blank"&gt;John le Carré&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;David John Moore Cornwell (born 19 October 1931), who writes under the name John le Carré, is a British author of espionage novels. During the 1950s and the 1960s, Cornwell worked for the British intelligence services MI5 and MI6, and began writing novels under the pseudonym "John le Carré". His third novel The Spy Who Came in from the Cold (1963) became an international best-seller and remains one of his best known works. Following the novel's success, he left MI6 to become a full-time author.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_le_Carr%C3%A9#Writing_style%29" target="_blank"&gt;John le Carré: Writing style&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The spy novel œuvre of John le Carré stands in contrast to the physical action and moral certainty of the James Bond thriller established by Ian Fleming in the mid nineteen-fifties; the le Carré Cold War features unheroic political functionaries aware of the moral ambiguity of their work, and engaged in psychological more than physical drama. They experience little of the violence typically encountered in action thrillers, and have very little recourse to gadgets. Much of the conflict they are involved in is internal, rather than external and visible.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Unlike the moral certainty of Fleming's British Secret Service adventures, le Carré's Circus spy stories are morally complex, and inform the reader of the fallibility of Western democracy and of the secret services protecting it, often implying the possibility of East-West moral equivalence.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;official movie web site: &lt;a href="http://www.tinker-tailor-soldier-spy.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You have to enter a code to get into the web site. Get it? It's a "spy" movie. The code is 160911 but don't worry. If you leave the field blank and click on the Enter button a couple of times, it will be filled in for you. In case you don't get the significance, the movie came out in the U.K. on 16-09-11.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tinker,_Tailor" target="_blank"&gt;Tinker, Tailor&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Tinker Tailor" is a counting game, nursery rhyme and fortune telling song traditionally played in England, that can be used to count cherry stones, buttons, daisy petals and other items. ... 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text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-2pRN_7mUpNU/TuzmPbbKVzI/AAAAAAAABUA/3ucnVTYuO9Q/s1600/TheFixx-OneThingLeadsToAnother.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-2pRN_7mUpNU/TuzmPbbKVzI/AAAAAAAABUA/3ucnVTYuO9Q/s1600/TheFixx-OneThingLeadsToAnother.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by TheFixxVEVO on Oct 5, 2009&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/One_Thing_Leads_to_Another"&gt;One Thing Leads to Another&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"One Thing Leads to Another" is a song by new wave rock group The Fixx, from their album Reach the Beach. "One Thing Leads to Another" is the group's best known song, and their most successful single, peaking at No. 4 on the US Billboard Hot 100 chart in November 1983 and peaking at No. 2 on the US Mainstream Rock Tracks chart.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"One Thing Leads to Another" appears in an episode of the TV series Knight Rider, and the episode "Nobody Does It Better" features a FIXX poster framed in the background of an office.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"One Thing Leads to Another" appears in the popular videogame Grand Theft Auto: Vice City, playing on Pop radio station Flash FM.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"One Thing Leads to Another" was featured in an advertisement for the television show Lie to Me.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"One Thing Leads to Another" appears in the horror film The House of the Devil.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reach_the_Beach"&gt;Reach the Beach&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Reach the Beach is the second studio album by British new wave band The Fixx, released in 1983. The album reached number eight on the American albums chart, their highest to date there. It also contains their most well known and highest charting single, "One Thing Leads to Another", which reached number four on the Billboard Hot 100.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Fixx"&gt;The Fixx&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Fixx is an English rock band formed in London in 1979.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;official web site: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.thefixx.com/"&gt;The Fixx&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2011-12-24&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/wqbelle" target="_blank"&gt;Follow me on Twitter &lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvjllt5gxI/AAAAAAAAAns/8GFdNjTyiKU/s1600/icon-Twitter.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/459873339663141424-4871184759001559859?l=wqebelle.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/feeds/4871184759001559859/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=459873339663141424&amp;postID=4871184759001559859&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/4871184759001559859'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/4871184759001559859'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/fixx-one-thing-leads-to-another.html' title='The Fixx: One Thing Leads to Another'/><author><name>William Quincy Belle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14337095766556949027</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7AgI-NaU0yc/Tmizm7ksylI/AAAAAAAABHI/kyOqXigj7hY/s220/Seattle.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-2pRN_7mUpNU/TuzmPbbKVzI/AAAAAAAABUA/3ucnVTYuO9Q/s72-c/TheFixx-OneThingLeadsToAnother.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-459873339663141424.post-3215518638932633225</id><published>2011-12-23T09:37:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-23T11:13:31.438-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='My Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><title type='text'>Suite Bergamasque, Focal Dystonia and Jack Daniels</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-0zWie14_rw0/TvS6KcFlQ9I/AAAAAAAABUo/EUtO7v1Wmi4/s1600/SuiteBergamasque-Prelude-SheetMusic.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-0zWie14_rw0/TvS6KcFlQ9I/AAAAAAAABUo/EUtO7v1Wmi4/s1600/SuiteBergamasque-Prelude-SheetMusic.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Claude Debussy (1862-1918) is a name that probably evokes for the majority of people the piece of music called Clair de lune, originally written for solo piano then orchestrated by others. What piano student at one time or another has not tried their hand at the filigree passages of this quintessential example of impressionism? It is amusing to think of the delicacy of touch necessary to give justice to the gossamer arpeggios of this dreamy wash of audio colour by those who may have been better suited to "pounding out" the less dainty syncopation of ragtime as heard in Scott Joplin's The Entertainer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However the uninitiated listener is more than likely unaware that Clair de lune is merely one of four piano pieces which make up what is known as Suite Bergamasque. These other three undiscovered gems further demonstrate Debussy as a composer of major repute in the impressionist movement. This is the type of music best suited to a Sunday afternoon of quiet reflection, possibly curled up on the sofa with a good book. Whatever the setting, this is the type of music that you don't necessarily listen to, it is music you feel. It is music you let sweep over you as an aural massage. You let it transport you to a realm of peaceful meditation. ... Wow, am I waxing poetic or what?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Debussy: Suite Bergamasque - 1.Prélude&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object height="315" width="420"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/u2picp1J-dA?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/u2picp1J-dA?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="420" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Debussy: Suite Bergamasque - 2. Menuet&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object height="315" width="420"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/hxev38o1iAo?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/hxev38o1iAo?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="420" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Debussy: Suite Bergamasque - 3. Clair de lune&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object height="315" width="420"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/TJCLiam3Am4?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/TJCLiam3Am4?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="420" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Debussy: Suite Bergamasque - 4. Passepied&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object height="315" width="420"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/zjtY8QEIkLQ?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/zjtY8QEIkLQ?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="420" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;My Personal Story&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away (You know it's going to be good if I start by quoting Star wars), I had the fanciful idea of studying music. Okay, doesn't everybody go through a phase when they want to be some artistic type before settling down with the usual: some sort of education, a job, and possibly that white picket fence in suburbia?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At one point during my short-lived career as a musician, I had the privilege of playing the Suite Bergamasque. Yes, I played Clair de lune as part of my studies but I heard the suite and loved it so much, I decided to learn all four pieces.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Focal Dystonia&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I spent my teens playing in various rock bands. Nothing significant but I did play at my own high schools a couple of times. However when I heard the group Emerson, Lake and Palmer, I was completely blown away and decided to change my instrument from bass guitar to keyboards. Wow, did I go nuts and get passionately involved in music as a serious endeavor. It became not a career, not an interest, but a passion and I mean passion to the nth degree. (See my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/passion-can-you-live-without-it.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Passion: Can you live without it?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, I did not have the talent necessary to make a serious go at it and at some point came to realization that I would have to trade in my passion for something a little more practical to earn a living. The key part of my decision was developing focal dystonia in my left hand. Focal what? The term refers to a neurological condition where the person loses control of their fingers. It is the oddest of experiences. Whether you play the piano or the guitar or the violin, you arrive at a point (the condition seems progressive) where you think of moving your fingers but the results are that all of your fingers bunch up. From my reading, scientists have done scans of the brain and pinpointed which areas of the brain "fire" when we move our fingers. With focal dystonia, the areas of the brain for all fingers light up at the same time so it's as if the person is saying "move my index finger" but the brain then sends the signal to all five fingers at once. From my experience, there doesn't seem to be anything physically wrong with the fingers or with the hand itself, the problem resides completely in the brain. (See my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/focal-dystonia-focal-what.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Focal Dystonia: focal what?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I gave up playing the piano in 1978. During the past thirty plus years, the condition in my left hand has gotten progressively worse. I used to be able to type with all ten fingers, an important skill to have in the world of computers, however today I can only use my index finger and my thumb in my left hand having pretty much lost all control of the rest of my fingers. If I move slowly, I can wiggle my fingers but if I speed up, my entire hand tenses up and sometimes it tenses up so badly it hurts. If you watch me type, I use all five fingers with the right hand and two, possibly three fingers on my left hand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Keith_Emerson"&gt;Keith Emerson&lt;/a&gt;, the keyboardist with the group &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emerson,_Lake_%26_Palmer"&gt;ELP&lt;/a&gt; was diagnosed with the problem several years ago and I have seen video clips of him playing and it is obvious he is fighting the condition. Classical guitarist &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liona_Boyd"&gt;Liona Boyd&lt;/a&gt; has given up her career. The Wikipedia article on &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Focal_dystonia"&gt;Focal Dystonia&lt;/a&gt; lists numerous people in various areas of music including classical, rock and folk affected by this bizarre condition. That same article points out that this condition most typically affects those who rely on fine motor skills—musicians, writers, surgeons, etc. It is generally "task specific," meaning that it is only problematic during certain activities.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Final Word&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't cry for me, Argentina. After all this time, music is long gone and I have moved on to other things in life. At the time, though, I didn't take this forced change of career too well and probably remained pretty much drunk for the next ten years. But even that period of my life is long gone as I have now been sober for coming up to 24 years. (See my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/alcoholism-ill-drink-to-that.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Alcoholism: I'll Drink To That!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Life is funny and all of us have our own story. After I quit music, I decided to undergo some professional career testing to get an idea of what else in life may have been suitable to me. I remember taking this oddball test (I think it was based on the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory) which asked a series of strange multiple choice questions. What would you rather do: eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich or climb Mount Everest? What the heck? The results of all this gave me a report on various activities I would be interested in. Number one on the list? Music. Ah, the cruel irony of it all. Ha!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I cried because I had no shoes then I met a man who had no feet. Life is good. Well, life can be good if we somehow get a hold of ourselves and make it good. As I've said elsewhere many a time, the sun is going to come up in the morning whether I like it or not. Yes, I may curse the dawn but the sooner I accept that I can't do anything about the sun coming up, the sooner I can move on to things I can do something about. (You can recite the Serenity Prayer here.) Is the glass half full or is the glass half empty? It's all very Zen-like. Of course some smartass just had to stir things up by telling me that the problem is not that the glass is half full or half empty; the problem is that the glass is twice as big as it should be. It's at this point I roll my eyes, shake my head and say, "Oh brother!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;YouTube videos uploaded by DesAbends on May 2, 2009&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suite_bergamasque"&gt;Suite Bergamasque&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Suite Bergamasque is one of the most famous piano suites by Claude Debussy. Debussy commenced the suite in 1890 at age 28, but he did not finish or publish it until 1905.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;IMSLP: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://imslp.info/files/imglnks/usimg/d/d5/IMSLP83536-SIBLEY1802.12331.d9f9-39087013813482piano.pdf"&gt;The complete sheet music&lt;/a&gt; (PDF)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Claude_Debussy"&gt;Claude Debussy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Claude-Achille Debussy (22 August 1862 – 25 March 1918) was a French composer. Along with Maurice Ravel, he was one of the most prominent figures working within the field of impressionist music, though he himself intensely disliked the term when applied to his compositions. Debussy is among the most important of all French composers, and a central figure in European music of the turn of the 20th century. He was made Chevalier of the Legion of Honour in 1903.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;His music is noted for its sensory component and for not often forming around one key or pitch. Often Debussy's work reflected the activities or turbulence in his own life. His music virtually defines the transition from late-Romantic music to 20th century modernist music. In French literary circles, the style of this period was known as symbolism, a movement that directly inspired Debussy both as a composer and as an active cultural participant.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impressionist_music"&gt;Impressionist music&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Impressionism in music was a tendency in European classical music, mainly in France, which appeared in the late nineteenth century and continued into the middle of the twentieth century. Similarly to its precursor in the visual arts, musical impressionism focuses on a suggestion and an atmosphere rather than on a strong emotion or the depiction of a story as in program music. Musical impressionism occurred as a reaction to the excesses of the Romantic era. While this era was characterized by a dramatic use of the major and minor scale systems, impressionist music was tending to make more use of dissonance. Rather uncommon scales such as whole tone scale are also typical for this movement. Romantic composers were using long forms of music, e.g. symphony and concerto, while impressionist composers were favoring short forms such as nocturne, arabesque and prelude.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Star_Wars_opening_crawl"&gt;Star Wars opening crawl&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Each film in the Star Wars series opens with a crawl (also known as a roll-up) of text which provides an explanation of the backstory and context of the film. The crawl has become associated with the films and has frequently been parodied.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Focal_dystonia"&gt;Focal dystonia&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Focal dystonia is a neurological condition that affects a muscle or group of muscles in a part of the body and causes an involuntary muscular contraction or twisting. For example, in focal hand dystonia, the fingers either curl into the palm or extend outward without control.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Minnesota_Multiphasic_Personality_Inventory"&gt;Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory (MMPI) is one of the most frequently used personality tests in mental health. The test is used by trained professionals to assist in identifying personality structure and psychopathology.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/passion-can-you-live-without-it.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Passion: Can you live without it?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Then again do you want to live without it? - I have been blessed a few times in my life to have experienced true passion. However I am certain you may think I'm talking about something romantic but what I am actually talking about is passion for what you do. To live passionately, to work passionately; this is about the passion you have or should have about your personal goals in life, about your life itself.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/alcoholism-ill-drink-to-that.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Alcoholism: I'll drink to that!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;On February 8, 2011, I will mark 23 years of sobriety. Yes, I am an alcoholic. Certainly the word must evoke all sorts of images from the drunken lout at the office Christmas party to the lost soul out on the street sleeping on a grate to keep warm during the winter. Reflecting on my own acquaintance with various parts of the spectrum of extremist behaviour, I can say, "Been there, done that" and I can add that I have a great deal of both compassion and respect for those who fight the good fight.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/focal-dystonia-focal-what.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Focal Dystonia: focal what?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;This scientific term which I admit is a bit of a mouthful, refers to a phenomenon where one loses control of the individual fingers. From what I've read, this condition seems to strike for the most part musicians who may be more susceptible than others to repetitive stress syndrome. 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I did not see the 2009 Swedish film. I am coming to the table with an uncluttered mind. Okay, some may argue I'm coming to the table with an empty head, but that's another story.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From the opening credits with their pounding rendition of the Led Zeppelin's 1970 rock classic Immigrant Song and the black images of oil pouring over human figures, we have a dark, brooding, complex story that reels you into its mysterious web of intrigue with a cast of characters that can only be described as unique, sometimes far fetched but oh so fascinating. The girl, yes that girl with the tattoo is so broken from a life so unbelievably horrible, it is hard to believe she will ever find her way out into the sunlight. Nevertheless, the gods decided somewhere along the way to make up for their oversight by blessing her with near genius mental abilities from a photographic memory to superior computer hacking skills. It is that contrast which fascinates us throughout the story: the dark depravity of our humanity with the light of our genius to rise above the mundane.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It will not be much of a spoiler alert considering the book, the previous film and the trailers to briefly describe this murder mystery. Mikael Blomkvist (Daniel Craig) is a journalist in trouble over a libel case due to a tell-all magazine article about a powerful but corrupt businessman, Hans-Erik Wennerstrom. Out of the blue, Henrik Vanger (Christopher Plummer), another powerful businessman, hires Blomkvist under the guise of writing his memoirs to investigate the forty year old murder of his niece, Harriet Vanger and in payment, he will give Blomkvist the proof he needs to fight the libel case and bring down Wennerstrom. From there, Blomkvist moves onto the Vanger family estate and begins an investigation into the convoluted history of the family discovering some startling secrets that date back decades to World War II.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Christopher Plummer is just delightful as the impish old patriarch of the Vanger family. I can't think of anyone with both the gravitas and the tongue-in-cheek twinkle in his eye for such a role. At the age of 82 (born Dec 13/1929), Mr. Plummer is still a force to be reckoned with.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Daniel Craig doesn't have to worry about type casting. I didn't think of him once as being James Bond. His unshaven face captured the investigating journalist financially broken by the libel case and he was did an excellent job of imparting the detective who ends up in over his head.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But the central figure, the maker of the entire film, is Lisbeth Salander as played by Rooney Mara. The character is quite extraordinary to start with when you consider the list of things this young woman has had to endure in her lifetime. The actress Rooney Mara has given an unbelievable performance by capturing the caged animal demeanour of Lisbeth. Many times Lisbeth can't look people in the eye. She has been beaten by people, rejected by society, and in general ignored having been made a ward of the state. The symbolism of this last ignominy is that no one, literally no one wants her and it is finally the state that has to take care of her.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lisbeth's blessing or curse is that she is really smart, the tattooed pierced social misfit as an idiot savant in a world of supposedly normal people. I say supposedly normal as this film ended up with an R rating for both its sexual and violent themes. Life does have its bad people however there are varying degrees of badness and sometimes that badness crosses the line into depravity. This film shows some people who can only be qualified as evil, not bad, but truly evil. These are the type of people that when you see their crime, your first reaction isn't to phone the police but to get out a gun and shoot them yourself. Wow. There are certainly various shades of gray when we try to describe what is normal in society and here I use air quotes for the word normal but this film shows some bad which is beyond dark to absolutely black.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;American Remake of Swedish Film&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hollywood has a reputation of pilfering foreign films to repackage them for a global audience. Is this necessary? The real question may be an unkind one. Sweden has a population of just under ten million people. The original 2009 film was made in Swedish. Yes, foreign films do make the rounds with either subtitles or dubbed versions but somehow an English version of just about anything automatically seems to mean a larger audience. Okay, this is just me talking and an expert who has studied the idea may prove otherwise but if I look at other forms of entertainment, why, for instance, did the Swedish musical group ABBA choose to record in English as opposed to their native language? Would anybody guess for a wider audience?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have not seen the original Swedish film The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo but have read repeatedly that it is terrific. This film was made for $13 million and has apparently earned over a hundred million dollars at the worldwide box office. That is a very, very impressive return on one's investment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Will this Hollywood remake eclipse the success of that film? Its budget clocked in at $100 million so it's got quite a way to go to even turn a profit, never mind equalling the original's return on investment. Nevertheless, this remake has two things going for it. First of all, the remake is good but secondly, the remake is in English. It is an interesting question to ask as to why the Swedish makers did not choose from the outset to do their film in English. Okay, that may seem sacrilege to the Swedish language and culture but when it comes to making a profit, pride is not an asset. Let's see how things unfold over the coming weeks and months.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Official Trailer&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object height="315" width="560"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/UgeRXqMu3zc?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/UgeRXqMu3zc?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="560" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Teaser Trailer (Immigrant Song)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object height="315" width="560"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/nYyKUM1NQ8c?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/nYyKUM1NQ8c?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="560" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Final Word&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm curious. I go to an early show and of course, the theatre was far from full. I noticed that people would come to a completely empty row and sit at the end. Why not move into the middle? Heck, I'll step over a dozen people to get a center seat but it would seem that not everyone values such a position in front of the screen. Odd. Okay, odd to me but maybe not to you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I greatly enjoyed the film with its mystery, its suspense and of course, its characters. The girl, the main character, is riveting and the relationships she has with the various so-called normal people in the film are quite fascinating. I highly recommend this film; it is excellent. In fact, I am now curious to see the original Swedish film and maybe I might even get around to reading the books. Good stuff.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rotten Tomatoes: &lt;a href="http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/the_girl_with_the_dragon_tattoo/" target="_blank"&gt;The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo&lt;/a&gt;: 85%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Brutal yet captivating, The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo is the result of David Fincher working at his lurid best with total role commitment from star Rooney Mara.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Girl_with_the_Dragon_Tattoo_%282011_film%29" target="_blank"&gt;The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo&lt;/a&gt; (2011 film)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo is a 2011 English-language drama/thriller film and the second film to be adapted from the Swedish novel by Stieg Larsson. The first was The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo (original title of both novel and film in Swedish: Män som hatar kvinnor – literally – Men who hate women) – released in 2009. Both novel and film titles were translated for the English-speaking market as The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;official web site: &lt;a href="http://www.dragontattoo.com/" target="_blank"&gt;The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rotten Tomatoes: &lt;a href="http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/the_girl_with_the_dragon_tattoo_2009/" target="_blank"&gt;The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo&lt;/a&gt; (2009): 86%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Its graphic violence and sprawling length will prove too much for some viewers to take, but Noomi Rapace's gripping performance makes The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo an unforgettable viewing experience.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Girl_with_the_Dragon_Tattoo_%282009_film%29" target="_blank"&gt;The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo&lt;/a&gt; (2009 film)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo (Swedish: Män som hatar kvinnor, literally Men Who Hate Women) is a 2009 Swedish film adaptation of the novel of the same name by Swedish author/journalist Stieg Larsson. It is the first book in the trilogy known as the "Millennium series", published in Sweden in 2005. The director is Niels Arden Oplev. By August 2009, it had been sold to 25 countries outside Scandinavia, most of them planning a release in 2010, and had been seen by more than 6 million people in the countries where it was already released.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;official web site: &lt;a href="http://www.dragontattoofilm.com/" target="_blank"&gt;The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/girl-with-dragon-tattoo-immigrant-song.html%22%22"&gt;The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo: Immigrant Song&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;video, lyrics, background information and a link to the original Led Zeppelin version.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2011-12-22&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/wqbelle" target="_blank"&gt;Follow me on Twitter &lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvjllt5gxI/AAAAAAAAAns/8GFdNjTyiKU/s1600/icon-Twitter.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/459873339663141424-4476474912167552447?l=wqebelle.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/feeds/4476474912167552447/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=459873339663141424&amp;postID=4476474912167552447&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/4476474912167552447'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/4476474912167552447'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/movie-review-girl-with-dragon-tattoo.html' title='Movie Review: The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo'/><author><name>William Quincy Belle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14337095766556949027</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7AgI-NaU0yc/Tmizm7ksylI/AAAAAAAABHI/kyOqXigj7hY/s220/Seattle.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_HQrtEcIATI/TvOIbjdL38I/AAAAAAAABUc/jaO9zkNp_ew/s72-c/TheGirlWithTheDragonTattoo.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-459873339663141424.post-5774184485954019919</id><published>2011-12-21T05:36:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T05:36:39.566-08:00</updated><title type='text'>My "Dream" Cherry Cheesecake</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TPWJihWK5XI/AAAAAAAAAos/Fvh75iw7blo/s1600/CherryChessecake.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TPWJihWK5XI/AAAAAAAAAos/Fvh75iw7blo/s1600/CherryChessecake.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;When I grew up, Mom made this from time to time as a family treat. Considering my childhood dates back to the 50's, it would seem this recipe has been floating around for years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;During my travels, I have eaten a lot of different cheesecakes but this recipe is unique in how it is so different from traditional cheesecake. Oddly enough, I had eaten Mom's recipe exclusively as a kid so in my teens when somebody finally served me a regular cheesecake, I first said, "What the heck is this?" I thought all cheesecake was like Mom's!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To this day, I must admit that whenever I bite into a cheesecake, in the back of my mind is the memory of what Mom made so my taste buds express a little disappointment. I have to mentally prepare my sense of taste for accommodating the flavour of the traditional cheesecake. Ha!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, to the diehard purists, this is not a traditional cheesecake. In fact, somebody may argue that the only thing cheesy about this is how this recipe is very much a poor man's... or poor woman's cheesecake. Nevertheless, it's easy; it's fast and judging by the reactions from people, it's good. There is no cooking so this one can even be left to the last minute.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Ingredients&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;1 ½ cups of graham cracker crumbs&lt;br /&gt;Or 2 cups if you like a thicker crust.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;1/3 cup of margarine&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;2 envelopes of Dream Whip&lt;br /&gt;Yes, the "dream" in my "dream" cherry cheesecake turns out to be Dream Whip. Ha!&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;1 cup of milk; ½ cup for each envelope&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;one 8 oz. package of cream cheese&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;1 can of cherry pie filling&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Puttin' it all together&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For the base, mix the graham cracker crumbs and the margarine together. The original recipe from Mom added brown sugar to the mix but personally, I found things to be sweet enough so I always leave this out. Spread out the mixture into a rectangular pie dish making sure it is evenly tamped down. You want the mixture just on the bottom of the dish, not on the sides.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You want the crust to be somewhat hard; after all, you are going to cut this and want to be able to serve it with a cake knife. If you are doing this at the very last second, you can stick the entire dish in the freezer for 10 minutes in an effort to solidify the mixture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mix up the 2 envelopes of Dream Whip according to the instructions; this entails one cup of milk; that is ½ cup of milk per envelope. You'll need a mixing bowl and a beater but if you have an electric beater, so much the better. A half teaspoon of vanilla for each envelope is mentioned but I always leave this out. Okay, I'm a lazy cook but I can say that nobody has complained!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the way, the original recipe included icing sugar. Believe me, you don't need it. This thing is already sweet enough to throw your recommended daily intake of sugar off for a week.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once you have the Dream Whip whipped up which means it is now thick, you want to blend in the cream cheese. If you're doing this with a hand beater, you're going to want to do this a piece at a time until you've put in the entire package. If you have an electric beater, heck, throw in the whole package at once! Let's let the machine do all the work!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Spread your Dream Whip mixture evenly over the crust.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, the original recipe talks about refrigerating this to help it solidify. If you've got the time, go for it. But if this is a last minute panic, you can once again make use of the freezer. If you are really, really pressed, go on to the next step.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Spread the can of cherry pie filling over the Dream Whip mixture. If you're doing this in one go, be careful. The Dream Whip will not have the hardest of consistencies so you want to make sure that in spreading out the cherry mixture you do not end up inadvertently blending the two mixtures. With the Dream Whip soft, there is a tendency of having the cherry filling mix with the Dream Whip instead of spreading out over top of it. This is supposed to be three layers: crust, whipped middle and cherries. Try to keep it that way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;True Story: The crust&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Years ago I whipped this dessert together for the family when we had some guests. I did include the brown sugar and I think in "winging it", I inadvertently used too much brown sugar and butter. When I got around to serving it, I literally could not cut the graham cracker crust. I ended up having to get a butcher's knife and had to saw my way through the crust in order to serve up the pieces. I think it was even dangerous to bite down on the crust; you had to suck it for a bit before chewing it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was slightly embarrassed in front of our guests but everybody in the family found this quite funny especially since I am well known for not being much of a cook. Afterwards, we were laughing about my blunder but the kids claimed it was the best crust ever! They apparently enjoyed sucking on the pieces of hardened graham cracker crust.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Final Word&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I admit to not being a cook. Consequently, if I can do this, anybody can do this. The plus side of the recipe is, once again, that you can whip this one up at the last minute and have something of a reasonable quality. I know those aficionados of traditional cheesecake are probably going to be horrified but as I said, this is what I grew up on so for me this is really what "cheesecake" is.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bon appétit. :-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Note: My apologies to dltk-kids.com. 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Number 4. Brad Bird. Burj Khalifa. IMAX. 95%. Wow. Well, folks, that just about wraps up this movie review in a series of keywords. Fun? Thrill ride? Great entertainment for all you adrenaline junkies? Check, check, and double check. This is it; this is &lt;i&gt;the&lt;/i&gt; action film of the year. Okay, you're going to point out I haven't mentioned Tom Cruise and yeah, he's in it and he does his stuff but the real stars? Hats off to Industrial Light &amp;amp; Magic, the Burj Khalifa and some fabulous cinematography which includes, by the way, the mother of all movie cameras, IMAX. And, let's not forget story and screenplay by André Nemec and Josh Appelbaum along with the debut of Brad Bird directing live-action. Brad Bird is currently riding the success wave having done the films The Incredibles and Ratatouille and is apparently quite sought after in Hollywood. With this under his belt, his "soughtness" is going to go through the roof.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's at this point in a movie review, the author tells you about the plot. Do you really care? If you've seen the trailer, you already known the premise of the story: terrorist bombing at the Kremlin, IMF gets blamed; the team has to go undercover with no official support in order to find out who the real perpetrator is. That's all you need to know because from there it's just nonstop go, go, go. How many novel ways can screenwriters come up with to have fights which dazzle our imaginations? The fight scene in the automated parking garage where platforms raise and lower cars is one of those I've-never-seen-that- before moments. It's a theme of the MI movies than our hero climb things and here we have him scaling the world's tallest skyscraper (for now). Okay it's a stunt but wow nevertheless.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;By the numbers&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mr. Cruise has himself a nice little franchise. In looking back on the series, we see the following figures:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;Mission Impossible (1996)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Budget: $80 million&lt;br /&gt;Gross: $458 million (worldwide)&lt;br /&gt;Rotten Tomatoes: 56%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;Mission Impossible II (2000)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Budget: $125 million&lt;br /&gt;Gross: $546 million (worldwide)&lt;br /&gt;Rotten Tomatoes: 57%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;Mission Impossible III (2006)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Budget: $150 million&lt;br /&gt;Gross: $398 million (worldwide)&lt;br /&gt;Rotten Tomatoes: 70%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;Mission Impossible IV (2011): Ghost Protocol&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Budget: $145 million&lt;br /&gt;Gross: $82 million (worldwide) as of Dec 18/2011&lt;br /&gt;Rotten Tomatoes: 95%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's interesting to note the jump in the film's rating on Rotten Tomatoes for number three in the franchise. Was the addition of Philip Seymour Hoffman as the bad guy that much of a plus to change the quality of the entire film in the eyes of the critics? I also note that J. J. Abrams was involved in the creation of the story for number three and directed the film, his first involvement in the series.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Tommy doing his own stunts&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I loved the thrill rush of the tower climbing being as much of an adrenaline junkie as the next guy... or gal. I do, however, have to chuckle about the hype surrounding Tom doing his own stunts at the top of the tower, the Burj Khalifa, in Dubai. I trust everybody realizes that there is no way the film company would let him go out there if it wasn't safe. Yes, let's kill off our star in the middle of production. I'm mentioning this because I did a tandem parachute jump some time back (&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/parachuting-if-god-had-meant-me-to.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Parachuting: If God had meant me to...&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;) and while anybody might say, "Oooo" at what appears to be dangerous, I was amused to discover in writing about my experience that statistically, I was safer parachuting than driving my car. Yep, I stand a better chance of getting creamed in a car then going splat jumping out of a plane. As such, I'm sure that what Tom was doing was more than just safe. After all, now the CN Tower in Toronto, Canada is offering something called EdgeWalk. It is the world's highest full-circle, hands-free walk at a height of 346 metres or 1,135 ft. Visitors are tethered to an overhead rail system and walk around the edge of the CN Tower's main pod above the 360 Restaurant on a 1.8-metre (5.9 ft) metal floor. So, thrilled by Tom climbing around Burj Khalifa? Come to Toronto and you can do sort of the same thing. Yes, you too can not only see Ghost Protocol, you can do part of it yourself. ... Come on, I dare ya. Chicken!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;IMAX&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do not, I repeat, do not go see this in a regular theatre. This is supposed to be a blow your socks off Holy C**p entertainment experience so why tone down the eye-popping, ear-splitting fun when you can just as easily pump up the volume with a five story screen and a 12,000 watts sound system? So what if it's an extra five bucks or whatever. It is going to be worth it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From my reading only certain parts of the film were shot using the IMAX system but I had no idea what those parts were. I could guess the tower shots in Dubai but I don't know. Whatever the case, I found the entire film to be crystal clear with a certain richness of colour which had me on several occasions going Wow. The aerial cinematography in Dubai was truly breath-taking and had me thinking that I have to go there once in my life and see it for real. Of course, am I going to be able to afford a hotel room? Do they rent by the hour? It's probably all I can afford.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Trailer&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm sure everybody has seen the trailer by now and heard the song Won't Back Down by Eminem featuring Pink. It works great in the trailer for the montage of action clips however the song is not used in the movie at all. Just a curiosity I noted while watching the film.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object width="560" height="315"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/V0LQnQSrC-g?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/V0LQnQSrC-g?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="560" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Final Word&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you love Tom Cruise, go see this film. If you like your adrenaline served up intravenously, go see this film. If you want to get yourself worked up by some nonstop action with fights, car chases, explosions and of course, some human fly climbing a tower, go see this film. You are not going to be disappointed. Kudos to everyone involved, they have managed to put together an excellent piece of entertainment. I highly recommend it and for one last time - I won't back down! - See it in IMAX!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rotten Tomatoes: &lt;a href="http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/mission_impossible_ghost_protocol/"&gt;Mission: Impossible Ghost Protocol&lt;/a&gt; (2011): 95%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Stylish, fast-paced, and loaded with gripping set pieces, the fourth Mission: Impossible is big-budget popcorn entertainment that really works.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mission:_Impossible_%E2%80%93_Ghost_Protocol"&gt;Mission: Impossible – Ghost Protocol&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Mission: Impossible – Ghost Protocol is a 2011 action spy film, and the fourth installment in the Mission: Impossible series. It stars Tom Cruise, who reprises his role of IMF Agent Ethan Hunt, and is director Brad Bird's first live-action film. Ghost Protocol was written by André Nemec and Josh Appelbaum, and produced by Cruise, J. J. Abrams (director of the third film) and Bryan Burk. It is the first Mission: Impossible film not produced by Paula Wagner, and the first of the series to be partially filmed using IMAX cameras. The film was released in North America on December 16, 2011, to positive reviews.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mission:_Impossible_%28film_series%29"&gt;Mission: Impossible (film series)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Mission: Impossible films are a series of action films based on the television series of the same name. The films feature Tom Cruise as Ethan Hunt, an I.M.F agent.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mission:_Impossible_%28film%29"&gt;Mission: Impossible&lt;/a&gt; (film)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Mission: Impossible is a 1996 action thriller directed by Brian De Palma and starring Tom Cruise. Following on from the television series of the same name, the plot follows a new agent, Ethan Hunt and his mission to uncover the mole within the CIA who has framed him for the murders of his entire IMF team.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mission:_Impossible_II"&gt;Mission: Impossible II&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Mission: Impossible II (also known as M:i-2) is a 2000 action film directed by John Woo, and starring Tom Cruise, who also served as the film's producer.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mission:_Impossible_III"&gt;Mission: Impossible III&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Mission: Impossible III (also known as M:i:III) is a 2006 action film.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;IMDb: &lt;a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1229238/"&gt;Mission: Impossible - Ghost Protocol&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Burj_Khalifa"&gt;Burj Khalifa&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Burj Khalifa ("Khalifa Tower"), known as Burj Dubai prior to its inauguration, is a skyscraper in Dubai, United Arab Emirates, and is currently the tallest structure ever built, at 828 m (2,717 ft).&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;official web site: &lt;a href="http://www.missionimpossible.com/"&gt;Ghost Protocol&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Videos, gallery, about the film, cast and crew, downloads]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2011-12-19&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/wqbelle" target="_blank"&gt;Follow me on Twitter &lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvjllt5gxI/AAAAAAAAAns/8GFdNjTyiKU/s1600/icon-Twitter.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/459873339663141424-8976127867848505765?l=wqebelle.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/feeds/8976127867848505765/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=459873339663141424&amp;postID=8976127867848505765&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/8976127867848505765'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/8976127867848505765'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/movie-review-mission-impossible-ghost.html' title='Movie Review: Mission: Impossible Ghost Protocol'/><author><name>William Quincy Belle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14337095766556949027</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7AgI-NaU0yc/Tmizm7ksylI/AAAAAAAABHI/kyOqXigj7hY/s220/Seattle.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-TBAVntqgBkQ/Tu_73d_SKNI/AAAAAAAABUQ/yM4GdaP7GrM/s72-c/MissionImpossible-GhostProtocol-3.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-459873339663141424.post-1547559647022104413</id><published>2011-12-17T17:23:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-17T17:23:52.413-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movie review'/><title type='text'>Movie Review: Sherlock Holmes: A Game of Shadows</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-UL1Jqe2TC5o/Tu0_7BHB1ZI/AAAAAAAABUI/lczL-e4aoqY/s1600/SherlockHolmes-AGameOfShadows.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-UL1Jqe2TC5o/Tu0_7BHB1ZI/AAAAAAAABUI/lczL-e4aoqY/s1600/SherlockHolmes-AGameOfShadows.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;It's a bit of a rollicking good time, old chap. (Okay, how's that for some British English?) The whole gang is back under the tutelage of Guy Richie and Sir Arthur Conan Doyle's characters come to life in the cinematic splendour of high definition film and whiz-bang special effects including the requisite bullet time. Like the 2009 film, Sherlock Holmes works out his next ballet of fisticuffs in slow motion with running commentary then executes it real-time and the results are devastating for the bad guys.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I saw the film in an Empire Extra theatre, the Canadian chain's next pump up the volume cinematic experience and was amazed at the clarity of the images and the richness of the colours. I don't know whether to credit the film makers or the digital projection system, but the results were stunning. This all made for an entertaining combination of thrill ride and detective who done it. One reviewer said this film and its 2009 predecessor are a long way from the author's creation and as I have never read any of the original Sherlock Holmes stories, I can't comment or judge if this is faithful or faithless to the books. Nevertheless, on their own merits both films are great fun.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Robert Downey Jr. is once again in fine form and I never once thought of him as Tony Stark. Jude Law is great as the sidekick Dr. Watson and the Holmes Watson bromance makes for a good action duo. A good film needs a good villain and here, we have none other than Professor Moriarty, the intellectual equal of Holmes but at the evil end of the good bad spectrum. The scene where the two of them duel by playing a game of chess first by sitting at the board and moving the pieces then by standing up and walking around while calling out their moves is quite amazing when you realize the two of them are continuing to visualize the entire game in their heads. King to knight's bishop 3. Queen captures knight. Wow, can anybody do that in real life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"When you have eliminated the impossible, whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-The Sign of Four (1890) by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle; Chapter 6, p. 111&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Several times Holmes would glance at something and the camera would follow his eyes as he took in various clues then put them all together to formulate what had actually transpired. This was his inductive reasoning: starting with specifics and determining generalizations; a fancy-pants way of saying the great detective could figure things out and solve the mystery wrapped in an enigma. Between Holmes' detective skills, his mastery of disguise and his pugilistic accomplishments, this almost comic book hero is right up there with Superman, Batman and whichever action hero you can think of. Whether a human being is, in fact, capable of doing even half of what Holmes does remains to be seen but it certainly spells fun with a capital F.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Empire Extra Theatre&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We all know IMAX: big theatre, big sound system. The Empire theatre chain has gotten on-board with a new idea to spice up the joint and offer us movie goers a better cinematic experience. Selected centres have one dedicated theatre which offers cushier seats, a better sound system and an all digital projection system. Amusing enough, just like IMAX, they have a short "pre-show" designed to show off the capabilities of the theatre. This show doesn't involve lasers but they do have two side projectors to give a bit of a light show.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For me, the big, big feature of this new experience is reserved seating. Yep, I bought my ticket on-line and got to choose my seat. That seat was reserved so I didn't have to worry about showing up early enough to rush in when the doors opened to get the best seat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Bullet Time&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to Wikipedia, the term bullet time is a registered trademark of Warner Bros., distributor of The Matrix. Really, now!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For me this movie making technique started with the film The Matrix although others had gone before. Nowadays it seems that the idea is being put to good use in a number of circumstances. While presenting action in slow motion is a major part of bullet time, that isn't all of it. The displacement of the camera around the scene is also important so that the centre of the shot may be seen from several different angles. The Matrix did a great job of this. Elsewhere I enjoyed the street explosion in the film Swordfish. Here in Sherlock Holmes number two, Mr. Ritchie, the director, gives us a number of fabulous examples of bullet time. This takes an exciting picture and pushes into the stratosphere of thrill ride extraordinaire. I loved it!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object height="315" width="560"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/td2Zjdjqhhs?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/td2Zjdjqhhs?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="560" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Final Word&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And a rollicking good time was had by all. I enjoyed the entertainment and entertainment this is. Nothing profound here. Historical accuracy may be questionable but who cares if you're smiling? It was well filmed and well acted with all the necessary special effects explosions to keep you well occupied. There will be no checking your watch wondering how much longer the film will go on. I recommend the film as some good holiday entertainment. Note that the film is rated PG, Parental Guidance, in Canada: There is no age restriction but some material may not be suitable for all children.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rotten Tomatoes: &lt;a href="http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/sherlock_holmes_a_game_of_shadows/" target="_blank"&gt;Sherlock Holmes: A Game of Shadows&lt;/a&gt;: 64%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;It never duplicates the well-oiled thrills of the first installment, but Sherlock Holmes: A Game of Shadows is eminently watchable thanks to its well-matched leading men.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sherlock_Holmes:_A_Game_of_Shadows" target="_blank"&gt;Sherlock Holmes: A Game of Shadows&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Sherlock Holmes: A Game of Shadows is a 2011 British-American action mystery film directed by Guy Ritchie and produced by Joel Silver, Lionel Wigram, Susan Downey, and Dan Lin. It is a sequel to the 2009 film Sherlock Holmes, based on the character of the same name created by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle. The screenplay is by Kieran Mulroney and Michele Mulroney. Robert Downey, Jr. and Jude Law reprise their roles as Sherlock Holmes and Dr. John Watson, respectively, as the duo join forces to outwit and bring down their most cunning adversary, Professor Moriarty, played by Jared Harris.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;official movie web site: &lt;a href="http://sherlockholmes2.warnerbros.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Sherlock Holmes: A Game of Shadows&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The site offers the usual goodies of story, photo gallery, trailers and TV spots plus cuts from the soundtrack. As special features there are a flash game, a 3D game requiring something called the Unity Web Player and a Facebook app game.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rotten Tomatoes: &lt;a href="http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/sherlock_holmes_2009/" target="_blank"&gt;Sherlock Holmes&lt;/a&gt; (2009): 70%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Guy Ritchie's directorial style might not be quite the best fit for an update on the legendary detective, but Sherlock Holmes benefits from the elementary appeal of a strong performance by Robert Downey, Jr.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sherlock_Holmes_%282009_film%29" target="_blank"&gt;Sherlock Holmes&lt;/a&gt; (2009 film)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Sherlock Holmes is a 2009 action-mystery film based on the character of the same name created by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle. The film was directed by Guy Ritchie and produced by Joel Silver, Lionel Wigram, Susan Downey and Dan Lin. The screenplay by Michael Robert Johnson, Anthony Peckham and Simon Kinberg was developed from a story by Lionel Wigram and Michael Robert Johnson. Robert Downey, Jr. and Jude Law portray Sherlock Holmes and Dr. John Watson respectively.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;official movie web site: &lt;a href="http://sherlock-holmes-movie.warnerbros.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Sherlock Holmes&lt;/a&gt; (2009)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sherlock_Holmes" target="_blank"&gt;Sherlock Holmes&lt;/a&gt; (literary character)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Sherlock Holmes&amp;nbsp; is a fictional detective created by Scottish author and physician Sir Arthur Conan Doyle. The fantastic London-based "consulting detective", Holmes is famous for his astute logical reasoning, his ability to take on almost any disguise, and his use of forensic science skills to solve difficult cases.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Holmes, who first appeared in publication in 1887, was featured in four novels and 56 short stories. The first novel, A Study in Scarlet, appeared in Beeton's Christmas Annual in 1887 and the second, The Sign of the Four, in Lippincott's Monthly Magazine in 1890. The character grew tremendously in popularity with the first series of short stories in Strand Magazine, beginning with A Scandal in Bohemia in 1891; further series of short stories and two novels published in serial form appeared between then and 1927. The stories cover a period from around 1880 up to 1914.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;All but four stories are narrated by Holmes's friend and biographer, Dr. John H. Watson; two are narrated by Holmes himself ("The Blanched Soldier" and "The Lion's Mane") and two others are written in the third person ("The Mazarin Stone" and "His Last Bow"). In two stories ("The Musgrave Ritual" and "The Gloria Scott"), Holmes tells Watson the main story from his memories, while Watson becomes the narrator of the frame story. The first and fourth novels, A Study in Scarlet and The Valley of Fear, each include a long interval of omniscient narration recounting events unknown both to Holmes and Watson.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bullet_time" target="_blank"&gt;Bullet time&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Bullet time is a special and visual effect that refers to a digitally enhanced simulation of variable-speed (i.e. slow motion, time-lapse, etc.) photography used in films, broadcast advertisements, and video games. It is characterized both by its extreme transformation of time (slow enough to show normally imperceptible and unfilmable events, such as flying bullets) and space (by way of the ability of the camera angle—the audience's point-of-view—to move around the scene at a normal speed while events are slowed). This is almost impossible with conventional slow-motion, as the physical camera would have to move impossibly fast; the concept implies that only a "virtual camera", often illustrated within the confines of a computer-generated environment such as a virtual world or virtual reality, would be capable of "filming" bullet-time types of moments. Technical and historical variations of this effect have been referred to as time slicing, view morphing, slow-mo, temps mort and virtual cinematography.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Empire Theatres: &lt;a href="http://www.empiretheatres.com/extra" target="_blank"&gt;Empire Extra&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[The theatre has been redone with different seats (spongier, slightly bigger than normal seats), a more powerful sound system, and an introduction somewhat like what IMAX always shows to demonstrate the theatre's capabilities. The big thing, however, is being able to buy reserved seats. Yep, just like a live show you can pick your seat and it's reserved. You don't have to show up early to get a good seat. That to me is a big selling point.]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Dynamic Sound&lt;br /&gt;Our custom designed, multi-channel sound system provides even, balanced coverage to any seat in the auditorium. Lose yourself in the dynamic sound with rich, clear, dialogue.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Optimal Viewing Experience&lt;br /&gt;We offer Digital Projection for the brightest, most vivid image on screen and stunning 3D. 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I was going to say "Who gives a rat's ass?" but I wanted to be as succinct as possible. I don't want to rain on anybody's parade - you do deserve credit for having gone the distance - but this blog entry is about me, not you, so let me expound on my experience in this first time in my life exercise in creativity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I started by saying "Who cares?" to try and put any of this in perspective. I have run across a lot of hoopla surrounding the writing 50,000 words and a lot of disparaging remarks. Knocking off fifty thou does not a book make and all those criticizing this as a month of producing crap have missed the point. NaNoWriMo isn't about the results; it is about the process.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;To travel hopefully is a better thing than to arrive.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Robert Louis Stevenson&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This little gem from Mr. Stevenson points out in a Zen-like fashion that any of us better be enjoying the now, and not waiting for tomorrow. Don't spend your life or waste your life involved in what is not enjoyable with the idea that someday, yes someday, you will enjoy yourself. Your ship docks in paradise. You walk down the gangplank and wait for the tourist bus which is going to take you to the resort. When it pulls up, the driver accidentally goes over the yellow line behind which you're waiting and flattens you like a pancake. How about that one for the irony of fate? Drop dead a metre (3 feet) from the finish line, a single metre from paradise.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;NaNoWriMo isn't about writing a book. It is about the process of writing a book. It is about the personal discipline to sit down each day for thirty days in a row and pound out 1,667 words. As a joke, the official web site says that you are not allowed to write the same word fifty thousand times so from there, anything is possible. For inspiration, the same web sites does list a few names of people who have participated in the event and gone on to publish their efforts as books however, let's be realistic, the number of people having done so is just this side of infinitesimal when you look at the total number signed up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In 2011, according to the official web site (&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://blog.lettersandlight.org/post/13851021182"&gt;The Office of Letters and Light&lt;/a&gt;) there were 256,618 participants with 36,774 winners or 14%. Don't forget that the word winner means you have written fifty thou; it does not mean that you have written a publishable manuscript. Anybody, from the greats like Stephen King to NaNoWriMo itself will tell you that anything you've accomplished during this time is and should be considered as a first draft. First draft? What? I haven't spun gold first time out?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stephen King's 2002 book On Writing (see &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/book-review-on-writing-by-stephen-king.html"&gt;my book review&lt;/a&gt;) is part autobiography, part writer's manual. Considering the success of the author, this is a fascinating look at how the man got to where he is today and his own recommendations at how any aspiring writer can succeed at their craft. If there is any one lesson to be taken away from the book, Mr. King talks of the discipline of sitting down each day and doing two thousand words; each day, every day while he's working on a book. He emphasizes the importance of getting it all down on paper - okay, he uses a computer - then putting the entire thing away for a couple of months. After a period of time away from his work, he will come back objectively and edit the novel ready, as he amusingly puts it, to "kill his babies". This graphic statement, not surprising in light of his stories of horror, means nothing more than being able to remove what may amount to good ideas that don't fit into the narrative. Unfortunately not all ideas fit with the flow of the story and an editor, as opposed to the author, must be brutal in remaining focused on the finished product and not get stuck on a specific idea, scene or even character.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In other words, sitting down and hammering out fifty, sixty or even a hundred thousand words is, drum roll, a first draft. Even the master, the professional, the published author loved and admired by many the world over does not spin gold the very first time. Let's come back to the objective of NaNoWriMo. Chris Baty, the founder of NaNoWriMo, has written a book called "No Plot? No Problem!" which is qualified on the cover with the line "A low-stress, high velocity guide to writing a novel in 30 days". With a deft touch and a comedic slant, Mr. Baty offers encouraging words to those who want to take on the personal challenge of writing a 50,000 word novel. He points out quite clearly that the goal here is the doing not the final product. The point to the exercise is that your average person gets so hung up on being perfect the first time they put pen to paper, they never get around to writing anything. NaNoWriMo is about saying to yourself "To heck with my mistakes" and Baty writes that we need to lower our expectations from "best-seller" to "would not make someone vomit". He adds: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Writer and championship figure skater Ralph Waldo Emerson once wrote, "In skating over thin ice, safety is in our speed."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writer and championship figure skater? Chris is one funny guy but he does have a point. No procrastination, just do it. Start and don't stop until you're finished. And who said that was just a slogan for Nike? "Just Do It" makes a lot of sense.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Writing is a lonely job&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Isn't this self-evident? However the word lonely has more than one meaning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;1. Sad because one has no friends or company&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;- lonely old people whose families do not care for them&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;2. Without companions; solitary&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;- passing long lonely hours looking onto the street&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;3. (of a place) Unfrequented and remote&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;- a lonely stretch of country lane&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I would say that lonely job is referring to meaning number two, that is, it is a solitary occupation. Okay, you may feel lonely in the sense of feeling sad about being alone, but no, we just mean that it's something you do by yourself. How many have pointed out the difference between being alone and being lonely?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Writing is a lonely job. Even if a writer socializes regularly, when he gets down to the real business of his life, it is he and his type writer or word processor. No one else is or can be involved in the matter."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;― Isaac Asimov, I, Asimov: A Memoir (&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/show/120364"&gt;Goodreads&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let me return to Stephen King in his book On Writing where he writes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Writing isn’t about making money, getting famous, getting dates, getting laid or making friends. In the end, it’s about enriching the lives of those who will read your work, and enriching your own life, as well.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I read that I understood something important about somebody we all perceive as being successful. He didn't start writing with the idea of "I want to be a success". He writes because he's passionate about writing. His motivation isn't the success, the fame, or even the money (I'm sure that doesn't hurt), it's about the writing. Doing NaNoWriMo isn't about publishing a book, getting it on the New York Times Best Sellers list, having it optioned as a movie and doing an interview on NBC's Today show. Nope, it is the more humble goal of going through the process of writing and Chris Baty is completely right. How many of us have ever sat down and tried to do what Stephen King describes? That is, pound out each day, every day, a couple of thousand words with the longer term objective of producing something akin to a book? Hey, we've all written an essay in school. With the advent of the Internet, some of us even take on the personal challenge of writing a blog and posting a few hundred or maybe a few thousand words about a personal experience, a political diatribe or some flash fiction. But a book? An entire novel? Wow, can I do that? Surprise, surprise, there's that blank page, that virgin sheet of paper just waiting for my words to transform it into heavens only knows what imaginary world. I'm not Stephen King or James Patterson or Dan Brown or Stephanie Meyers however I realise they all sit down in front of a blank computer screen just like me and start typing. I read about how J. K. Rowling started when she first started writing Harry Potter: blank computer screen, start typing. Okay, I'm not Rowling but I'm sitting down with a blank screen just like her and trying to string some words together which may or may not make sense, which may or may not be entertaining to a potential reader.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I'm getting ahead of myself. This is about the process. This is about discipline. This is about the Nike slogan of Just Do It. No more talking about it. No more planning. No more procrastination. I sit down and start typing and I don't get up until I'm finished.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The journey is the reward.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Chinese Proverb&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How did my "journey" go? I got occasionally stuck. I paced up and down in my apartment racking my brains about whether to turn right or turn left. I procrastinated. I watched some old episodes of the television series Castle on my computer instead of typing. I went for walks. I snacked. I cleaned my apartment. Yes, cleaning my apartment was me avoiding typing. Ha!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the other side of the coin, I had moments of great activity. I had fun. As I created my mental image, the film running in my head of what I was writing, I smiled, I laughed, and I said, "Oh yeah, somebody is going to find that scene funny!" A few times, I finished off a paragraph, leapt out of my seat and did a fist pump in the middle of the room while exclaiming out loud, "All right!" In other words, I did have fun. Yes, it was work but it had its moments of fun.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;My Biggest Mistake&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lazette Gifford is an author (consult &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.amazon.com/Lazette-Gifford/e/B004RS45YS"&gt;Amazon's author page&lt;/a&gt;) who seems to be quite busy meaning prolific. She offers a free eBook "&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/84837"&gt;NaNo for the New and the Insane&lt;/a&gt;" that is a compilation of blog entries about writing and writing for NaNoWriMo. The perspective of doing the 30 day marathon from a professional is interesting. One thing she mentioned was planning. According to the rules of NaNoWriMo, you must write your fifty thou during the 30 days of November. You can't do anything before November 1st and you can't do anything after November 30th. However, you are allowed to plan. This means working out a synopsis, creating character descriptions and even detailing chapter by chapter what's going to happen in the story.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I found Gifford's ideas of planning to be eye-opening. Why? Originally, I was going to start on November 1st with an idea. Just an idea, no planning, no outline. Start writing and see where that would lead me. This seems to be how a lot of people approach NaNoWriMo from what I found out in Chris Baty's book and reading elsewhere. However Gifford said planning is an important part of the process. She wrote about easily knocking off fifty thousand words in a couple of weeks and even managing to write a hundred thousand or more in the month of November. She would put together her plan then when the time came to start, she would write by following her plan. She wasn't sitting around wondering what to do as she had already figured that out. The plot, the twists, the characters, etc. had already been worked out. Once started, it was merely a question of writing it down.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I read Ms. Gifford's eBook only a month before NaNoWriMo and realised my fly by the seat of my pants idea was probably not the best one. Consequently I started jotting down a plan which I used. Subsequent to this, I discovered major authors may do some or even a lot of planning. On the television show Castle which is about an author, an episode showed a large computerized board, like a white board, on which he explained how he mapped out his novels. Really?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The proof is in the pudding. The stuff I had planned out ahead of time went quickly and smoothly. Those chapters I had worked out in my head only required me to write down what I already knew. There wasn't really any thinking; it was all just doing. Despite November 1, 2011 falling on a Tuesday, a workday, I managed to come home, have dinner then knock off 6,000 words. I had forty thousand words by day twelve and would have finished early, really early but I got bogged down. I hadn't done enough planning. I sort of painted myself into a corner and had to think of how to get out. Yes, there are the amusing "escape" techniques like introducing Ninjas or a worm hole or some other such &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deus_ex_machina"&gt;deus ex machina&lt;/a&gt;, but I did want to write something plausible. In the end, I finished my fifty thousand on day 18 then set the whole thing aside and goofed off for the rest of the month.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Goofing off: Castle&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't know why, but I re-discovered the ABC television series Castle on the Internet. Throughout November I was rewarding my hard work by allowing myself to watch every episode from seasons one, two and three. (see &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/omg-ive-turned-into-castle-junkie.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;OMG! I've turned into a Castle junkie!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My point in mentioning this as I began to have a great appreciation for the writers of the show. They would come up with a very clever premise for a murder mystery and put together a great story where the protagonists would go through the steps of discovering who committed the crime. This very much made me think of what I myself was writing and how planning can be essential for figuring out your plot and coming up with plausible explanations for the crime. You may or may not like the show but watching the show while trying to write a story made me think that writing a story, a good story, heck a great story is, well, not that easy. Hmph, no wonder an author may get writer's block. Sometimes a Ninja or a worm hole just isn't going to cut it when trying to get your hero out of a corner.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;50,000 words&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Okay, just what do fifty thousand words represent? Wikipedia's article &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Word_count" target="_blank"&gt;Word Count&lt;/a&gt; defines various literary works by size:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;pre&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;,Courier,monospace;"&gt;Classification &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Word count&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;,Courier,monospace;"&gt;Novel&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; over 40,000 words&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;,Courier,monospace;"&gt;Novella&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 17,500 to 40,000 words&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;,Courier,monospace;"&gt;Novelette &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 7,500 to 17,500 words&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;,Courier,monospace;"&gt;Short story &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; under 7,500 words&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/pre&gt;How does this translate into the books we all know? I found a web site dealing with school books and looked up a few examples of the novels I have read over the years either on my own or possibly as part of my English classes in high school.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.renlearn.com/store/quiz_home.asp?cmd=specific&amp;amp;i=31250&amp;amp;root=TITLE&amp;amp;ftextoption=allwords&amp;amp;y=slaughterhouse+five&amp;amp;q=slaughterhouse+five&amp;amp;x=10&amp;amp;w=1&amp;amp;autoscroll=NO&amp;amp;quiztype=ALL&amp;amp;RPMatch=" target="_blank"&gt;Slaughterhouse Five&lt;/a&gt; by Kurt Vonnegut&lt;br /&gt;word count: 49,459&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.renlearn.com/store/quiz_home.asp?cmd=specific&amp;amp;i=23179&amp;amp;root=TITLE&amp;amp;ftextoption=allwords&amp;amp;y=brave+new+world&amp;amp;q=brave+new+world&amp;amp;x=10&amp;amp;w=1&amp;amp;autoscroll=NO&amp;amp;quiztype=ALL&amp;amp;RPMatch=" target="_blank"&gt;Brave New World&lt;/a&gt; by Aldous Huxley&lt;br /&gt;word count: 63,766&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.renlearn.com/store/quiz_home.asp?cmd=specific&amp;amp;i=20502&amp;amp;root=TITLE&amp;amp;ftextoption=allwords&amp;amp;y=1984&amp;amp;q=1984&amp;amp;x=10&amp;amp;w=1&amp;amp;autoscroll=NO&amp;amp;quiztype=ALL&amp;amp;RPMatch=" target="_blank"&gt;1984&lt;/a&gt; by George Orwell&lt;br /&gt;Word count: 88,942&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.renlearn.com/store/quiz_home.asp?cmd=specific&amp;amp;i=19345&amp;amp;root=TITLE&amp;amp;ftextoption=allwords&amp;amp;y=the+great+gatsby&amp;amp;q=the+great+gatsby&amp;amp;x=10&amp;amp;w=1&amp;amp;autoscroll=NO&amp;amp;quiztype=ALL&amp;amp;RPMatch=" target="_blank"&gt;The Great Gatsby&lt;/a&gt; by F. Scott Fitzgerald&lt;br /&gt;word count: 47,094&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.renlearn.com/store/quiz_home.asp?cmd=specific&amp;amp;i=19364&amp;amp;root=TITLE&amp;amp;ftextoption=allwords&amp;amp;y=animal+farm&amp;amp;q=animal+farm&amp;amp;x=10&amp;amp;w=1&amp;amp;autoscroll=NO&amp;amp;quiztype=ALL&amp;amp;RPMatch=" target="_blank"&gt;Animal Farm&lt;/a&gt; by George Orwell&lt;br /&gt;word count: 29,060&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.renlearn.com/store/quiz_home.asp?cmd=specific&amp;amp;i=20504&amp;amp;root=TITLE&amp;amp;ftextoption=allwords&amp;amp;y=catcher+in+the+rye&amp;amp;q=catcher+in+the+rye&amp;amp;x=10&amp;amp;w=1&amp;amp;autoscroll=NO&amp;amp;quiztype=ALL&amp;amp;RPMatch=" target="_blank"&gt;The Catcher in the Rye&lt;/a&gt; by J. D. Salinger&lt;br /&gt;word count: 73,404&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Are my 50,000 words a book?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do I have a book? A novella? Nope. I have an idea. I have a few scenes, maybe not bad scenes. I have some characters who are well, characters. But I don't have a finished story which would enthrall you from beginning to end. Following Stephen King's recommendation, I am going to leave the whole thing in a drawer for a month or two then I'm going to come back and "kill my babies". Will I finish this? At the moment, I'm making no promises as what the heck, what inspiration of the moment is going to strike me next? I'm already scheduled to shave my head and move to an ashram in southern California where I will take a vow of chastity and begin knitting in silence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Final Word&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;NaNoWriMo is about the process of writing a novel. A number of critics say it's merely an excuse for fifty thousand words of crap and while that may be an accurate assessment of the results, it is ignoring that the real goal in the month of November is to go through the process and find the self-discipline to start the project and see it through to the end. From there, well, that's anybody's guess but anybody who's done it may have a better idea, a better appreciation what the masters have gone through before their literary endeavour ended up a best seller.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An amusing thought comes to mind. Right now I am sitting all by myself typing these words. At some point, Stephen King was sitting somewhere, I'm assuming all by himself, typing out his first big hit Carrie. J. K. Rowling was sitting by herself someplace writing Harry Potter. The same for James Patterson, Dan Brown and any one of a number of famous authors you could think of. All of us can think of their success, marvel at their fame and be envious of the monetary rewards for their efforts however, it all started with them sitting down and writing. They had the self-discipline to start and keep going and to keep going until they were finished. That is what I see NaNoWriMo is all about. It isn't about publishing a book; it isn't even about my 50,000 words of crap. It is about the process of writing, that all by yourself locked up in your imagination marathon of creativity. Some people paint but not everybody is Leonardo da Vinci or [fill in name of recent artist you admire]. Some people make music but not everybody is Johan Sebastian Bach or [fill in name of recent classical/rock/pop artist you admire]. Anybody need a further example or do you see where I'm going with this?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;November is over. It is now December. Hmmm, now what to do? Wrap presents? *Looks at the calendar* Oops, time to shave my head!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/nanowrimo-are-you-out-of-your-freakin.html"&gt;NaNoWriMo: Are you out of your freakin' mind?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Links about NaNoWriMo (some given below), writing in general, and blogging&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/nanowrimo-write-novel-in-1-month.html"&gt;NaNoWriMo: Write a novel in 1 month?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;This is it, the original go for broke 30 day trial.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/assembly-line-writing.html"&gt;Assembly Line Writing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Writing in a hurry is stupid? Laughing all the way to the bank?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/12/book-review-on-writing-by-stephen-king.html"&gt;On Writing by Stephen King&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Penned by the master himself, this book is part biography, part technical manual about the craft of writing.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/01/writing-james-patterson.html"&gt;James Patterson&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Q: What do you say to critics like author Stephen King who say you are not a great prose stylist?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;A: I am not a great prose stylist. I'm a storyteller. There are thousands of people who don't like what I do. Fortunately, there are millions who do.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/02/writing-holly-lisle.html"&gt;Holly Lisle&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;This moment started exactly 25 years ago today, when in my diary I wrote, “Before I turn 25, I want to write a book.” 25 years later, I’ve written 33 novels (plus one I did anonymously as work for hire), am working on a couple more, and intend to keep writing novels as long as I live.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/nanowrimo-hopeful-or-hopeless.html"&gt;NaNoWriMo: Hopeful or hopeless?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Some inspirational links and videos]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;As flippant as it sounds, I'm getting the idea that success is tied up in the slogan from Nike: Just do it! No quibbling, no discussion, no angst about your inner struggle. Just do it. Or maybe in some cases, it needs a little emphasis: Just f**king do it.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/nanowrimo-and-inspiring-author-dean.html"&gt;NaNoWriMo and an inspiring author: Dean Wesley Smith&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;I "discovered" this gentleman back in March and found him to be a prolific, disciplined craftsman. It seemed appropriate to reprint the article as a run-up to the month of November when many give themselves the personal challenge of doing the unthinkable: write 50,000 words in 30 days.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/10/november-it-was-dark-and-stormy-night.html"&gt;November: It was a dark and stormy night...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The perfect opening line for one of the duller months of the year: 30 days of somberness between the sparkling heat of summer and the snowy cold of winter. Charles M. Schulz hasn't been with us since 2000 and even though his comic strip Peanuts is still republished, is the next generation familiar with these words? I am dating myself by the number of times I have seen Snoopy the writer on top of his doghouse pounding out that opening line on his typewriter in mock homage to Edward George Earle Lytton Bulwer-Lytton, 1st Baron Lytton PC. November? Snoopy? Bulwer-Lytton? 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text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-wljNdi4Ebhw/TudNSsh0LTI/AAAAAAAABTw/dwqHr7EMj7o/s1600/JasonMraz-Lucky.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-wljNdi4Ebhw/TudNSsh0LTI/AAAAAAAABTw/dwqHr7EMj7o/s1600/JasonMraz-Lucky.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by OfficialJasonMraz on Nov 23, 2009&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lucky_%28Jason_Mraz_song%29"&gt;Lucky&lt;/a&gt; (Jason Mraz song)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Lucky" is a song by Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat. It is the third single from Mraz's third studio album We Sing. We Dance. We Steal Things. The song has been on the Billboard charts as well as on the other music charts worldwide.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jason_Mraz"&gt;Jason Mraz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Jason Thomas Mraz (born June 23, 1977), also known as Mr. AZ and Mr. Raz, is an American singer-songwriter. Mraz released his debut album, Waiting for My Rocket to Come, which contained the hit single "The Remedy (I Won't Worry)", in 2002, but it was not until the release of his second album, "Mr. A-Z", in 2005, that Mraz achieved major commercial success. The album peaked at number five on the Billboard 200 and sold over 100,000 copies in the US. In 2008, Mraz released his third studio album, We Sing. We Dance. We Steal Things. The album debuted at number three on the Billboard 200 and was a commercial success worldwide, peaking in the top ten of many international charts.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Personal Notes&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have an amusing story about how I "discovered" this song. I have been rewatching various episodes of the television series Castle and have discovered I don't know how many videos created by fans of the series. Some are clips taken from the episodes, such as &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zPDURTCqcCM" target="_blank"&gt;the famous kiss&lt;/a&gt; from season 3 episode 16 "Setup". Others are a collection of various romantic scenes between the show's protagonists set to music. One such music video introduced me to the duet of Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat (&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AijMwShfIdg" target="_blank"&gt;Stanathan; Lucky I'm in love with my bestfriend.&lt;/a&gt;) a love song about our romantic couple.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2011-12-13&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/wqbelle" target="_blank"&gt;Follow me on Twitter &lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvjllt5gxI/AAAAAAAAAns/8GFdNjTyiKU/s1600/icon-Twitter.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/459873339663141424-1188011853413071497?l=wqebelle.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/feeds/1188011853413071497/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=459873339663141424&amp;postID=1188011853413071497&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/1188011853413071497'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/1188011853413071497'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/jason-mraz-lucky-with-colbie-caillat.html' title='Jason Mraz: Lucky (with Colbie Caillat)'/><author><name>William Quincy Belle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14337095766556949027</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7AgI-NaU0yc/Tmizm7ksylI/AAAAAAAABHI/kyOqXigj7hY/s220/Seattle.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-wljNdi4Ebhw/TudNSsh0LTI/AAAAAAAABTw/dwqHr7EMj7o/s72-c/JasonMraz-Lucky.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-459873339663141424.post-7901883523217462940</id><published>2011-12-12T16:37:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-18T06:51:09.743-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><title type='text'>Divorce: Putting People in the Middle</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-5jigvwMW3FM/TgKGgWDW3jI/AAAAAAAAA_w/MesvTatZ4Is/s1600/NormanRockwell-Gossip.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-5jigvwMW3FM/TgKGgWDW3jI/AAAAAAAAA_w/MesvTatZ4Is/s1600/NormanRockwell-Gossip.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;You decide to get a divorce. You and your ex-spouse work out an agreement. That may or may not include alimony, who keeps the house, custody rights, and a host of other details which your lawyers write up in the final document. You sign. The situation is legally finalized and the two of you get on with the rest of your lives. However during the process and long after the process is complete, there is this little idea about moving on. Do we move on? Do we drop it, the past, in favour of the future?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was prompted to write after reading an article by Annie Parks at &lt;a href="http://bitterdivorcee.com/2011/08/23/dear-annie-mom-hates-dad-and-im-in-the-middle/" target="_blank"&gt;The Bitter Divorcée&lt;/a&gt;. A 14 year old girl had written seeking advice about what to do with her mother. Apparently Mom had taken to bad-mouthing her ex-husband, the girl's Dad and the girl felt uncomfortable about this. In fact, the girl said that she thought Mom would be happier if she, the girl, hated her father as much as Mom did. But the girl didn't hate her father. What to do?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Carl and Irene&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am very much reminded of a story. Years ago, back when I was young, naive, inexperienced and, well, stupid (I'm now older and stupid), a high school buddy moved to a city where I was going to school and working part-time. Carl and I had known each other throughout high school and it seemed like a good fit, one friend helping another to get a start in the big city. Carl stayed with me for a bit, got a job, made some bucks then got his own place. Sometime afterwards Carl became involved with Irene, a nice lady. After several years of living together, the two of them decided to get married. I moved to another city to return to university full-time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The marriage started falling apart. I talked with Carl several times and got a story which painted a somewhat unflattering portrait of Irene. Out of the blue, one time in phoning Carl, I ended up talking with Irene. Foolishly, I made the mistake of discussing the marriage in light of what Carl had told me. I discovered that my friend had not been totally truthful with me. In fact, I discovered that he had been interpreting the situation to his benefit and there was another side of the story, Irene's side.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a nutshell, Irene got angry with me; Irene got angry with Carl; Carl got angry with me, and I've never seen either one of them again. That was over 30 years ago but I do know that they did divorce.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What did I learn from this? Divorce is not nice. People are not necessarily objective about it and there are very much two sides to every story. I jokingly said that the next time I ran into anybody getting a divorce, I was going to head for the hills and would not return until the divorce was over. In other words, I didn't want to hear about it and be drawn into the dispute. I didn't want to listen to any one side of the story knowing full well there was another side to the story and just what the heck was the objective version of the situation? If I knew both parties, I did not under any circumstances want to find myself obliged to take sides.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Greg and Marjorie&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nearly 30 years. That's a long time to be married. Add two children on top of it and you've got a fairly complex situation. I won't go into the details out of deference to the two of them or because Greg may someday punch me in the snoot, but the real question is not that they broke up, it's that the marriage lasted as long as it did. I guess I have more of a connection with Greg than with Marjorie but after such a long time and especially since I know both of the kids quite well even now that they're adults, do I take sides?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Marjorie is a decent woman. After the divorce, I wanted to assure her that I wasn't taking sides and said, "You and Greg are getting a divorce but you and I are not getting a divorce." I continue to see her from time to time. I visit the kids who are now grown up and are, well, great kids. And yes, I visit Greg. But I am careful with Greg. Once in a while he'll start to go off on a tangent about Marjorie and the kids and I'll steer the conversation in another direction. I'm not going to take sides. I visit Marjorie. I visit Greg. Maybe never the twain shall meet but I shall meet "the twain" (two) only separately.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Choosing sides&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You side with the wife or you side with the husband. Is it inevitable? Does everybody end up taking sides, choosing to go with one or the other? It seems like a given that the wife's family sticks with the wife and the husband's family sticks with the husband and after the divorce does anybody still need to see anybody else? Whoever stays in the matrimonial home gets the neighbours. If possession is nine tenths of the law, I suppose proximity is nine tenths of the relationship. I suppose the same is true of friends but that may go either way. Some friends are really friends with only one of the spouses. Finally, if there are children involved, well, that is certainly the glue that binds people together for life whether they like it or not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;In the middle&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However we are talking about a specific situation where one spouse or both spouses decide to speak negatively about the other. So now, what does a third party do? This third party may be a member of the family, a neighbour, a colleague, maybe the girl behind the counter at the coffee shop and yes, even the children. Are we asking the other person to pick a side? Are we trying to explain our side of the story? Are we trying to justify our actions, explain the ex-spouse's actions or what? Is it that we haven't resolved the issues we have about our own divorce?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Look at the example of the girl in the coffee shop. This is at the far end of the spectrum but explains the situation. Let's say your spouse visits the coffee shop. Your spouse could be in the eyes of the girl behind the counter a totally normal person. After all, the girl only knows your spouse in these circumstances, not in the circumstances surrounding the divorce. Should you, by speaking ill of your ex-spouse, force the girl to pick sides? In her eyes, to the extent of her experiences with your ex-spouse, everything is pretty much normal. The reasons which may have caused a divorce are not valid reasons for, let's say, not serving your ex-spouse or permanently barring your ex-spouse from the coffee shop.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Professional Therapist&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have an issue? Speak with a professional. Don't speak with your family. Don't speak with the neighbours. Don't speak with the girl in the coffee shop and don't speak with your children. Speak with a professional. A professional is much better equipped to help you in your struggle to make sense of it all but more importantly, it is imperative that you do not inadvertently or deliberately put those people around you "in the middle". You're the one getting the divorce from your spouse, not them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Psycho Ex-Wife&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anthony Morelli gets a divorce from Allison Morelli however he decides to voice his side of the story by setting up a web site called The Psycho Ex Wife. - I'm betting you can see where this one's going. - It is startling to see to what lengths the husband has gone to vilify his wife. He calls her a f**king psycho bitch and says she looks like Jabba the Hut.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On top of it, he has garnered quite a following as others have taken his lead and voiced their own diatribes against their spouses. If I found all this startling, I also found all this disheartening. It is a tsunami of ill will and anger in what amounts to being the most life-altering event anybody will face this side of the death of a loved one. Why make things more difficult for everybody involved?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a follow-up, it seems Anthony's wife eventually found out about his web site and took him to court where a judge, a female judge, ruled that he had to take it down. Anthony is now fighting on the grounds that freedom of speech allows him to publish whatever he wants about his wife. I don't care whether anything Anthony says is true or not; what he is saying about his wife is not the type of thing he should be saying in public. (see &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/psycho-ex-wife-ex-bashing-taken-to-next.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Psycho Ex Wife: ex bashing taken to the next level&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Tricia Walsh&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Philip Smith decides to divorce his wife Tricia Walsh. Tricia retaliates by posting a YouTube video describing her husband's stash of Viagra and pornography and various details about their sex life together or lack thereof. In other words, she tries to humiliate him in front of, well, the entire world. Reports of this web based dust-up were calling it the first divorce on YouTube.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the subsequent divorce proceedings, it seems the judge in the case did not take kindly to Ms. Walsh's negative publicity campaign and if she thought she was going to get a better settlement - she had signed a pre-nup - it didn't work. I have to give a tip of my hat to Philip Smith, however, as he never uttered a word against his wife or talked about the situation in public. He took the high road; that was the nobler thing to do. If you haven't got anything good to say, say nothing at all. (see &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/tricia-walsh-lets-divorce-on-youtube.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Tricia Walsh: Let's divorce on YouTube!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Are you being fair?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your spouse is a @#$%^bastard. Your spouse is a @#$%^bitch. Okay, is this a fair assessment of the other person? Are they an axe murderer? A genocidal maniac? No? Is there any possibility that your description of your soon to be ex-spouse or your now ex-spouse is just a tad tainted with a slight bias? If you need to vent, how about a professional therapist?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the way, I want to be fair. I have heard some stories where the spouse was an axe murderer. Okay, they weren't actually an axe murderer per se but they were a bad person or a crazy person. If you end up in a high conflict situation with a nut job, my advice is to get yourself a good lawyer - no, get a great one - spare no expense and lay in a good supply of Xanax. (see &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/raoul-felder-good-divorce.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Raoul Felder: The Good Divorce&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Are you an idiot?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anthony Morelli says his wife looks like Jabba the Hut. *laughs* What? Jabba the Hut? First of all, I have to laugh at what is patently so not objective but emotional. But secondly, and this is the important point, is Mr. Morelli so stupid, tasteless, or blind to marry a woman who looks like Jabba the Hut? Mr. Morelli, do you have some sort of fetish for ugly women? Are you a pervert to marry a fleshy blob which I guess is supposed to be an alien life form resembling a worm? Now at this point, Mr. Morelli may say he's merely employing a literary device, the hyperbole. However does he not realise that by portraying his wife in such a negative light, anybody would be justified in questioning his sanity for having married the woman in the first place. Was he drunk at the time? Was he high on drugs? Was he out on a day pass without supervision?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Final Word&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are no winners in divorce. I don't care if your settlement is a zillion dollars and you have your spouse locked up behind bars in solitary confinement with a sentence of twenty years of hard labour, you are going to carry around the emotional scare of what may be the most traumatic event of your life for years to come. It's the gift that just keeps on giving but oh how we seem to love to make things difficult for ourselves.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've referred to this several times in this blog but it bears repeating. The sun is going to come up in the morning. There is absolutely nothing I can do about it. I may hate it; I may rally against my fate as the dawn breaks, but the sun is going to come up whether I like it or not. The lesson in this however is that as soon as I accept the sun is going to come up and there is nothing I can do about it, I can move on to those things in my life I can change. Yes, it's all Zen-like and a repeat of the Serenity Prayer, but as stupid as it may sound, it is the truth; it is how the world works. Accept what you can't change and change what you can. I'll wait here while you turn red in the face, steam comes out of your ears and you quietly say to yourself, "Fuuuuuuuuucccccccck!" Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying this is easy to do. Heck, how many times have I paced up and down in my apartment talking out loud to myself as I complain about my lot in life, how tough things are for me and how I've been wronged to the Nth degree?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let me return to the original premise. Bad mouthing your spouse to the neighbours is one thing, but what about to your children? Do you tell your kids that Dad, or Mom as the case may be, is a terrible person? Do you force them to pick sides? After a divorce there is this concept of co-parenting but how can two people co-parent if one is saying bad things about the other? I'm mentioning children here because anybody could argue that the neighbours aren't that important but children? Ah, now that is a different kettle of fish. Yes, you're angry. Yes, you're upset. But that's what a professional therapist is for; not your neighbours, not the other members of your family, not your children. Don't make people pick sides. It's not fair. After all, you're the one divorcing your spouse, not them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;God, the anger I have seen. The hatred, the blind rage. A therapist told me the other day that he watched a couple use their own children as pawns in their drawn-out divorce and subsequent custody battle. Collectively, they had spent over a quarter of a million dollars in legal fees in the course of several of years and still had not yet finished. That is insanity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For the zillionth time in this blog, I will mention Molly Monet of &lt;a href="http://www.postcardsfromapeacefuldivorce.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Postcards from a Peaceful Divorce&lt;/a&gt;. She gets a divorce, works out an arrangement with her ex-husband, becomes friends with him and the two of them co-parent their children. What better example is there for everyone to follow, to strive for, when getting a divorce? Life is going to go on no matter what we do. Why not make it a little less trying?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Postscript&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before publishing this blog entry, I shared it with Annie Parker in order to ask her permission to reference her work. Our exchanges got me thinking and I decided to add a postscript. However, my postscript started getting more long-winded than I had intended and I think it best be left to another post. I will add that some, based on their own particular experiences, may feel my article is impractical, critical or not applicable to their situation. I would like to come back this at a later date. If your particular situation can only be properly labelled as "high conflict", if your spouse is being unreasonable or just plain crazy, admittedly there is only one thing to do: get a lawyer. I would point you to this posting: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/raoul-felder-good-divorce.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Raoul Felder: The Good Divorce&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. And I would add that once one party decides to hire a lawyer, the marriage is over.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Postscript #2 - Dec 14/2011&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ms. Annie Parker of the The Bitter Divorcée has written a response to this blog posting: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://bitterdivorcee.com/2011/12/13/hanging-the-dirty-laundry/"&gt;Hanging the Dirty Laundry&lt;/a&gt; (Dec 13/2011). She is measured and logical and I think not just a little patient with me. A couple of responses have given me the idea that I may be going home tonight to discover my home firebombed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A divorce lawyer, who is divorced himself, told me the other day that in his experience only 10% of divorces turn into major confrontations. That is, the majority of divorces are settled reasonably with both parties being civil to one another. As a glimmer of hope to me, he went on to describe how he and his ex-wife had a nice trip to New York together to visit their daughter adding that now, he and his wife are friends. A glimmer of hope? I added the first postscript to underline the exception to the rule, the exception to anything I was saying in this article: the high conflict, no holds barred, I'm going to see you rot in hell post-marriage catastrophes. Children, on-going alimony payments, you may be divorced, that is, no longer legally married, but you are going to have a relationship with this other person for the rest of your life whether you like it or not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was prompted to write this article by the 14 year old girl who wrote to Annie Parks. Nothing more. It made me think of some of my experiences; it made me think of some of the people I've met throughout my life. I won't be going to New York.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://bitterdivorcee.com/" target="_blank"&gt;The Bitter Divorcée&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;on bitterness, contradiction, culture, and kids&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://bitterdivorcee.com/2011/08/23/dear-annie-mom-hates-dad-and-im-in-the-middle/" target="_blank"&gt;Dear Annie: Mom Hates Dad and I’m in the Middle&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Dear Annie,&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;My parents divorced four years ago when I was ten. My mom doesn’t like my dad. She doesn’t actually call him names or anything, but she is negative about him.&amp;nbsp; I think she would be happier if I hated him like she does.&amp;nbsp; It really bothers me because I love both my parents. I don’t know what to do.&amp;nbsp; Do you have any ideas?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Jen&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Huffington Post - Sep 5/2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/richard-warshak/college-helps-renew-paren_b_943542.html" target="_blank"&gt;College Helps Renew Parent-Child Ties&lt;/a&gt; by Richard Warshak&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Comment from divorcedpauline - Sep 5/2011&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"This exact thing happened to a friend of mine. She got to college, starting listening to other kids talk about their parents, and realized for the first time how her mother had manipulated her to distrust her father. But it hadn't occurred to me this is a common phenomenon with alienated kids. Great piece."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/08/psycho-ex-wife-ex-bashing-taken-to-next.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Psycho Ex Wife: ex bashing taken to the next level&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Hate your ex? Ever have evil thoughts of retribution, hell and damnation? Envisaged fire and brimstone raining down upon their heads? One man has taken his misdirected feelings of ill will and channelled them into an online literary opus of such obsessive focus it would raise the most curious of questions as to why he ever married his ex-wife in the first place.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/04/tricia-walsh-lets-divorce-on-youtube.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Tricia Walsh: Let's divorce on YouTube!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;You bitch. You bastard. It's an emotionally charged time. Do we risk saying things we normally would not say? Do we need a mediator or a counsellor to reign us in, calm us down, and get us back to talking instead of yelling? Maybe looking at what other people do may just give us a better idea of what we ourselves should be doing.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/05/raoul-felder-good-divorce.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Raoul Felder: The Good Divorce&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;In reading about this gentleman, I realised he was not just a lawyer but an expert in the field of divorce. He had been to the front lines; he had fought the battles, and he had been witness to the outcomes both good and bad. ... if your spouse gets a lawyer and here it doesn't matter if you're the man or you're the women, you must immediately get legal representation. The advice is this: you are an amateur playing against a professional. It is imperative you "arm" yourself with the same professionalism and level the playing field. ... once the retainer is paid to a lawyer, the entire nature of the proceedings has changed in both tone and objective and the likelihood of an 11th hour reprieve is slim to nil. That is to say, once one party decides to hire a lawyer, the marriage is over.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dr. Richard A. Warshak&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.warshak.com/divorce-poison/index.html" target="_blank"&gt;Divorce Poison: How to Protect Your Family from Bad-mouthing and Brainwashing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;In this classic guide to preventing &amp;amp; overcoming parental alienation, Dr. Warshak helps parents shield children from the crossfire of divorce and separation.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Amazon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Divorce-Poison-New-Updated-Bad-mouthing/dp/0061863262" target="_blank"&gt;Divorce Poison New and Updated Edition&lt;/a&gt; by Dr. Richard A. Warshak&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Your ex-spouse is bad mouthing you to your children, constantly portraying you in a negative light, perhaps even trying to turn them against you. If you handle the situation ineffectively, your relationship with your children could suffer. You could lose their respect, lose their affections-even, in extreme cases, lose all contact with them. The conventional advice is to do nothing, that fighting fire with fire will only result in greater injury to the children. But after years of consulting parents who heeded such advice with no success, Dr. Richard Warshak is convinced that this approach is wrong. It doesn't work, and parents are left feeling helpless and hopeless. DIVORCE POISON instead offers a blueprint for effective response. In it, you will learn how to distinguish different types of criticism, how and why parents manipulate their children, how to detect these maneuvers, and how these practices damage children. Most importantly, you'll discover powerful strategies to preserve and rebuild loving relationships with your children.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Amazon&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Co-Parenting-Survival-Guide-Conflict-Difficult/dp/1572242450/ref=pd_bxgy_b_text_b" target="_blank"&gt;The Co-Parenting Survival Guide: Letting Go of Conflict After a Difficult Divorce&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;by Elizabeth Thayer Ph.D. and Jeffrey Zimmerman Ph.D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;When couples have children, an acrimonious divorce can be painful for everyone involved. Couples can bear enormous resentment, anger and disappointment toward each other yet they still have to collaborate on one of the most complicated and difficult jobs in the world: child-rearing. Too often the intricacies of visitation, holiday plans and differences over discipline are left to lawyers, escalating the antagonism. Psychologists Elizabeth S. 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Before going to see the film, I read several reviews and yes this term sexual addiction kept cropping up. However, now that I've seen the film I can tell you two important facets of the film. First, there is nothing sexual or even remotely titillating about the story. Yes, there are sex scenes. Yes, the film has gotten a restrictive rating because of the full frontal nudity but there is nothing "exciting" as such. Secondly, there is a theme about sexual obsession, sexual addiction if you will and it isn't pretty, well, addiction itself isn't pretty, but I walked away with the impression that there was more to the story than just addiction. There is a backstory to the main character which is left unexplained in the film but is occasionally alluded to suggesting the addictive behaviour is the outward manifestation of some childhood trauma that the main character has never managed to come to grips with.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Brandon Sullivan, played superbly by Michael Fassbender, is a 30-something yuppie living the good life in New York. However his dark side seems to be non-stop porn and masturbation with a series of quick, unfulfilling sexual liaisons that highlight his complete detachment from any personal relationship. It is a telling moment during a dinner date when he explains how marriage is useless then confesses to four months being his longest relation. You might say that his attitude comes from his addiction but I strongly felt his attitude came from this unexplained childhood trauma and his addictive approach to sex was an example of his immature and undeveloped relationship skills.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How big was this childhood trauma? Brandon's sister Carrey comes to stay with him for a bit and if ever was there a brother and sister relation which had an undertone of weird, this was it. "We’re not bad people. We just come from a bad place", says Sissy. Whatever has happened, it must have been horrible. We eventually see Sissy's forearms and she has tried to cut her wrists not once, not twice, but at least six or seven times. The fact that she has failed to kill herself so many times seems to be very much a cry for help and shows how brother and sister have chosen to deal with their pain however it was caused: Brandon immerses himself in sex; Sissy tries to commit suicide.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While the movie is about the central character Brandon and other reviewers use the term sexual addiction when discussing his behaviour, no one picked up on what others were doing. Brandon's boss is a married man with at least one little boy. In one scene, Brandon's boss is at a dance club slash bar with some colleagues celebrating a win at work and boss, a little drunk on booze and success, tries to pick up a woman, the suggestion is that he does this regularly. He fails but in another scene ends up having sex with Brandon's sister. A woman at this bar offers Brandon a lift outside the club and within minutes is having sex with him outside at some undisclosed location against a wall. The movie starts out with Brandon exchanging eye contact with a woman on a subway. We see she's wearing a wedding ring. While nothing happens then, the movie ends with Brandon seeing the same woman on the subway again and once again they exchange eye contact and once again we see her wedding ring and once again the suggestion is that she's going to end up having sex with Brandon. My point is that while the movie is about Brandon and his questionable behaviour, there are lots of other people involved in what anyone would label as being not normal, risky or outrageous behaviour. It's almost as though Brandon's crime, if there is a crime, is that he got caught while the others have not. Yet. If you go out and get falling down drunk on Saturday night, that's blowing off steam but if you do it, let's say, two or three times a week, well, that's bad. I am reminded of the question of just what is "normal". The boss who cheats on his wife? The woman in the bar who picks up a guy and immediately has sex with him? The wife who dangerously flirts with a total stranger on the subway?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Movie's Rating in the U.S.: NC-17&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Due to the movie's frontal nudity and graphic depictions, Shame has received the most restrictive rating a film can get. In the United States, NC-17 is a rating which stands for no child under the age of 17 will be admitted, the same as Canada's R or Restricted. Apparently such a rating is called the kiss of death for a film as this excludes a huge segment of the market and studios will appeal such a rating in order to get it reduced to R for Restricted. In the US, R for Restricted means children under the age of 17 can attend if accompanied by an adult which is the same as 18A in Canada.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is interesting to note that this rating is reserved for "extreme" films but there is a huge difference between the United States and Canada. In Canada, "extreme" usually refers to violence while in the U.S., it usually refers to explicit nudity. I have to chuckle. This movie gets a rating of NC-17 in the States while the movie Machete (&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/movie-review-machete.html"&gt;my review&lt;/a&gt;), which featured over 70 people being killed, garnered an R rating meaning those under 17 could watch it with an adult. (see my blog &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/censorship-kill-me-but-no-sex-please.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Censorship: Kill me but no sex please&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Sex Addiction&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Review after review discusses the film while mentioning the term sex addiction giving the impression this film is specifically about that condition. Be forewarned that the story, the real story lies off-camera in some trauma suffered by our protagonist during his childhood. I contend that this isn't a movie about the condition of sex addiction per se; this is a film about a man whose emotional life has been completely messed up by whatever this incident was. However I would like to return to this term sex addiction in a separate article. I am concerned that as with this film, the term is being blindly applied to all sorts of situations without addressing the underlying issues. Prohibition didn't solve alcoholism and abstinence doesn't stop abortions. Besides, how can anybody criticize Brandon while ignoring the non-stop salacious going-ons of the other characters in the story?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object width="560" height="315"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/24cjqfVv1fs?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/24cjqfVv1fs?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="560" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Final Word&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This isn't a feel-good film. This isn't a date film. Even if you see it together, I find it hard to believe you'll be sitting around at dinner afterwards dissecting the nuances of the acting. This is the type of story where you say to yourself afterwards, "Holy crap!" and thank your lucky stars that isn't your life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some critics are talking about the film as Oscar material. Good question. This is a well acted, well filmed movie; the type of opus which could capture the attention of those who vote on the best. However this is certainly not what I call a date movie and this certainly isn't the type of film you'll be coming back to again and again. When I was a kid, it was an annual tradition to watch The Wizard of Oz. I have seen things like Star Wars and The Matrix more than once. Somehow I can't quite imagine I'll be coming back to revisit Shame anytime soon. This is a look at a disturbing aspect of the human condition that a normal person wants to avoid. Yes, while you're there, you stare much in the same way you stare at a car wreck as you're driving by on the highway, however it is something, when you think about it, that you want to avoid at all costs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I recommend the film - it is excellent - but I add the caveat that this is an ugly side of life; this is one strange story.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rotten Tomatoes: &lt;a href="http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/shame_2011/" target="_blank"&gt;Shame&lt;/a&gt;: 77%&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Boasting stellar performances by Michael Fassbender and Carey Mulligan, Shame is a powerful plunge into the mania of addiction affliction.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shame_%282011_film%29" target="_blank"&gt;Shame&lt;/a&gt; (2011 film)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Shame is an erotic drama film co-written and directed by Steve McQueen, starring Michael Fassbender and Carey Mulligan. Shame was co-produced by Film4 and See-Saw Films. Shame's explicit sexual scenes resulted in this film being rated NC-17 in the United States.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;official movie web site: &lt;a href="http://www.foxsearchlight.com/shame/" target="_blank"&gt;Shame&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Toronto Star - Dec 1/2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thestar.com/entertainment/article/1095540--shame-will-reopen-nc-17-film-rating-debate" target="_blank"&gt;Shame will reopen NC-17 film rating debate&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;It has generated festival buzz, critical praise and early Oscar whispers. And when Shame is released on Friday, it will also revive a scorched debate about a film rating known as “the kiss of death.”&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oye! Times - Dec 11/2011&lt;br /&gt;Movie Review: Shame by William Belle&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.oyetimes.com/cinema/28-reviews/16266-movie-review-shame#comment-3531"&gt;http://www.oyetimes.com/cinema/28-reviews/16266-movie-review-shame#comment-3531&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;I am reprinting this comment to my review, not because it's complimentary, but because it points out that Shame is not a movie about sex addiction.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Great Review - Movie Isn't an Addiction 101 — amy eden 2011-12-12 09:51&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yours is a great article, thanks. I can already see the rise in articles across the news and entertainment media about "Sex Addiction," and they all reference this movie, "Shame." So without trying, this movie has become the default definition of what sex addiction is. With how unlikely people are to research further, this isn't good! I like the points you make. The guy in the movie could have chosen any other means for numbing himself but happened to choose sex -- just as drink doesn't make the alcoholic, sex doesn't make the addict either. It's the in-the-present-moment-and-all-the-emotions-present-there avoidance that's the driver. There's a scene in which the main character asks his date where she's like to be, past or present -- and she replies, "Here, now." He thinks the present moment is boring - he doesn't want to be Here and Now. And that is probably too subtle for many viewers, but that's a good signal that this person is uncomfortable being, just being -- and that's a good recipe for addiction.&lt;br /&gt;Thanks!&lt;br /&gt;amy eden&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2011-12-11&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/wqbelle" target="_blank"&gt;Follow me on Twitter &lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvjllt5gxI/AAAAAAAAAns/8GFdNjTyiKU/s1600/icon-Twitter.jpg" style="border: 0px none; 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text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-rqZRnMoHkz0/TuQI5xU6WRI/AAAAAAAABTg/6IFMNwavr8E/s1600/BryanAdams-HaveYouReallyLovedAWoman.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-rqZRnMoHkz0/TuQI5xU6WRI/AAAAAAAABTg/6IFMNwavr8E/s1600/BryanAdams-HaveYouReallyLovedAWoman.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by bebetofortal on Dec 7, 2007&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Have_You_Ever_Really_Loved_a_Woman%3F"&gt;Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman?" is a 1995 song written by Bryan Adams, Michael Kamen and Robert John "Mutt" Lange for the film of the same year Don Juan DeMarco. The melody is used as a musical motif throughout the film, and the song is featured three times in the movie, twice performed by other artists in Spanish, and finally performed by Adams himself during the closing credits. The Adams version of the song, which features flamenco guitarist Paco de Lucia, is featured on the soundtrack album and also on the album 18 Til I Die. It was at number one for five weeks on the Billboard Hot 100 in the United States, making it the third number one song for the songwriting team, and went on to earn them their second Oscar nomination.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Don_Juan_DeMarco"&gt;Don Juan DeMarco&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Don Juan DeMarco is a 1995 American romantic comedy-drama film starring Johnny Depp as John Arnold DeMarco, a man who believes himself to be Don Juan, the greatest lover in the world. Clad in a cape and domino mask, DeMarco undergoes psychiatric treatment with Marlon Brando's character, Dr. Jack Mickler, to cure him of his apparent delusion. But the psychiatric sessions have an unexpected effect on the psychiatric staff, some of whom find themselves inspired by DeMarco's delusion; the most profoundly affected is Dr. Mickler himself, who rekindles the romance in his complacent marriage.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Note: The original Bryan Adams video has embedding disabled unfortunately so I've included a different video.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2011-12-10&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; 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text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-bb7leFevKzU/TuIKiqKv3fI/AAAAAAAABTY/JPPwoAvJ8Wk/s1600/TheGirlWithTheDragonTatto-ImmigrantSong.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-bb7leFevKzU/TuIKiqKv3fI/AAAAAAAABTY/JPPwoAvJ8Wk/s1600/TheGirlWithTheDragonTatto-ImmigrantSong.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by SonyPictures on Dec 2, 2011&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Immigrant_Song" target="_blank"&gt;Immigrant Song&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Immigrant Song" is a song by the English rock band Led Zeppelin. It was released as a single from their third album, Led Zeppelin III, in 1970.&lt;/i&gt; (&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nBmueYJ0VhA"&gt;Immigrant Song by Led Zeppelin&lt;/a&gt;: Uploaded by OzWho on Mar 24, 2009)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;In May 2011 it was reported that Karen O from The Yeah Yeah Yeahs had collaborated with Nine Inch Nails frontman Trent Reznor and fellow musician Atticus Ross on a cover version of "Immigrant Song" for the soundtrack to the English-language version of the film The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, for which Reznor and Ross composed the score. This version can be heard over the "red band" trailer for the film for the International release and in the "green band" trailer for the North American release.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Girl_with_the_Dragon_Tattoo_%282011_film%29" target="_blank"&gt;The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo&lt;/a&gt; (2011 film)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo is an upcoming English-language drama thriller film that is the second film based on the Swedish novel of the same name (original name in Swedish: "Män som hatar kvinnor", meaning "Men who hate women") by Stieg Larsson. The first film was the 2009 Swedish-language adaptation. The upcoming film is written by Steven Zaillian and directed by David Fincher. Daniel Craig stars as Mikael Blomkvist, and Rooney Mara stars as Lisbeth Salander. It is scheduled to be released in the United States and Canada on December 21, 2011. In essence, the film follows a man's quest to find a girl who has been missing for 40 years and may have been murdered.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;official movie site: &lt;a href="http://www.dragontattoo.com/" target="_blank"&gt;The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[All about the movie: story, characters, cast, filmmakers, gallery, movie trailer, teaser trailer (with Immigrant Song)]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/movie-review-girl-with-dragon-tattoo.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Movie Review: The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2011-12-09&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; 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src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7AgI-NaU0yc/Tmizm7ksylI/AAAAAAAABHI/kyOqXigj7hY/s220/Seattle.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-bb7leFevKzU/TuIKiqKv3fI/AAAAAAAABTY/JPPwoAvJ8Wk/s72-c/TheGirlWithTheDragonTatto-ImmigrantSong.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-459873339663141424.post-1366388383323443517</id><published>2011-12-07T20:16:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-08T15:01:54.288-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><title type='text'>Sara Bareilles: Love Song</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object width="420" height="315"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/qi7Yh16dA0w?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/qi7Yh16dA0w?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="420" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Head under water&lt;br /&gt;And they tell me to breathe easy for a while&lt;br /&gt;The breathing gets harder, even I know that&lt;br /&gt;Made room for me but it's too soon to see&lt;br /&gt;If I'm happy in your hands&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm unusually hard to hold on to&lt;br /&gt;Blank stares at blank pages&lt;br /&gt;No easy way to say this&lt;br /&gt;You mean well, but you make this hard on me&lt;br /&gt;I'm not gonna write you a love song&lt;br /&gt;'cause you asked for it&lt;br /&gt;'cause you need one, you see&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm not gonna write you a love song&lt;br /&gt;'cause you tell me it's&lt;br /&gt;Make or break in this&lt;br /&gt;If you're on your way&lt;br /&gt;I'm not gonna write you to stay&lt;br /&gt;If all you have is leaving I'm gonna need a better&lt;br /&gt;Reason to write you a love song today&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I learned the hard way&lt;br /&gt;That they all say things you want to hear&lt;br /&gt;And my heavy heart sinks deep down under you and&lt;br /&gt;Your twisted words,&lt;br /&gt;Your help just hurts&lt;br /&gt;You are not what I thought you were&lt;br /&gt;Hello to high and dry&lt;br /&gt;Convinced me to please you&lt;br /&gt;Made me think that I need this too&lt;br /&gt;I'm trying to let you hear me as I am&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm not gonna write you a love song&lt;br /&gt;'cause you asked for it&lt;br /&gt;'cause you need one, you see&lt;br /&gt;I'm not gonna write you a love song&lt;br /&gt;'cause you tell me it's&lt;br /&gt;Make or break in this&lt;br /&gt;If you're on your way&lt;br /&gt;I'm not gonna write you to stay&lt;br /&gt;If all you have is leaving I'm gonna need a better&lt;br /&gt;Reason to write you a love song today&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Promise me that you'll leave the light on&lt;br /&gt;To help me see with daylight, my guide, gone&lt;br /&gt;'cause I believe there's a way you can love me&lt;br /&gt;Because I say&lt;br /&gt;I won't write you a love song&lt;br /&gt;'cause you asked for it&lt;br /&gt;'cause you need one, you see&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm not gonna write you a love song&lt;br /&gt;'cause you tell me it's make or break in this&lt;br /&gt;Is that why you wanted a love song&lt;br /&gt;'cause you asked for it&lt;br /&gt;'cause you need one, you see&lt;br /&gt;I'm not gonna write you a love song&lt;br /&gt;'cause you tell me it's make or break in this&lt;br /&gt;If you're on your way&lt;br /&gt;I'm not gonna write you to stay&lt;br /&gt;If your heart is nowhere in it&lt;br /&gt;I don't want it for a minute&lt;br /&gt;Babe, I'll walk the seven seas when I believe that&lt;br /&gt;There's a reason to&lt;br /&gt;Write you a love song today&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-f3yANZNq7yg/TuA75kk_wjI/AAAAAAAABTA/WJYUJX_i3uM/s1600/SaraBareilles-LoveSong.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-f3yANZNq7yg/TuA75kk_wjI/AAAAAAAABTA/WJYUJX_i3uM/s1600/SaraBareilles-LoveSong.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;References&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uploaded by SaraBareillesVEVO on Nov 7, 2009&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love_Song_%28Sara_Bareilles_song%29"&gt;Love Song&lt;/a&gt; (Sara Bareilles song)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;"Love Song" is Sara Bareilles' first single, released in 2007. She has stated during live performances that it was actually written in response to her record label's request that she write a "marketable love song", rather than about an actual person. It was nominated for 2009 Grammy Awards in the categories Song of the Year and Best Female Pop Vocal Performance. It remains Bareilles' biggest hit single in the USA to date, and remained on the Billboard Hot 100 for 54 weeks, becoming one of few songs that managed to spend a whole year on the chart. It also spent many, many weeks atop the Hot Adult Pop Songs and Hot Adult Contemporary Tracks charts, ending up #1 at the year-end tally of both charts.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Little_Voice_%28album%29"&gt;Little Voice&lt;/a&gt; (album)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Little Voice is the debut major-label album by singer-songwriter Sara Bareilles, which was released on July 17, 2007. "Love Song" was selected as the first single.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia: &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sara_Bareilles"&gt;Sara Bareilles&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Sara Beth Bareilles (born December 7, 1979) is an American singer-songwriter and pianist. She achieved mainstream success in 2007 with the hit single "Love Song", which brought her into the number one spot on the Billboard Pop 100 chart. She has sold over 1 million records in the United States alone and has been Grammy-nominated three times. In the current third season of NBC's The Sing-Off, Bareilles is a celebrity judge alongside Ben Folds and Shawn Stockman of Boyz II Men.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2011-12-08&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/p/site-map.html"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOGod8JUHpI/AAAAAAAAAmI/wTOnNBirErU/s1600/icon-SiteMap.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;Site Map&lt;/a&gt; - William Quincy Belle&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvmITXHV9I/AAAAAAAAAnw/wvFrcz7TPMs/s1600/icon-Blank.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/wqbelle" target="_blank"&gt;Follow me on Twitter &lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_aKdpllywR0k/TOvjllt5gxI/AAAAAAAAAns/8GFdNjTyiKU/s1600/icon-Twitter.jpg" style="border: 0px none; clear: left; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 0em;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/459873339663141424-1366388383323443517?l=wqebelle.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/feeds/1366388383323443517/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=459873339663141424&amp;postID=1366388383323443517&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/1366388383323443517'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/459873339663141424/posts/default/1366388383323443517'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/12/sara-bareilles-love-song.html' title='Sara Bareilles: Love Song'/><author><name>William Quincy Belle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14337095766556949027</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='26' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7AgI-NaU0yc/Tmizm7ksylI/AAAAAAAABHI/kyOqXigj7hY/s220/Seattle.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-f3yANZNq7yg/TuA75kk_wjI/AAAAAAAABTA/WJYUJX_i3uM/s72-c/SaraBareilles-LoveSong.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-459873339663141424.post-4686579602102944586</id><published>2011-12-07T08:00:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-13T11:53:41.174-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Castle (TV series)'/><title type='text'>OMG! I've turned into a Castle junkie!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-6h85XCDpjRo/Tt6zhjJjZfI/AAAAAAAABS4/ZxSEb-1jr10/s1600/Castle-TVseriesLogo.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-6h85XCDpjRo/Tt6zhjJjZfI/AAAAAAAABS4/ZxSEb-1jr10/s1600/Castle-TVseriesLogo.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;i&gt;Warning: The following posting is about the television series Castle. If you don't watch the show, this probably won't mean anything to you.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I admit before a higher power that my life has spiralled out of control these past few weeks. Are there twelve steps for my road to recovery? Have I now hit bottom? Of course, now that I have gone through every single episode from seasons one, two and three having already watched season 4 up to now, what else remains to be watched? Is there anything else I could possibly do to sink any lower? Oh, I know. I'll start from season one and watch all the episodes all over again. What!?!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As you may or may not know, I don't own a TV. And since I don't own a TV, I'm not paying for cable. Hmph, think about those monthly savings! On top of it, since I don't own a TV, I don't own a couch. This is bare to the bones, OTG (off the grid), minimalist living. When you have to reorganize your life, you have an opportunity to reassess your priorities and heck, wasn't I watching too much TV?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nevertheless, the Internet does provide a lot of alternatives. (see my blog: &lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2010/10/internet-tv.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Internet TV&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;) If ever there was an example of the new world order, I'm living it right now. I have discovered that all the major networks have web sites offering up their latest fare. Yes, there are commercials just like regular TV but I'm not paying for cable and I haven't bought a television set. Of course, this isn't as nice as a fifty-five inch flat screen plasma TV in high definition but when it's free, you learn to accept compromises.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Over the past few years, I, like a zillion other people, have tuned in to the on-going comedy slash drama slash romance of the television series Castle. Some time ago, I had discovered some clips from the show on YouTube and was delighted to relive some of the funnier and romantic moments of this relationship between the protagonists, Richard Castle and Kate Beckett. Is Castle going to tease Beckett to death? Is she going to succumb to his roguish charms? And mixed up in all this is the weekly solving of a murder where the two of them unravel the mystery surrounding the episode's opening scene of finding a dead body.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Looking a little further, I found that people have posted entire episodes of the show. Heck, not being one to look a gift horse in the mouth, I started rewatching some of the earlier episodes. After a bit, I started bookmarking the clips so I could track what I had watched and then systematically went through every single episode from seasons one, two and three. Oh boy was I hooked! Of course, all this was on YouTube and I can't claim any of these clips were high definition or even worthy of viewing at full screen but as I said, when it's free, you learn to make compromises.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But, but, but considering that I managed to view every single episode from seasons one, two and three, I was wondering and still wonder if there isn't a copyright violation here. It did turn out that some clips had been taken down with a notice from YouTube about copyright violation but there were many, no a ton, which remain up and accessible by anyone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Rewatching the same thing over and over again&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Okay, back to me turning into a Castle junkie. If you're an aficionado of the show - maybe diehard fan is a better term - you rewatch clips much in the same way anybody listens to a favourite song over and over again. You enjoy it, right?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Association of Psychological Science in the August 10, 2011 article "&lt;a href="http://www.psychologicalscience.org/index.php/news/releases/spoiler-alert-stories-are-not-spoiled-byspoilers.html"&gt;Spoiler Alert: Stories Are Not Spoiled by ‘Spoilers’&lt;/a&gt;" talks about the phenomenon of spoilers, knowing how a story is going to turn out ahead of time but still enjoying the story.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;A favorite tale can be re-read multiple times with undiminished pleasure. A beloved movie can be watched again and again.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;“Stories are a universal element of human culture, the backbone of the billion-dollar entertainment industry, and the medium through which religion and societal values are transmitted,” the researchers write. In other words, narratives are incredibly important. But their success doesn’t seem to hinge on simple suspense.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Castle and Beckett have been playing a cat and mouse game of romance for the past four years. Everybody, and I mean everybody in the audience, in the precinct, in Castle's own family know that Castle and Beckett are in love with each other but still, they both hesitate to act on their feelings. And when one or the other does make some tentative move to declare themselves, something happens to put the kibosh on the proceedings. Oh my God, the romantic tension is so, well, delicious!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Some Favorite Scenes&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First of all, having just gone through every episode probably more than once, I could list dozens and dozens of scenes which are funny, romantic or both. I'll restrict myself here to 3 specific moments about Caskett. FYI: Brad and Angelina: Bragelina. Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez: Bennifer. Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes: TomKat. Castle and Beckett: Caskett.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Kiss&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In season three, episode 16, the "Setup", Castle and Beckett kiss for the first and so far, only time. I have this bookmarked and have watched that clip, oh let's say, about a zillion times. I'm sitting here writing this thinking to myself how much of a complete idiot I am. For crying out loud, it's merely a television show. I've turned into one of those stereotypical drooling fanatics who pines over every minute of a daytime soap opera then reading every magazine for further analysis of the inner workings of their characters.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object width="560" height="315"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/rxVnGBswKwY?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/rxVnGBswKwY?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="560" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Shooting Practice&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In season three, episode 4 "Punked", there is an absolutely charming and hilarious funny scene at a shooting range. Beckett is having trouble solving a case and blows off some steam by doing some target practice. Castle follows her and what happens is just, well, really, really funny. It shows off Castle as the annoying and charming little boy having so much fun in the midst of what is supposed to be serious, very serious police business. But then, when it comes down to the crunch, when Beckett thinks she's going to put the little boy in his place by giving him a task he can't possibly perform, Castle turns around and shocks Beckett to no end by succeeding where by all accounts he should fail. Is this just blind dumb luck or is Castle really better than his little boy image?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;FYI: At one point, Castle pulls the trigger early and completely misses the target. He says, "Whoa! Shot too soon." Beckett replies, "Yeah well, you know, we could always just cuddle, Castle." Okay, a premature shot: what better sexual innuendo could anybody want?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object width="560" height="315"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/4AlrfK9A9xM?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/4AlrfK9A9xM?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="560" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Love Letters&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In season three, episode 5 "Anatomy of a Murder", Castle and Beckett are trying to solve a mystery by reading a boxful of love letters penned by a man and a woman. At one point, Castle reads aloud a letter written by the man to the woman: "I don't believe in much but I believe in us. And no matter the obstacles, no matter how hard you try, you'll never get rid of me. I love you."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The next part of the scene is, well, absolutely delicious. Beckett is listening to Castle with a look that says that she's enjoying the words. Beckett then looks at Castle. Castle has this sly grin which means that he isn't just reading the letter out loud; he's adding his own meaning to the words as a tentative declaration of his own feelings towards Beckett. Beckett then realises what Castle is trying to say and turns away slightly shocked. Castle, realising she has not accepted his indirect declaration, tries to cover up what he realises is a misstep with Beckett. What is so funny and so tender about this scene is that it would make you think about two teenagers trying to work out their very first love affair ever, in their entire life. Instead, we're watching two adults, two grown-ups, having exactly the same problems as anybody has. Funny, tender, and oh so delicious. Talk about a vicarious thrill. Ha, no wonder we like the movies, TV shows and yes, the soap operas.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;object width="420" height="315"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/1wVaJddiheo?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/1wVaJddiheo?version=3&amp;amp;hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="420" height="315" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Music&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One good thing about rewatching all the episodes is that I have discovered a lot of great songs. I had no idea how the makers had incorporated some really good music into the show all to great effect. I have posted some of my favourites with links to YouTube clips showing where in the show the music was used, that is, where I first heard the music. The following list represents my postings from the past couple of weeks showing the music video for the song with complete lyrics plus references about the song, the album and the artist. And I mention in which episode of Castle the song was used.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/11/amp-fiddler-if-i-dont.html"&gt;Amp Fiddler: If I Don't&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What a fabulous song and the original music video for the song is just quite original. Ya gotta see it! - This was used in season 1, episode 4, "Hell Hath No Fury" at the very end of the show when Beckett gets angry at Castle about his choice of name for the female detective he's going to write about based on Beckett.&lt;br /&gt;Beckett: &lt;i&gt;What kind of a name is Nikki Heat?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Castle: &lt;i&gt;A cop name.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beckett: &lt;i&gt;It's a stripper name.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Castle: &lt;i&gt;Well, I told you she was kind of slutty.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/11/colbie-caillat-fallin-for-you.html"&gt;Colbie Caillat: Fallin' For You&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My discovery of this song did not come from the show itself but from a fan video. Somebody put together clips from the series showing this on-going romance between the show's protagonists along with the music. I thought it made a good montage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/11/bittersweet-get-what-i-want.html"&gt;Bitter:Sweet: Get What I Want&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In season 1 episode 9 called "Little Girl Lost", an old flame of Beckett's shows up and stirs the pot with Castle and Beckett. The clip (you're a mysterious woman - castle 1x09) shows the very end of the episode when Beckett announces she has a date but does not give any details. When Castle is intrigued by her reticence, she replies, "Maybe there's more of Nikki Heat in me than you think." This song by Bitter:Sweet is the fade out and perfectly captures the feeling of the moment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/11/daylights-i-hope-this-gets-to-you.html"&gt;The Daylights: I Hope This Gets To You&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This song has an interesting story to itself. The composer posted this on YouTube wanting to see how long it would take for his girlfriend to run across it. Apparently it took 48 hours.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In season 3 episode 9 called "Law &amp;amp; Murder", Castle pretends he has never seen the movie Forbidden Planet to trick Beckett into taking him to the movies, an unofficial date. The clip (Castle Beckett 3x19 "That's it, I'm taking you") shows the two of them getting on the elevator with this song playing in the background. It certainly captures the hope of something happening between us and the hope that message gets to you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wqebelle.blogspot.com/2011/11/golden-state-love-song.html"&gt;Golden State: Love Song&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In season 2 episode 12 "A Rose for Everafter", Castle runs into a former girlfriend played by Alyssa Milano. Beckett may be jealous but it turns out there's nothing to worry about; Castle and former part friends. The final scene, though, has former leaving the precinct and saying to Beckett, "He's all yours now". This telling moment in this on-going cat and mouse between the two protagonists of the show is nicely accompanied by this song.&lt;
